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I wish I could help. I am in the same boat you are. We go sometimes three weeks without touching then he'll rush through it and go back downstairs to watch t.v!

Have you tried talking to him? Make sure your letting him know how you feel. My husband will get tired or stressed sometimes and just want to be alone watching t.v./playing videogames to relax. Even though he's always willing&ready when it comes to s_x. After 15years with him I still have to remind him from time to time that I need more affection/attention than he does. Really the only thing you can do is talk to your husband. Maybe he thinks he'll hurt the baby??

My best friend's husband won't have s_x with her when she is pregnant.. He just can't preform it freaks him out... MEN ???? try getting some books on pregnancy for guys.. show him he can't hurt the baby.. let him your feelings as well. some guys just freak out.... the presure kills them. try taking a weekend trip..buy some s_xy outfits..try to make him forget about the pregnacy for the night.. hope this helps :(

thanks for your responses, i tried last night he came to me, he make love to me but just when i was enjoying it he releases and that's the end, it really pains me i hissed and hit him

this is just not good.... if you can feel him about to c_m...stop him or try to mess up the rhythm.. you guys really need to talk...

I was always told that you can grab his you know jewels lol and pull them down when he is about to and it will stop it, or you can squeeze the bottom of his p___s (mainly gripping the vein that runs below the p___s and it stops it as well...or you could have him pull out before he knows he is going to, play with you a little (keep you in the mood and start going again

it's 6 days now he didn't even make any attempt to touch me not to talk of having s_x with me, is this not going to affect me when i'm about to put to bed pls i need more advice pls.

I'm sure you've been with him for a while. I'm sure you know his little signs and ticks. When he's about to release, don't be sneaky and try to make him stop from coming. Just tell him, "I'm not ready yet. Can you hold on longer?" I don't know much about the situation, though. How often did you have s_x before you were pregnant? Does he have a habit of premature ejaculation?

soo sorry sweetie... don't know what else you can do... did you try talking to him??? I guess you could try getting a s_x toy... if not for yourself... it may make him feel left out... maybe make him want to try harder.. I really don't know... did you have s_x often before???

I wasn't telling her to be sneaky about it, if that was the case I would have said be sneaky lol...DH loves when I do that...he sometimes even tells me when to do that because he loves the feeling of being right there and then starting over. Nothing sneaky about that, DH even does it himself sometimes

Did you ever think that he is stressed or is thinking about it to much? I am as far along as you and my hubby said to me that when he gets like that its cause he can't focus...he wants to SO bad but its hard when he has so many other things on his mind....ie: the baby, work??? But the rush away....maybe he feels weird like the other girls said. Play with him let him know you are in the mood...get him all excited....its more fun both ways....try and ease him up....you make him know its okay..show him..

well, i talked to him, i lay my worries and concern to him, if it's about having so many things on his mind no, if it's about tiredness or stress at work i also work the thing is i don't know it's 2 weeks now we had no s_x and i need it badlymy fear is that if he decide to come arround he will turn me on and once he releases that's the end what should i do to make him stay longer on me i really want to have a longer s_x i need to be worked on it's really been a very long time i don't want that 4 minutes s_x of a thing nerdy tell me what to do or is it that i've to get him some drug or what

When I was pregnant, for several months my boyfriend just could not finish and we would try and try and I was really starting to feel inadequate lol. We were finally successful and had no problems after that first time. My daughter is now three and I'm just finding out the reason was he was scared he would hurt the baby. Some men don't seem to comprehend that they can only go but so deep.