Two Negative Test Still I Have Some

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laughtillyoucry - October 1

I am sometimes late for my period, but not this late (1 week)... I have two home pergnancy test ( both negative), my br___t are sore, I am so tired all the time (which is not me at all) I can take a three hour nap and still be tired :-/.... I am nervous that I might be pregnant, not sure how I would tell anyone, especially my fiance. I have been nausated on and off, I have had headaches on and off, my br___t are so sore it kind of hurts to move... I am not on birth control :-/... and I we don't use condoms, but we are always very careful... I'm at a loss on where to go from here... no one to talk to about it really... everyone one would be ill at me (or at least I think they would). Please any advice would be much appricated... also have been having a little pain in my lower back and a abdomen (not like period pain)

 

Grandpa Viv - October 1

Take another test a week after the last. All the signs sound like pregnancy. How about peeing more, vivid dreams, acne, appet_te and smell changes, stuffy nose etc? Why would telling your fiance be a problem - he owns 50% of the situation. Be brave!

 

Pleasepreg - October 1

You're not on birth control and you don't use condoms. Which part of that is being careful? Not quite sure what you expected.

 

laughtillyoucry - October 1

Yes I know it is not being careful..... I'm not stupid but we do withdrawal...... Yes I'm peeing a whole lot more than normal, I've been having dreams about babies and one about a sonogram..... Yes my nose is stuffy and I am not sure about telling him only because I'm a person who does not handling telling people stuff very well.... I do have acne.... And I'm hungry all the time it seems.... I lost my father in April of this year and am worried about my being depressed affecting a child if I am pregnant....... Yet another reason I am worried about telling people.... I also have a discharge from my b___st.... Maybe I'm not pregnant and maybe I am but your right, if I am it is my own decision for not being careful.... Sorry I even posted in here I was just scared and found this site and decided I wanted to ask someone.... Thank you for the advice "Grandpa Viv", and thank you "pleasepreg" for letting me know that I am stupid.... Much appreciation!

 

Pleasepreg - October 2

I may come across harsh, but it's about time women realised what s_x is about as there are far too many 'accidents' happening and unwanted children being born, or even worse, terminated. I have been married 8 years and have been on BC for over 9 because my husband and I were not ready for children until now. I only came off BC when we were both ready (had to wait for hubby a bit longer, LOL), but that's what being careful means. I'm blessed that I caught so quickly as we are not in our prime any more. If you are old enough to get engaged, you are old enough to know better, but you come across like a stupid, lovelorn teenager. I don't know the rate of teen pregnancies in the US (I a__sume you are there), but I very sadly come from the UK, which has the highest rate in Europe. So is it any wonder people like me roll their eyes when yet another idiot gets themselves in that position? And our taxes go to helping these little darlings. I may have opened your eyes that there are people like me, but this forum has shocked me at the amount of people who believe in the famous failure of prevention called the 'withdrawal method'. Yes, you're scared, but you have a loving fiance, it's not like you're out there alone. You probably are preg, but if you're not, think yourself lucky and get some BC now! And I am sorry about your father. Terrible thing to happen to anyone.

 

laughtillyoucry - October 2

I'm not pregnant, I started my period today. Best of luck to you and yours. I am 23 years old and I have been engaged since December 2010 and I have been with my fiance for almost 5 years. And this is the first time I have gotten worried about anything. But I have learned my lesson about posting in here. Will not happen again. Hope everything goes good in your life! :-) have a great day!

 

Grandpa Viv - October 2

Laugh - happy for you. Sorry you ran into some judgemental feedback. It serves no purpose.

 

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