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Wow Anna, that means you only had a 11 day lp? How is your flow? Are you having bad cramps etc? I hate this for you! I plan on taking clomid one more month and then my dr. wants to look further into things(testing) if i'm not pg after this next cycle. Listen to me, already getting ready for next time! Well I know she's coming so it's ok for me to think ahead already. Becca, I joined twoweekwait.com so maybe I can see that pic now. waiting for my confirmation..
i have a Q? do any of you have what feels like a twitchy muscle where your uterus should be right before af shows? I do everytime! It feels like my uterus is going to jump outta there!
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Hello ladies - I'm so sorry it's been so long since I've checked in...but I have been diligently popping in to read how you were all doing as you all were definitely in my thoughts. I just didn't know how this first trimester was going to go so I didn't want to burden you all with that - I had two u/s in the last four weeks, with the second one finally detecting a heartbeat, but they could not get a count. Therefore, I had to go in for a third one today so they could get a definite reading. I was a little worried because each time I went in for an internal u/s I always had slight spotting afterwards, which I was a__sured was normal (by friends, but not the dr.). Needless to say, it still threw me for a loop because when you wait so long for your bfp you just don't want anything to go wrong when it does happen. Plus, the measurements were always a week behind what I was suppose to be so that had me concerned. Well, today the technician barely said two words to me during the u/s, didn't mention the heartbeat, how many weeks along it was measuring or gave me a picture. I was so mad (as was dh) that we immediately went to the RE's office to complain that we were given no information and were treated so rudely. My RE made them fax the u/s results immediately and pulled us into her office. She began by saying, "It doesn't look good, not good at all". Apparently there is no longer a heartbeat and the baby has stopped growing at 7 weeks. I should be 9 weeks 6 days today. I'm just so floored as I wasn't expecting this news since there's been no real signs of anything wrong. Dh and I are just devastated. Apparently they want to wait a couple days to confirm again by u/s and then schedule a d&c for the end of the week. Right now our world is so upside down we don't know what to do with ourselves. I just wanted you all to know - especially since Tonia you had just mentioned you wondered how I was coming along. I'm sorry I couldn't have popped in with more positive news...please say a prayer for us as we're having a real difficult time right now. I hope you all receive your bfp soon and have healthy pregnancies. This is such a heartache to go through. I miss you all and once this is behind me I will diligently start ttc again. Baby dust girls....xoxo
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Oh Bing, I am so sorry. I know you are oing through alot of emotions right now and I wish I could take away some of your pain. I will pray for you and dh......please come back and talk to us anytime, we are all here for you. ((((HUGS))))
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Oh my god bing, I am so sorry :( I don't know what to say, I'm so sad for you and dh right now. Please let us know how the next u/s goes. My prayers are with you all.
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Bing, I am soooo sorry. I can't even imagine what you are going through. I will definitely say a prayer for you & your DH.
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Bing - I'm so sorry. I wish I could give you a hug. I will say a prayer for you. Please come back if you feel okay. We're all here for you.
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Thank you so much girls...it means a lot to me. It was just such a b__w to us since we expected to go in for a normal appt., not to be told we were losing our baby. I never imagined that after having waited for a year to finally get my bfp that when it finally did happen it would be just taken away so quickly. You all know what we go through....the months of the clomid, testing, iui's...it's torture - especially when it's just bfn's every month. I feel like I'm at square one again. I guess I'm grateful that I was actually able to get pg, but I hope I don't have to wait another year for it to happen again. I guess it's just not my time right now. :( Anna - I'm sorry you had a bad day today too....it must be going around! I hope one of you gets to be the announcer of good news in the next round of testing...I'm dying for some GOOD news! Tonia - are you the first tester? Friday, right?
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Bing, I think Staci is due to test earlier this week! BUT yes I am going to start testing on Friday! I am a glutten for punishment, OH I better get some tests ordered!
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Yeah tonia! I'm happy that you are testing early...I love the early testing! It is so exciting!
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Ummmmmmmmmm heck ya it is exciting! : )
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Oh, Bing, I am so so sorry to hear what happened. Words can't express... but, I know many many women who m/c their first time they get pregnant (my mom included), and then go on to get pregnant again in only a few months later and the baby goes full term! Almost like our bodies need a test run or something. I know that it doesn't help your pain, but I really think your chances of concieving again are very good. At least you know it can happen for you, right? If you need to vent or cry or whatever, we are here for you and we're praying for you!! Tonia, you are going to test on Friday? Wowzers! I'm only 3 days behind you. That makes it seem like the time is going quickly.
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OMG! I'm so ready for some news! I am getting sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo ancy I can't stand it! I'm at the point in my cycle where i just want to get this wait over with! So did any of you read my Q above? about the twitching? Well I have another, when you are close to af and you have the big O, do you cramp up a bit? Now i'm getting little twinges here and there. Man I just want to know sooo bad i can't stand it! will someone please tell me if Im pg? LOL! Anyway, Tonia I sooo hope this is the lucky # 13 for you! wouldn't that be so cool if her prediction about that # came true? Man i sure do want to poas so bad! i used all of mine over the weekend! to embarra__sed to go back into the store to buy more, the same people work there alll of the time. Well i gotta go wake ds up, he took a late nap. Oh and the school called today and he got accepted into preschool! yayyyy!
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Staci, awesome news about DS' school! Hey staci, do you buy $ store tests? Do they ovulation tests too? Do this, to prepare yourself for the next cycle, go buy 3-4 OPK's and slip in an HPT or two! hehehehe Yeah, Becca, it does seem to be moving right along. i am sure it helps that we all are NOT on the same schedule so we can have different excitement at all times of the month!
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Staci, I've never noticed any twitching in my uterus. Do you think that your twitching is stronger this time? Can you post your chart link again (when you get a chance) I lost your link...I should just bookmark it:)LOL. I love ordering tests online and that way I don't have to face the embarrasment of the cashiers! Staci, I think that you should send your DH to buy you some tests...heck even get your DS to run up to the cashier with your purchase haha...that would be hillarious! Staci, I think you should test again tomorrow with FMU...please! Pretty please!!
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http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/c5a49
There it is, I don't think it's looking pretty. I will really know for sure by tomorrows temp if she is coming. It never fails, once it starts dropping it doesnt' stop. The twitching is a little stronger that usual, but that prob. means i will have a mean AF! I dont' know why it does that, has ever since i've had dh. Dr. didn't seem worried about it. Checked me out and said he didnt' feel any ma__ses etc. (guess they can cause that kind of symptom?) I'll prob. order some tests this time. i want to get a test, but i know i shouldn't. so i prob. won't. Tonia, no they don't have opk's, wish they did!
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Staci, you're right, your chart doesn't look too pretty today but if you get a high temp tomorrow then I would say "TEST"...Of course I would say that! I say that all the time! Keep your chin up and hopefully AF says very far away! I would be so frustrated if I were in your position...ovulating...waiting to see bfn or BFP!!! the days must be going really slowly! See, i'm never actually in the TWW so I don't really have that suspense...maybe this time though *fingers crossed*
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