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I would really like to know why everyday I want a baby more and more...I feel empty and I know that its the baby thats ment to fill that spot. But everyone is telling me im to young. If so then why do I feel this way at this age?
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It's nature's way for you to feel like that. Unfortunately the world has changed. Being the wife of a peasant farmer and mother of 11 kids is no longer where it's at! Your life expectancy is double what it would have been a century ago, or is in some other lands today. You can afford to take twice as long pa__sing through each stage. Take it easy - look around and do some enrichment so you have more to offer your kids when the time comes. Good luck!
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Yeah i feel the same way too. When you feel like no one else will be there for you in the world, it creates a sense of belonging. Like you have someone who will always love you no matter what. Im also 18 n confused. well 17, 18 in August. But i feel more ready then ever. Its just well, in my situation. I dont think that i will ever be granted that overwhemling sense of joy, becuase i am in a lesbian relationship. One which i believe ill be in forever. I know exactly what you feel like. Its so exact, and feels so much better knowing someone else feels it too. But true, hormones plays a role in wanting a baby. But there is a difference in a 13 or 15 year old wanting a child, compared to a legal adult. And if you have the house, the money, and the love. Why not?. If you belive that your going to be able to give the child the love and life it deserves, and you are sure that the father is going to be there for the rest of his or hers life. Then i say go ahead. But as for myself, can someone help me out??? . what do i do. My partner and i both have jobs, mines not full time but hers is. We rent a house by ourselves, and have family all around us. What do i do. What will change her mind about having a child
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Hey! Well... I am the girl that filled the spot. I was 18 just like you and I really wanted to have a baby at the time. So I met a guy and I got pregnant. To my surprise, the guy didnt leave and i'm still with him. Now my son it two n half. So the story? well to make it short. It was hard as hell untill I made it into college. I was on a__sistance and I was using food banks. It was so expensive and I was not financially stable. I finished highschool before my son was born, but I did it while I was pregnant. But yeah It was very hard untill I got my student loan. Once I got the student loan, I was able to afford everything. I still have another year of school. But hey it's really hard to have a child. Most of my friends left because they were and still are in the party scene. A child is so much work you have no idea. When he was born I had to have a c-section so it was really painful after. even b___st feeding can be very painful. So if your up for makeing a lot of sacrifices and you have all the time in the world to dedicate to your child, then well. Have one. But remember when you have no money and your baby needs something, its the most craziest feeling ever. I borrowed a lot of money to survive. But anyways hopefully this helped a little bit with your decisions.
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I felt that way when I was in HS too. I remember telling all my friends that!! Let me tell you, that feeling is not only natural, but it pa__ses. Live your life for you now while your young...when you get older you can live your life for your child. Even at 30 I am having a hard time dealing with an almost 2 year old and a successful marriage. I am glad that I got to be a teenager and also enjoy my 20's. Now that I am 30 I have my family to focus on and I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything.
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