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Okay,I have a questionWhen is a girl considered to be a s___t by other girls?For those not understanding my question,There are so many teen girls on here trying to get pregnant,and sleeping with everybody and their brother,but then they turn right around and call other girls whores.So,what makes a whore a whore?2 s_xual partners?3?Is the 15 year old girl any less of one because she is in a "committed" relationship,versus the 18 year old who sleeps with a different guy every week?I just don't understand.Now,I am not calling anybody these names,I just want to know what gives someone the right to do it,when they are doing the exact same thing.Why,do they say these things when they are doing it too?It sounds very hypocritical.I will give you an example.......My best friend was dating this guy,and he kept pressuring her to have s_x,she finally said no one too many times,because he got mad and went and slept with an ex-girlfriend,getting her pregnant in the process....Well, a few months later,this girl emailed my friend and called her a s___t and whore and a bunch of nasty names,while she was sitting there pregnant out of wedlock!Needless to say,we got some laughs over that,calling someone names like that when you are sitting there pregnant.Does anyone else know why they do this?Once again,I am not calling anyone these names,nor am I "judging" I honestly just want to know.
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well, to ME any guy OR girl who sleeps around a lot is kind of s___tty. i have two lovers, both which i've had a s_xual relationship with for the past 3 years. i have a lot of s_x, s_x is my PASSION, but i don't have s_x w a lot of people. you know? there's a HUGE difference. i get mine, lol, trust me... but i don't get it from a lot of different people. and a random person? psh OUT OF THE PICTURE. but i hate it when people call just any random person a whore. so he's wearing jeans that have holes in the b___t... that doesnt make him a s___t! geez... you know? i don't get it! it seems EVERYONE is calling EVERYONE a s___t. it's just weird!!
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A s___t, now a days, has nothing to do with your s_x life at all. You could be a virgin and still get called a s___t. You could sleep around with a million different guys, if you're a likable person no one is going to call you a s___t. They might think it, but they'll smile and tell you you're just "a s_xual person and there's nothing wrong with that." Slut is just an insult and all insults are the same, regardless of their meaning. Every insult just means "You're p__sing me off and I don't like you."
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yeah, that's true amanda17. it's insane! my ex boyfriend was called a s___t the other day and i was the only girl he's ever slept with! i was like, "uh... are you people on DRUGS?"
no one calls MY ex boyfriend a s___t. shiiiit...
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brenna: i think you're on the wrong boards. this isn't the teen boards. this is for pregnant women asking about s_x. oh, but being pregnant out of wedlock doesn't make someone a whore either. and imo, and i'm not attacking anyone specifically, a whore is someone who has s_x for leisure. that's not what it's for in my opinion. and that, if read to quickly, will seem like an attack, but i mean like social s_x. you do it just to do it. too touchy. i won't respond if anyone says i'm attacking them because i can't put it into words, but i'm not. i think i have to agree with amanda. it's all in how well that person is liked.
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i agree w teddyfinch. in my opinion, a whore is any man/woman who has s_x b/c he/she wants to feel 'loved' or 'wanted' or is doing it to take his/her mind off of serious issues he/she doesn't want to face.
i dont think people who go out looking for s_x b/c they're h__y are whores. they're just s_xual people... like me! haha.
s_x is an amazingly beautiful thing but it isn't there for a distraction!
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well, i love it too lol. (although i'm on pelvic rest *sob*) i only do it with my hubby, of course, but for me it's not just the physical feeling (although sometimes i wish i could have a day long O ) but the emotional feeling as well. i feel closer to my husband than i can get any other way.
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oh, definitely! s_x with someone you love is AMAZING. the intensified mental stimulation it provides also provides a very amazing PHYSICAL stimulation. haha *wink wink* i mean, a guy i know well but i don't really LOVE can give me 15 orgasms in 20 minutes (looove when that happens) but at the end of the day, i'm picking the guy i LOVE!! haha.
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i don't think i could survive 15 lol! i'd be the dead little lub spot on the ground in the corner lol. but yeah, even when we just kiss, i still get the goosebumps and the chills and to me, sometimes, that's almost as good as s_x. d__n i chose a good one! lol.
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I didn't post this on the teen board,because I didn't want a bunch of crazy people coming after me lol,no really, I just figured everybody would jump on me for judging.I am not trying to offend,I just really wanted to know.There are a lot of the same posts here that are on the teen board.So what in your mind is sleeping around a lot?I'm not saying that just because you get pregnant you are a whore,but in this particular situation,in my opinion it was true.Do you think a prost_tute is a whore?Anyway,I suppose it is true,about how the person is liked,with regards to what they are called.But I would be really angry if someone called me that,because obviously I'm not,(only had s_x w/husband.)So anyway,thanks for trying to clear this up,
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in response to brenna - well a prost_tute is a professional whore, lol. i mean it's his/her job. they get paid to have s_x, technically, that makes them a whore. but does that mean they may be viewed as a whore? probably. because, well, they ARE lol. but does that mean they're bad or loveless people? no...
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haha YES, 15 orgasms in a row is amazing! at first i could barely handle that many b/c my c___t would be SO sensitive but in a great way! i could barely walk b/c every time i would move my legs, it would feel so great yet so... weird! lol. but there comes a time where enough is ENOUGH. if he doesnt get off in time and i've had too many, that's too bad for him! lol "better luck next time, baby." or, "we'll finish later." haha...
and my vag gets SO tight when i come, i hurt him! i feel bad about that, yet i don't lol. i should probably stop doing my vag exercises lol.
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brenna: oh i absolutely believe a prost_tute is a whore. there are other ways to make money. i mean strip for goodness sake. you make good money and you aren't ruining your body! and i realise there are other ways aswell, but i mean stripping is considered to be so taboo by people and yet it's still better than hooking. **strix** uh yeah lol.
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I forgot to say she did have gross herpes breakouts about a month after she was tested positive...and she kept sleeping around!
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yeaaah that is pretty gross! but i have worse - my ex boyfriend (who i seriously did NOT know this about until a few weeks ago) has slept with over 200 women!! ALL I CAN SAY IS - NASTY!! supposedly, he was lonely and wanted love and blah blah and i was like, "so you let 200 women USE you?" like... that's a lot. that's MORE than a lot that's extremely excessive lol. and just disgusting. everyone makes fun of him now and i feel bad for him but i don't, he was asking for it. he was sleeping w nothing but s___ts just like himself! i'm just glad that i'm 100% clean... at least i got out of that in time! lol.
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klas: lol her reasons were kind of amusing. like when a guy tries to explain his cheating by saying "hey i'm a man and i have needs".
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