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hello tina, so sorry about your bleeding, hope you have some news soon, get plenty of rest, i went in the bath this am, when i got out could not feel my b___bs sore at all, for about an hour later they were still not hurting, i c___ped my self as i thought my symptoms had dissapeared, but they have come back, i think the warm bath had soothed them if that makes sense. im sick and tired of not been able to enjoy this pregnancy as all im expecting is my 5th loss, not exciting, ........baby dust sprinkles ....... xxxxx take care tina xx
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I'm so sorry about the bleeding, Tina. I hope they are able to tell you one way or the other today. I know how hard it is. The uncertainty is the worst. I had a miscarriage on Sat. I knew it was going to happen ( or had a strong feeling) I've been through this before (this is my 5th m/c). But you can't ever lose hope. I have 2 beautiful boys to show for my hope. & now I'm hoping & praying for a little girl. So, don't give up...stay strong. If it can happen for me...it can happen for anyone. Take good care of yourself & don't overdo. If you need to talk, my email is Krisa70@twcny.rr.com.
Teigan...Congratulations!!! I'm praying for you. Fingers & toes & everything I can think of, is crossed for you! Good Luck!
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Teigan, thank you, it probably is the warm water soothing your b___sts and your body may be becoming used to them. ENJOY YOUR PREGNANCY! I have spent the last two and a half weeks wondering, lying in bed, instead of enjoying that I was pregnant, so I know what you're saying. I pray that you and your little one will be o.k. I pa__sed about an hour ago what looked to be the fetal sac, it was grayish in color and veins and I kept it to give to the doctor, I have an emergency ultrasound at 12:15 today. I'll post later, after.
Baby DUST TO YOU TEIGAN! Keep that little one in there! They say that if you see the heart beat then your chances to miscarry decline drastically, so keep that in mind!
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aww girls thankyou so much for your very kind and encouraging words, its lovely to know that people who dont even know you care about you even if they might be going through a realy rough time, i feel for you both i really do, i have lost 4 i have had six pregnancies in total and am lucky enough to have a gorgeous little boy who is 4, people say i should be grateful that i have one which i am, but im desperate for another, other people get them who dont even want them, so why cant we have another!!,
tina i feel so sorry for you, and hope you are back fighting fit soon ready to try again, and krissy i hope you get the little girl you have always wanted, sometimes life just isnt fair.
i know of a girl who is a smackhead, she has 2 gorgeous little girls and 1 on the way, bot her little girls had to spend 3 months each in hospital when they were born as they were addicted to heroin, and now she has done the same to her unborn baby, so why does she get three babies... is there
a god?? sorry im ranting. gets me sooo angry..
sprinkling lots of special baby dust for all of you in the forum, and i have to say you all are the friendliest in here, others eat you alive so thankyou xxxxxxxxxxx
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Ok, now I'm really confused, what I thought was the tissue from the fetal sac was only a blood clot, there has been very slight bleeding, and the ultrasound showed a gestational sac slightly smaller than last week. Nothing else. The blood test won't be back until tomorrow, so i guess I don't have a definite answer until tomorrow, although my heart knows what has happened, my mind doesn't want to give up. I want to justify and try to come up with reasons why this may not be a miscarriage. Teigan, I agree with you, sometimes it seems so unfair that others get so many babies when they don't truly want them, not as much as some of us do. But I do know in my heart of hearts that God has a plan, even if we don't know what that plan is, I do know too that you don't believe in God, which is fine, we're all ent_tled to our own feelings and beliefs! SOmetimes I wonder why he's punishing me so much. I have good days and bad days, today is a horrible day, even though I'm excited to know that I CAN get pregnant, which wasn't even in my mind months ago! Sorry to rant and rave and rattle on. I'll post my hcg level when the dr. office calls tomorrow! Thanks again for the kind thougts and words!
