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I want a vibrator, but I am worried about what my husband will think. I dont want him to think that I dont enjoy s_x, which I do, but I guess, I am anxious to try it out. I never had one before. Is it bad mentioned it to him? Will he be offended? Anyone share to comment?
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Hi there...my husband bought me a vibrator and he loves playing with it on me...(altho we havnt since i got pregnant!) Its also nice to get him in the mood as many guys like to watch girls having fun with themselves :) Try asking him whether he would like the idea.. I dont think ive met one guy that hasnt liked the idea of a girl playing with herself ! Its a good turn on ! hehe
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thanks! I'll give it a try
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I say DO IT!! It adds a little excitement to everything and I agree with Chris, I bet he will love it! You don't have to use it every time you are together...you can just slip it under his pillow every now and then and surprise him when you guys go to bed. Good Luck!!
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I agree Chris......I have two and we use it together. More before I got pregnant but its enjoyable if you make it a together kind of thing. and he also might get turned on by the idea of you wanting to spice things up
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can you use a vibrator when your pregnant or will it hurt the baby?
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Id say theyre fine, altho gently is probably better. If you think about it, its just like a p___s and theyre safe :) Some books do say be careful in last trimester tho, and probably best not to if you have a case of placenta previa (low lying placenta near cervix) .
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I agree, it's just like a p___s so no I don't think its unsafe durning pregnancy, just be gentle seeing as though you are pregnant. But have fun!
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but the vibrations. that wont affect the baby? that is what I am concerned about. what are your thoughts?
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i've looked online and found that most vibrators are clearly fine during pregnancy..maybe if your causious then dont put the level up so high...but this is what i got off a site....If using s_x toys is a normal part of your s_x life, there should be no reason for you to stop using them if you have a healthy, uncomplicated pregnancy. Just take care to keep any s_x toys clean and don't mix orifices!......which basicallly means to keep the vibrator clean....other than that..i dont see anythign online when i google that would cause an issue....iff your still concerned..how about talking to your doctor about it on your next visit...goodluck
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i suggest talking about it too him so he can get used to the idea about bringing it into your s_x life so you can experiement together.
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