15 And Very Possibly Pregnant Anybody Have Advice

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Clare_5295 - April 5

I have been dating a guy for over a month, and some things led to another, and we had s_x... We used a condom and it wasnt broke, to my eyes or his. But I was supposed to start two days after wards, and I didnt. Im used to missing, but now my second period hasnt come on time. I'm really freaking out. My mother trusted me to practice abstinence for this exact reason, and I failed her trust. Even worse, My boyfriend asked me about abortion because neither of us are ready in any way for a kid. I'm afraid of abortion, and dont want to purposely miscarry it. I'm afraid my mom will hate me at first, and he told me his parents would fight with mine if they found out I really was. I havent taken a test yet, but the signs are ominous and I can only pray I start my period within the next week, or I'll have some deep hated from his parents... Can anybody give me advice, if, assuming I am +? I dont know what to do......

 

Grandpa Viv - April 5

The only time you had s_xual contact was two days before your period was supposed to come? That is not in your fertile window, but since you are accustomed to missing, that may not mean much. Tell what signs you have, and take a test. For some reason I doubt you are pregnant. GL!

 

Clare_5295 - April 5

well, I counted my days out, and my days I was expecting to start never did happen, but then another week went by, and I didnt think about it... we ended up doing it again bc I was really sad and he cheered me up by doing that... So If my conception date was between Mar. 16 and 23rd, I just dont want to think about it, it freaks me out so much... I am just so used to my periods being normal for 4 months, go haywire and go back to a state of normality. But I dont know why I am irregular bc according to my doctors, I have perfectly good numbers for my blood. I've heard that a womans cycle goes from 28-35 days, but Ive sometimes lasted longer. I started when I was 11, and Ive had one to two and a half days long of periods, so I am just hoping youre right. :)

 

Grandpa Viv - April 6

You are not talking about any early signs of pregnancy other than a missed menstruation. How about unusual PMS-type signs like fatigue, peeing more, lotion discharge, appet_te, smells, cramps, backache, emotions, dreams, acne, headaches, hot flashes, stuffy nose, b___bs and nips, veins, heartburn, diarrhea, constipation etc? Get brave and take atest using first morning pee. I think it will be negative. GL!

 

ilovehim143 - July 6

me and my boy friend has had s_x 4 times with no condom but i do take birth control my period came early this past time because i forgot to take the pill june 1st and got my period june 2nd. my reg period is usually around the 12th. we had s_x about june 16th. i have not had my period yet. i still take my bc becuase im still not sure. i feel nauseous, tiredddddd. my back hurts my b___sts are slightly sore and veins show. they are slightly bigger and i have a slight belly bump and a little discharge. i took a test today and it came up very light negitive. im guessin if i am prgnant im about 5 weeks now.. any opinions?

 

chick264 - July 17

hey,, i havent come on my period in 2 months and about 3 weeks ago i had most of the signs for pregnancy and i still havent come on but yet again i have had negative pregnancy test result i really dont no what to do i really want a baby and will be very disappointing if i am not please can any one help

 

NJTCRT2005 - July 30

I am looking to adopt but adoption agencies are like 30k and i dont have that kind of money so if you are pregnant and thinking about adoption please reply or email me at njbcrt2004athotmail.com I am 26 married and have been for 5 years

 

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