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tariro tyne margolis - March 14

hello. i had a miscarriage nearly three weeks ago and i was 11 weeks 2 days. i had s_x a few days ago and am afraid i might get pregnant so soon because my doctor told me to wait for 6 months before trying. what are the risks of getting pregnant this early? please help.


annataylor1 - June 5

Hey Tariro. How are you doing? I am feeling very sorry for you. Well, my dear, this is totally unfortunate for both of you. I am feeling very sad about you. My dear don't get afraid. This is just your perception. Things will come to you at the right time. Well if you get pregnant early then there is really no need to worry about it. Stay positive and positive will came to you. 


Rachel966 - June 5

Good luck with your plan dear. I hope this will be a success for you. I was infertile due to hysterectomy cancer. I was cancer free after sometime but it resulted in my total infertility. My husband decided that we will go for surrogacy to have a child. here in Japan surrogacy is prohibited. So we moved to Ukraine for surrogacy. There we found a very good clinic which is best for its surrogacy. We started our surrogacy journey at that clinic. Clinic founded a good surrogate for us. Then we went through the whole process and everything was just perfect. Now our surrogate is pregnant with our twin daughters. We are so happy that we will finally have our baby with us.
We will be flying to Ukraine once the clinic let us know the delivery date of our surrogate.
This is the story of our surrogacy journey.


monikadavid - June 5

Hey, I hope you are doing well. I am extremely sorry to hear about your MC. It must have been extremely difficult for you to cope with this. Be strong! If you are pregnant I am sure there will be no side effects. However, doctors do advice that one should wait. After an MC the woman is the most fertile after 6 months. Also, they say this so that all the excess bloodsheds during this time. My advice to you would be to visit a good doctor and ask for his/her advice. They will try their best to help you. This has been my own personal experience. One should always visit those who are experienced and professionals. They basically care for their patients. Don't worry. Stay positive and hope for the best.



So sorry to hear about your loss. Take your time to grieve. I know it's not easy to do. But, yeah! I know how MCs drain a person. I've had personally been through these thrice. So, I can relate a lot. Anyway! Seek your chances. Discuss it with your obstetrician. You'll be fine. Don't hesitate or run fast into anything. I'm checking my chances via IVF. Yeah! Can't-do naturally though. Anyway! Stay blessed! xx


wellspring1 - June 12


So sorry to hear this, Don't get afraid of getting pregnant, if you want, you can take time before getting pregnant again. As during miscarriage you undergo through huge loss and your internal body also get damaged or weak enough. So its better take some time, get stronger mentally and physically.
Don't worry and stay positive.


flora12 - June 22

Hey there! I hope you're feeling better now. Miscarriages are the most terrible thing a woman can ever suffer from. There isn't any pain greater than the pain of losing your unborn baby. I can feel your pain as I've been through your situation. Well honestly, there isn't anything better than you getting pregnant again. So, don't be afraid. God is making your sadness go away and giving you an opportunity. Be happy and pray. Not everyone is as lucky as you. I know after a miscarriage the body becomes weak but hey? You have to take good care of yourself this time. Have a proper healthy diet and eat vitamin capsules. You're a strong woman. Good luck! 



Hi there. So, sorry for you lose. Yes! You're OB is right! It's always prescribed to wait for around 6 months before trying again. I've had 3 Mcs in past. So, I know stuff! Now, this next month I'm going via IVF route in Kiev. Anyway! that's my story! Don't be disappointed! You can try again. Stay strong! You will be a mother soon. I understand it's not easy. But, totally worth it. If you want to talk, I'm here. Would love to help. :)


Anisa28 - June 22

hey! Don't lose hope nor be sad. Everything would be alright soon. I wish you would become a mother soon. I can understand your situation. Miscarriages take a lot out of a woman. I have faced a miscarriage due to uterine polyps disease. The most painful thing was I didn't know about that. I was so disappointed when I came to know that I can not give birth. I did not lose hope. I started searching for something else than getting pregnant. I came to know about surrogacy. Surrogacy was like my last hope. I went for it to a reliable and renown clinic. They provided me with a match and a healthy surrogate. They also provided me with all the facilities. The surrogate gave birth to a healthy baby. I am a happy mother now.


HarlyJames - June 22

hey there Friend. I hope you are doing great. I am really sorry to hear about your mc. I know it must be hard for you. However please don't give up things will be better. It's better I think to follow your doctor's advice. What he is saying makes complete sense. There is no need to hurry. Maybe use some protection. I hope you get what you want soon. I hope you stay strong. good luck. Love and support. I will look forward to hearing a good news. A lot of prayers for you.


Stephine648 - June 23

Miscarriages are the worst nightmare for women. I also had 3 miscarriages. I was pegnant thrice after many years of TTC. But all my happiness vanished with miscarriages i had. Now i am married again and i want a baby badly. I have contacted a clinic for my surrogacy journey. Soon we will start our surrogacy journey in Ukraine.


lily12 - June 24

Hey dear. I am sorry for your loss. The doctors are right. You need to care for your self now. Once you get a good health then try to conceive. Don't worry you will have a baby soon. Take your time. Good luck.


lizzyjordan4eva - June 24

Hi there. Hope you are doing fine. I read your post. I am so sorry that you had to go through this. I feel so bad for you. Miscarriages are so hard to cope with. I hope all goes well for you in future. Take care.


lizzyjordan4eva - June 24

Hi there. Hope you are doing fine. I read your post. I am so sorry that you had to go through this. I feel so bad for you. Miscarriages are so hard to cope with. I hope all goes well for you in future. Take care.


Britney69 - June 24

Hi tariro, hope that you are fine. I am feeling sorry for what happened to you. After an MC woman is most fertile after 6 months. But don't be afraid. Think positive. Being positive is very important in life. Sometimes life is unfair. Just don't lose hope. Good will come to you. Best of luck and have a blessed life ahead.


annataylor1 - July 10

Hey Dear. I am feeling sorry for your loss. I don't think so there is any need to worry at all. Because if you are feeling good, so there is no problem in conceiving again. Hope so you understand what I am trying to say. Well, hope everything is ok with you. Best of luck.


lindaswank - July 10

Hey Dear. Hope so you are doing fine. I am here to be a part of your grief. This is really unfortunate. My dear, you should consult with your doctor regarding your condition you describe above. As only your doctor can give you surety, whether everything is fine or not. hope so you understand my opinion.



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