19 Pregnant And I Can T Keep The Baby
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Hey everyone. I just found out that I'm 17 weeks pregnant almost reaching 18 weeks. I didn't even realize it at first because I have GERDs which makes me have nausea and vomiting and my tummy disguised the protruding belly. I really didn't want to believe it at first and I was thinking of an abortion because I know that I can't handle it and I have other obligations to a hospital that I am bonded to. I have a lot of financial difficulties. The doctors I've been to keep on telling me to keep it because it's a life. I understand that it's a life but I also feel terrible that I wont be able to give it the proper life it deserves. The moment I saw the ultrasound scan I felt distraught. I can't tell my parents. I don't know what to do. I've already booked an appointment for an abortion. But I honestly don't know what will happen next. I've been so stressed out for the past few days that it's been cramping and moving about. It only stops when its dad sings to it and puts his hand over my belly. We both love it so much but we just have too many obligations now and I've been depressed. I dont even know if it's healthy because I take xanax and a whole lot of other medication. My best friend told me that I should at least tell my mother and that she might actually be more supportive than I think. But I can't risk breaking my family up because of my selfish untrustworthy act.
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Stop beating up on yourself. This is a decision that almost all women confront at some time in life. You must handle it according to your own value set. The points you make are well taken. Adoption is another solution, and that is one of the choices you could discuss with your mother. Mail me if you wish, and we can chat more. GL!
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What about adoption? Have you thought of that option?My husband & I adopted our son last Feb. & would love to adopt more...If you need someone to talk to, you can ask anything you like or email me at jadecoleman42 at yahoo dot com
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Hi. So how about that adoption. We are another waiting couple that would love to talk to you about it. And so are hundreds more waiting to adopt. God bless and good luck to you and your baby. I'm at janapalenik at yahoo dot com.
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I agree look into adoption
Most teens stress themselves on how their parents gonna react when it usually don't go as bad as they think and make a decision they will regret the rest of their life im really against abortion google abortions and it will break your heart and think if your baby deserves to go through that thanks to your actions think about it through sweety
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Hi! Don't stress out. Take it easy. Look for a good friend that can help you go through this.
We are a family looking to adopt. Let me know if you need to talk if interested in adopting. E mail me contact at paulaandsimonadopt dot com.
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