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I'm 44 and I just found out that I'm pregnant. I'm a little excited, but mostly scared. I have a daughter who is 16. My boyfriend and I were definitely not trying to have any kids, so this is a surprise. He has told me that he does not want any kids and now I'm pregnant. I have not told him yet...I dont know what to say to him. He is not going to pleased and I'm afraid that I will lose him when he finds out. Of course, it will be my fault for being pregnant.
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How will it be YOUR fault for being pregnant? It takes TWO to make a baby so he is as much to blame for the situation as you are, as I'm sure you did not force him to have s_x with you. It is your body so if you want to keep it, don't let him talk you into an abortion. It's easy for a man to say get rid of it, but your the one that will have to kill a part of yourself NOT him. I think you should be honest & tell him, at least you will find out if he truly loves you or not by how he treats you after he knows. Goodluck & I hope everything works out the way you want.
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Ditto to what E586467 says. It takes 2. Give him some time to be upset by the circ_mstance after you've told him. I'm sure it'll be just a big of a shock to him as well. But most guys do come around once the shock has worn off -- even if they didn't really want kids, a lot of guys will step up and accept the responsibility.
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