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Ok I know how old you are. How old is your BF? maybe now that the reality of a baby is hitting him he is scared. It's not easy being a parent and is terrifying to a lot of ppl. Especially young men. I am only 24 so not criticizing your ages at all. He should have thought about this before you guys went ahead and got pregnant though. He now knows that this is a life changing event that will affect him forever. He knows that he is the father, he most likely is so scared he wants to run but feels badly about wanting to run. If he keeps arguing about aternity, have a court ordered test. If he still doesn't want to be responsible by being there, he can still be financially responsible since he helped make your baby too. I am married but may as well be single cause my hubby doesn't help with the kids or barely spend any time with them. Thats not good either. But please don't feel like life is horrible and give up. You seem like a strong young lady and will be a fine mother regardless of your bf's choices. My mom raised me and my sis alone and we have our normal issues but we are fine and you will be too. It's not easy but you don't need to stress yourself out right now. Maybe you could take a short break from each other for a few days or something. Think about you and the baby and how happy your little one will make you and you make him. I really hope that it all works out for you and your bf gets some sense knocked into him. Have you tried talking to him about it calmly? perhaps he needs to talk about how HE feels about being a dad. GL hon.