Tina
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with my kids my hcg was too low to find my pregnancy till i was 2 to 2 /2 mos along and with my younger my hcg was low enough they thought i would miscarry and then it spiked and all turned out ok good luck to all
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to tina... im confused too, does this mean you are still pregnant or what does it mean, when your hcg results comeback i suppose that will let you kow either way wont it, it feels like your just been left on a thread, my midwife phoned yesterday and told me i am a very high risk pregnancy and i will have a consultant every other week, just the words high risk scare me. because i know it could be all over soon, but then again i supose anyone is like that not just me.. i hope you get some good news today or when ever it is, im not to sure where you are ie.. uk or us or what, so i post at different times to others, but ill keep coming in to see if you have posted xx
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In May, I had a D&c after 8 weeks of pregnancy due to a blighted ovum. My husband and I are newlyweds and trying to get pregnant. Well, with that pregnancy, it only took one attempt to get pregnant. Happily, it took only one time to get pregnant again this month. Sadly, though. I was a week late, had a + HPT, then got my period. I went to the Dr. and had 2 blood tests. The first showed hcg at 12 then 14 (two days later). Dr.'s want me to take another. I thought I had already miscarried it and figured I could TTC again. If its still there, though, who knows how long it will take to come out. This is very difficult for my husband and I and very hard on our relationship. This is a crazy rollercoaster after another and I hate the waiting between tests---its torture. If its going to end, I just wish I could know immediately and not have to play the waiting game. I so want a baby just like all of you, but I'm scared that maybe I'll never be normal. It saddens me to think I will never be able to habe a baby. Its nice to know I'm not the only one going crazy over all this. People tell me to not worry, or next time just don't do a HPT, or that I just obess over it. I hate their comments. I just really want this. I hope to one day be holding my healthy baby in my arms. I'll be praying for you all to have healthy babies soon.
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Yes Teigan I miscarried, the hcg level was only at 6250 this week, after being at 9020 last week. I'm in the process of bleeding and pa__sing clots right now. Not very attractive I know! LOL Terrie, have they checked your progesterone levels when you have the HCG levels tested? Some women have low progesterone levels and their body can not sustain the pregnancy. Have they or are they going to do genetic or chromosomal testing for you and your husband, to be sure you're compatible? I don't know all the answers, as this is my second miscarriage too. At least now I know I can get pregnant without fertility drugs. I know if I do get pregnant again, I am going to ask them to do the hcg levels right away, tests, two days apart and check my progesterone levels. I am single though, so chances of me getting pregnant now are slim to none, unless you believe immaculate conception will happen again! LOL Hopefully, someday soon I can meet someone and try to get pregnant again, I've always wanted a baby. There is no pain with this miscarriage and it's slightly different from a period for me.
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Hi, I went to the doctor today and they said my hcg level was low for being 5weeks along. The level was in the 120's. I am to go back on Monday to see if they have doubled. I havent hadn anymore spotting since Wednesday. Im hoping everything turns out ok.
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hello all... tina i hope your well again soon, and not going through any pain, i think i have another urine infection, but not to sure, i have a stabbing pain on the left side just above my pubic bone, is this where my bladder is or is it normal, cant remember any symptoms or problems i had with my little boy, infact i had none, it was a perfect pregnancy. hope you will be trying again soon tina, after all that is the fun part, ( hope you find someone soon ) lots a love and take care all xxxxxx
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| N - August 27 |
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Dear Ladies - so sorry to hear of more of yor losses! it is amazing that technology is not yet sufficient to give us the help or at the least the answers! Teigan - really great news about the heartbeat - have been thinking of you but back at work now and no time to log on. Hope the pain subsides / water infection clears up soon. Best wishes and I hope the consultant keeps a good eye on you. Make sure you send me a picture of No.II next year when I hope I will have news for you! N x
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hello all, hello N thanks for your kind words, im fine, just very very sick, morning sickness all day, i have another scan on friday, ill be nearly 7 weeks, i had to stop my self from buying booties today, i know it sounds strange but im scared im tempting fate, i know if something is gonna happen it wil regardless of booties, but this feels different, i feel pregnant for a start, with the others i never have.. is this a good sign, N i will deffenatley send you another pic of baby no 2, if he/she is half as gorgeous as reece i'll be over the moon.. good luck girls xxxx
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| Sam - August 30 |
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Hello everyone. After reading the posts I feel a little bit better. I found out that I am pregnant about 2 weeks ago. First my hcg level was 138. Three days later my HCG level was 33. My midwide immediately told me that I am going to miscarry. She did not give me any medical advise. She didn't advise of how long I would take to miscarry, to stay on bedrest, or about the prog injections. I spotted for about 4 days. However I didn't pa__s clots. For the past 4 days I have not spotted or past clots. I scheduled myself for an ultrasound. I've called my midwide 3 times and she hasn't returned my calls. At this point - I'm praying. Feel free to email me at Sam2179@sbcglobal.net
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Sam - have you considered replacing your midwife with either a new one or a doctor for the support you so need right now? I have a midwife - she told me my levels were somewhat low but to stay positive - that was four weeks ago and now we have a heartbeat and I'm in my 8th week - sorry I never did get a second reading of my hcg levels after the second u/s - my first one was 907 at 4 weeks and 2 days. Take care of yourself and hope all works out for you and little one.
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Yes, I have considered replacing my midwife. I go get my first u/s this morning. I really want an understanding of whats going on with my body. Today I'll get some answers. Thank you for taking the time to respond. I also wish you well for you and your family.
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