Scared Possibly Pregnant And I M In College

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worriedoutofmymind - March 29

I slept with 3 people in the last 2 months or so. On March 2nd, I had intercourse with a friend of mine, and he used a condom (they ALL did & I am also on birth control pills, but I tend to double up more than I should because I forget), but this guy was the first one to ever finish inside of me. I know he has a condom on, but this really freaked me out, because I never let any guy do that and he did it before I could say anything. What if there was a minuscule hole in the condom or something? I've taken 2 pregnancy tests at home (14-15 days after s_x), and I went to a clinic to get another one done (23 days after s_x) because I was freaking out so much. That was a urine test too, and all three were negative. But I do know that it could be too early to detect any pregnancy hormone, so I'm not feeling comforted. I had my period around March 6-7th, so after all 3 of the guys I've slept with, it came. However this really only comforted me about 2 of the guys, since the 3rd was only 4 or so days before that period. I know it's still possible to get your period if you are pregnant, so again, still worried. I've recently been having slight cramping and I'm not supposed to have my period for another 2 weeks. I'm freaking out because I'm only 20, in college, parents fully support me and if something like this were to happen to me they would completely disown me. Can I really be pregnant? Isn't it too early to start cramping if this was my period? (Also, my belly has been bigger/I've been bloated but I've also been a college kid and been eating horribly these past couple of weeks. Could that be a part of it too?) PLEASE, PLEASE HELP ME. I've been a complete wreck

 

Grandpa Viv - March 30

This is a pretty unlikely pregnancy scenario. Four days before your period you are not fertile. Between the pills and the condoms the chances are negligible, and you are getting negative tests anyway. Now you are mid cycle and perhaps noticing ovulation cramps for the first time. College is a great time for experimenting with new freedoms, but take care not to overdo it. Never have s_x with more than one guy in a single cycle - it's awful when you don't know who the father is. Tighten up on that pill schedule - a cell phone reminder or a habit of taking it with bedtime tooth brush. Insist on a condom every time, and better to provide it yourself so you know it has been stored properly. It's OK to let him finish inside in the week before your period is due - pull-out is not real satisfactory for the woman either. Seems like you might be getting a reputation on campus - also not cool. GL!

 

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