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If I was your mother I wouldn't give you those options. I'd call the cops on him immediately. Be thankful she isn't. You seem to be blissfully unaware of your immaturity. Getting married at your age is a dumb idea. You change more than you can even comprehend in your teen years. I'm sure in a year or even less you'll look back on how you are now and think "God what was I thinking?!" I do it all the time. Because you are so unaware of this, my advice to you is to give your child up for adoption. If you can't comprehend how wrong your situation is, then you simply can't comprehend what having a child will do to you. Your mom is a nice enough person to give you the options that she did... But she obviously knows what's best for you. And he is not what's best for you, neither is having a baby. There's a post you should look into called "need abortion info- don't judge" on the second page of the forum. Don't freak out it's not about having an abortion because I don't think you should have one if you don't feel right about it. It's about a girl who is in a very similar situation as you. Maybe if you read it things will become a little more clearer for you.

Abortion is not an option!

Wow... I never once said you should have an abortion. I specifically told you that I don't think you should have an abortion and not to think that I'm even suggesting it to you. I was trying to refer you to someone who is in your position and may be able to help you. She is also a pregnant victim of a pedophile and was under the impression that she would get married and have babies with this man when she turned 16... She has now realized he is a pervert. If your pro-life, more power to you. Just don't ruin the rest of your life by marrying this guy and and having his child. This man you plan to marry is a rapist in the eyes of the law and he should be prosecuted as such. My advice is to do the RIGHT thing which is to give your baby up for adoption and let your mother call the police on your 'fiance.'

Angel - you are not going to like my thoughts on this either. You are pregnant. Now - I want you to imagine life 15 years from now. Let's suppose you have a little girl. In 15 years she will be 14. She comes to you and says that she has a new boyfriend. He's a grown man of 24. She says she wants to have a baby with him and get married. Seriously! What would you say? Have you even once thought to yourself "why would someone that is 24 even want to date someone that is 14?" He absolutely needs to be in jail. As for your baby: Women that are pregnant and really putting their baby's needs ahead of their own want the best life possible for that baby. I don't mean the life with the most money. We all want something better for our babies and we're willing to sacrifice our childhoods to give that to them. Most of the time that means we give up immaturity and raise the baby with help from our families and the fathers. (Not your baby's father though. I think he's a child molester.) The rest of the time responsible mothers find a family for their baby that can give that baby all of the love and support that they wish they could give themselves. They feel sad and cry for a long time. But as they get older, those wonderful women that gave a child up for adoption will understand what a totally unselfish thing they did for their baby. As for getting married: I can't think of a single place that would issue a marriage license for you and your "boyfriend" based on the ages of both of you. Thank God. Please copy and print your original post and save it to read in 10 years. It will shock you.

Seriously what is with the girls under 16 doing dating guys over the age of 20... thats just complete STUPID GIRLS... What drugs are you girls using to make you to even wanna have s_x with a guy that age... I'm 18 and i dont even wanna get married even if i find the right guy... I have a wonderful boyfriend i would get engaged to him but not married.... Sit down and really think do you wanna get married to him dont just get married cause you don't want your mum to ring the cops on him.... Grow some brains!!!!!!!!

Seriously what were u thinkin? its wrong waht your doing. the guy should be put in jail immediately.. im 15 and my boyfriend is 18 and even tho were llike 3 years apart, thats it. its still like akward, because hes legally an adult and im not yet. i woouldnt go over the age of 18. Soo my suggestion is call the cops. and no im not being a hypocrate, but come on 24??? hes lagally allowed to drink!