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when you have that baby which is NOT going to be small, coming out of a VERY small hole, you are going to want it OUT OUT OUT! and you wont care weither you were on national televison or not, you are going to be so focused on just making the pain stop and pushing him/her out that you really wont think about it. i know you said not to say that, but hunni ITS SO TRUE!! and really its a doctor looking down there, no one else (unless the dad will be) and he or she has seen a billion and half of the same things every day! yours is no different then the person who gave birth 20 minutes before you. and as for the dad, if he watches he will be so shocked at how your doing what you doing and watching the "baby" that he will forget what hes "really" looking at. and well if nothing i said helped.. then heres my last one.. you dont have a choice..that baby aint staying in there forever and someones gotta be there, so someones gunna see. really you'll live :) and when you see your baby and hold them. you will fall straight in love and would be willing to do it a thousand times over again :)
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you wont care, i didnt, the pain is so much and the natural force so strong, you wont care, i renember thinking at the time i dont care if im on tv or in the middle of town, weve been there, you wont care
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Renae, I too am super shy, - and I know you didn't want any "really, you won't care" responses, and I just wanted you to know I totally understand! I had my baby three months ago, and went thru the whole labor bit - and YES I still cared. People act like you turn into some sort of wild animal or something, sheesh. Anyways, I made sure the nurses knew beforehand that it was very important to me to be kept covered, and they were very willing to cooperate. So just talk to the people who will be working with and around you - they will respect your wishes, I promise.
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