14 And Going To Get Pregnant

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Jazzy J - April 7

im 14 and i really wana get pregnant... my boyfriend wants a baby too and we ve decided to try.... i need advice cus im scared but i know it\'s what i want so i am going to try it..... someone please tell me what i should do

 

Grandpa Viv - April 7

Your mom should by now have told you the facts of life. If she has not, give her a gentle reminder. Tell her you want to know all the details. GL!

 

mom0f3 - April 10

Grandpa Viv, you are telling a 14 year old it is okay to have a baby??? are you off your rocker?!! Jazzy J, You are only 14 years old, why do you want to have a baby? How are you going to take care of this baby? feed it? diaper it? clothe it? Do you have a job? How old is your boyfriend? Does he have a job? Where are you going to live? How are you going to go to school? Do your parents know about this decision? How are you going to get medical attention for this baby (shots,checkups.. etc)? You are just a baby yourself, how are you going to support this baby? Babies cost a lot of money. I am 30 years old I have 2 children with another on the way, but I am married and I have a FULL time job and so does my husband. I finished school and went to college also. I had my first child at 18 and let me tell you it was the HARDEST experience of my life! If I could go back and change things, I would have done things very differently. I LOVE my oldest child, but it has been a very hard life for me. My child is only 3 years younger than you, she is way to immature to make those kind of decisions just as you are. You have your whole life ahead of you, do not have a baby until you are better equipped to deal with actually having a baby and the financial supporting of that baby. You are too young to have a baby, get a puppy or kitten.

 

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