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Ok granted that we are sitting next to eachother right now and i could juss talk to you but this is irritating and you know i can't let this go by without saying anything...i still love you and you know that... Teens at any age are responsible for their own actions, and to judge them like this isn't what they need...honey your 17 and pregnant look at the people that are maybe 20 that think you being pregnant is like a sin. honestly you made the choice to have s_x with the baby's daddy and look where your at now? your crabby yes but your also happy. so look at the bigger picture here sweets, the teens that get pregnant at a young age are happy, they may be scared but they know what they did, it's their choice to have s_x. It was your choice to have s_x and you didn't expect to get pregnant but look at you now!! The best thing to do is juss support those who make their decisions. granted it may drive you crazy but you need to get over the fact that 14-16 get pregnant. some are by accident and others want a baby. granted that things wont get any easier but they don't always get harder either. i support anyone at ANY age that wants to be pregnant or gets pregnant. So give it a rest about you being irritated. think about how you felt when you found out you were pregnant. i'm pretty sure you were scared cuz you WOULDN'T even tell YOUR parents when you found out so don't go critisizing others about not telling their parents about them being pregnant. Everybody knows that they can't give their child what they truly deserve or what they really need. Every parent has a different view on what their child needs. and a teen parent is no different, you watch Teen Mom enough to know that life isn't easy. any parent of a teen that is pregnant is going to be scared, the last thing they want to know is that their child is or was s_xually active. no parent want's to hear the words "mom i'm pregnant" or "mom i got my girlfriend pregnant"! there's not one parent that want's to hear that at a young age. and honestly i juss want every teen to know that no matter how old you are you can count on me to support you!!! loves kc

girl you know juss as much as i do that getting irritated don't get you anywhere...i know you said that you don't care about what other people say but i know you do because of the situation yesterday during 2nd hour. so don't tell me that what people say don't get to you. i know you way way way way better than that. do you remember when tank was here and we would always go down to his house at lunch and hang out all lunch hour then we would all walk back up? well when we would always sit and talk about families rememebr what he said? i will rememeber that day as if it was yesterday, granted i rememeber all days as if they were yesterday. but he said that being a parent is hard but we all seem to get through it no matter what age your at. he's got a child and look how that worked out. he's doing amazing look how young he was. age matters to a point but like i've said people do what ever they want to do it's called FREEDOM. sweetie i'm not trying to be mean and you know that. like i told you first hour today that i can't let this go without saying something. i know that it seems in this long long long message i'm sending you is mean and hurtful but it's how i feel. i told you that i will always be blunt with you if you liked it or not. Sometimes you juss have to let go of everything and juss feel free. to be yourself weather that means you want to be a parent as a teen or accidently become a parent under the age of 18. granted i would say wait till you get done with school to start a family. but that's juss how i used to feel until i started to realize there are alot of teens or ppl out there that are getting pregnant. it made me realize so much more that i wanted a baby more than anything else in the world. when i was 15 i thought that me getting pregnant would solve all my problems. then i juss looked at what my sister was going through with the 4 kids that she has. she has been through hell and back and i respect her courage to stand strong through it all. sometimes people have to make their own mistakes to learn from them. anyone who says that they will learn from your parents mistakes isn't the same as making them yourself. you will never truly learn from them until you do it yourself. i'm not saying to go get pregnant to learn from the experience of being a teen mom. i'm saying to NEVER consider your children mistakes when you had them at a young age. no matter what other people say. you have to do what you feel is right to do. and if that's raising a child at your age then so be it. there's no wrong way to make a family sweets and we all know that. hard times will come and go but we all know that it all will work out juss the same. life can't possibly get any worse than it may already seem to you or anyone else in the world. for every baby that is born there is a smile on someones face. may it be the parent or may it be someone that don't understand why they are randomly smiling. i consider every smile i share with the world is for every baby every born or for every decision to become a parent. each person becomes a parent because they are ready. it may not seem like they are at first because they aren't sure what to do when their child is born, when their child gets sick or has medical problems. but look at all the good things that could come out of having a child. ten fingers, ten toes, a lil nose that looks like daddy's, eyes as beautiful as his/her mother, first smile, first solids, first steps, first word, first day of school, birthdays, sweet 16's, boyfriends, graduation. 18 years full of firsts and special moments that will be cherished forever and ever. To be able to remember every moment of your child growing up is so special. this makes me tear up while typeing this because i know how special it is to hold a baby in your arms and know that that special lil stranger that was juss introduced into your family will always be there. the little life of a child that needs love from his/her parents, is juss so special to me. that's why i would do anything to become a mommy but then again i know i can wait till after school. i would love to be a mommy now but i also know that i wouldn't beable to finish school. granted i only have 4 months left the thought is still the same. those who are pregnant i hope you know that your special in every way no matter what age you are. remember not to judge others on their experences through their soon to be new life. learn to be strong and keep those who support you closer than anyone else in the world. know that even if i don't know you i support you through your decision to be a mother or father of something as special as a child. love always kc