Is Anyone Else Hiding A Pregnancy From Parents
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I am about 3 months pregnant, not sure exactly, i don't know what to do, my parents don't know. i need to talk to someone else who had gone through this....thinking about adoption...
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I have friends whose 15 year old concealed her pregnancy from her parents and from herself (denial is great!) until 5 months. The grandparents of the baby were disappointed but surprisingly supportive, and everyone is now delighted with the addition. Unless you have good reason to fear violence, it is time for you to share. You and the baby should be getting prenatal care. Based on the numbers, adoption is a more difficult decision than abortion, even though it appears to be a win-win-win solution. Mail ppowb at yahoo.com if you want to talk. Happy New Year!
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Do you have an adult friend or family member you can confide in? Maybe a teacher or an aunt. It might make it easier to talk to someone about this first and then they can help you tell your parents. You are getting close to the point where you won't be able to hide it much longer, and prenatal care is very important during pregnancy, for your health and the health of the baby.
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I hid my pregnancy until I was about as far along as you, and you really shouldn't. Your parents have to know and they'll only be more upset the longer you hide it. It seems like it won't, but things will be a lot less stressful once you tell them. They also need to take you to the doctor and get you on prenatal vitamins so that you can have a healthy baby.
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you should really tell someone =0 and you need prenatal care like amanda17 said and go to a doctors to see how many months you are to be exact
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I hid my pregnancy, i was about 3 months when everyone started to find out and with my dad and grandparents i waited until i was 5 months....ooops and when i look back it was stupid to hide it, they were disapointed but they got over it and then we had time to enjoy it together, so i would let them know you cant hide it forever sooner or later the baby has to come out and its better to be prepared
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Talking to your parents may be easier then you think. like gpviv said unless you have a good reason to fear violence, it is somthing you have to get out eventually...Like amanda said the longer you wait the more upset they will be. No matter what options you are considering you will have to tell you parents because i asume you are underage. gpviv has been on here for a very long time and is very educated on the subject of women, pregnancy, teen pregnancy, and all the options you have, so i encourage you to e-mail him, since he was so generous to offer support...gl : )
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The sooner you talk to your parents the better. If you DON'T tell them, I can promise they will be angry for you not telling them sooner.
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Grandpa Viv, are you kidding?? YOu're encouraging abortion over adoption?
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no hes not you need to read his post, he said adoption is HARDER then abortion cuz girls can abort it before they think its a kid, adoption they grow attached to it and give it away even though adoption is a win win situation learn how to read
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