Scared Of This Happening To Me
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I know this may sound really stupid considering all the pain of childbirth; but I am really scared of deficating while I give birth. I am not allowing anyone near my va___a except the doctors when the baby comes out because I am so afraid of my husband and mother seeing this....
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I was afraid of that... At the moment im 26weeks pregnant.. I have spoken to my mother and boyfriend about things. and we have decided that the best thing for me is just to have my boyfriend there with me, (im a b___h when im in pain) lol. But I didnt want him to see it if i did a poo of the bed. But he told me he didnt care... so we have started to do things, like experiment with a___l s_x.. and when we have had mishaps, he just doesnt care, he cleans everything up. and gives me a nice big kiss and cuddle, he told me that he loves me for all of me, including all the yucky stuff, he is really sweet about thing.. Yeah and regarding your mum seeing... Dont worry.. She changed your nappies for a few years too... she wiped your bum.. think of it like that.. and think of it. maybe the same thing happened to her when she had you. I dont think she will care. Mums dont, there cool. :)
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It's completely normal to deficate a little bit, or a lot while pushing the baby out. While it is embara__sing, the doctors and nurses see it all the time. I actually think I did but I was in and out of consciousness. If so no one said anything. And the doctors tell you to push like you are having a bowel movement. Good luck though and if it happens just remember it's normal.
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