I Don T Know How To Tell My Boyfriend

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Hann. - July 8

I found out im pregnant, and now i dont know how to tell my boyfriend (dad to my baby), iv already put it off for 2 weeks since i found out. Im scared he's going to leave me and the baby, what do i do?

 

Tanyia216 - July 8

u really should tell him because he part of this too. How old are the both of you. I dont know how the pregnancy occured (unprotected s_x, broken condom) it doesnt matter. your pregnant now. tell him. because he should know by now that s_x can lead to pregnancies and if he leaves you for something you did/made with alot of help from him, you shouldnt be with him anyways. no, im not tying to say your bf isnt right for you. im just saying if he leaves you because HE got YOU prgnant, something is wrong. [[if you want to talk you can IM me on yahoo. melrosechick91]] or if you have aim, write me. harlemborn216

 

amanda17 - July 8

So if he leaves you, let him leave you. Only a jerk would leave and no one deserves to stay with someone like that anyways. If he stays, then that's good, and good luck to the both of you.

 

HeavenisMine - July 9

If he leaves then you'll find out what his maturity level is. :) That'll help when determining if he'll likely be a good father figure or not.

 

mizz angel - July 14

HONEY MY BABY DADDY LEFT THE DAY I TOLD HIM BUT WHEN ALL IS SAID N DONE MY BABY WILL STILL BE THERE TO TELL ME MOMMY ITS OK WHEN HE'S OUT NOT EVEN WORRIED ABOUT ME OR MY CHILD...........RIGHT NOW U SOUND HYSTERICAL SAYIN UR MORE WORRIED ABOUT HIM THAN UR BABY..............UR BABY IS WAY MORE IMPORTANT ITS KINDA SAD THAT UR PRIORITIES R THAT WAY BUT THEY WILL EVENTUALLY STRAIGHTEN OUT. I WAS RAISED BY JUST MY MOM AND I AM VERY HAPPY WITH MY LIFE IF HE DOES'NT WANNA BE THERE THEN HE DIDNT MATTER TO BEGIN WITH!!!! PEACE AND GOOD LUCK!!!

 

bellybubble - July 15

Mizz angel - the op never once said or implied that she was more "worried about him then her baby" - she merely asked for advice! And she certainly DOES NOT sound hysterical! Basically like the other ladies said - just tell him - then at least you know one way or the other whether he is going to be there for you - and then you can go from there. Good luck to you and your bub.

 

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