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so it happens to everyone, no s_x until ur postnatal checkup...and weve gone thru about 3 of those weeks. and my bf seems to be getting really antsy(3 more weeks to go) so my question is how did yall hold thru it? he said that he would hold back from doing anything unless it was by me so im holding him up to it. but he seems to be needing it bad so im curious is this just a phase or does it last until he can actually have s_x again?
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My husband was like that after we had our daughter. I think it was almost like he wanted to lay claim to my body again, after everything he'd seen done to it in the hospital he wanted to make it his again. You're probably pretty tired from taking care of your baby, but if you have the energy, you can do something to him...handjob or oral...just so he knows he's still important to you.
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i know i can do stuff and i do. but by the way hes acting u would think hes dying. i used to be the one who couldnt go without it but now i dont even think about it. i was induced and i told him we should do it the night before bc it would be awhile but he didnt want to, so its his fault there was an additional week added on to thie 4 until my appt.
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You do not have to wait till your 6 week checkup before you can begin having s_x again. If you feel like your body is up to it go ahead and give it a try, if it begins to hurt just stop and calm down and try again another day. They actually say its better to try before the checkup because if theres any problems or questions about how somthing felt or did you can ask your Doctor. We began our s_x lives five days fater I delivered and everything was fine.
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i had to have st_tches tho, i dont know if that matters or not tho.
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If you man loves you as much as he says he can wait! If not you can do other things to cure him...do I need to describe? Buy a Kama Sutra book or a Cosmopolitan Magazine! Or to make him stop thinking about s_x treat him to a movie, or a full body ma__sage or him favorite meal dish.
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Nicole, I know I didn't wait until my 6 week appointment to start having s_x again, so here are a few tips I have for you: Make sure your st_tches have fallen off and that you aren't still bleeding. If you are still sore, then s_x probably won't feel good, and you should wait. If everything is fine, then MAKE SURE YOU USE PROTECTION. The last thing you need is to be pregnant by your checkup, which happens often. Good luck to you.
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