Boyfriend In Need Of Answers
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Alright well first of all i am kinda stupid for not asking questions of my girlfriends period like the start and end...
But we had unprotected s_x on april 7th and she had told me she was on her period (i asked with no mind at the time) and then almost 7-8 days later she had been telling me how she felt sick but not throwing up just the feeling (a on and off sick feeling)...
She also had been very sleepy in school and after school more then usual and wasnt as active..
She had been craving fruits and she had been eating more then usual then she told me how she was bloated.. (mind tho she had not thought of pregnancy the 2 days) then i had mentioned to her she may be pregnant but she isnt one to worry alot
But then the next night she had started throwing up and feeling sick and so then we got a pregnancy test and it came out negative... she also hasnt started her period yet she had gotten off 9th or 10th...
So could she be pregnant and just a lil to early for a prego test to show true results or are we safe to know she isnt?
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a__suming her period started April 3rd, s_x April 7th (CD4) is most unlikely to cause pregnancy. In fact, she would expecte to ovulate around now, CD14, if she normally has a 28 day cycle, and a test would not mean much for another 2 weeks. I am wondering about the possibility of pregnancy from s_x around March 20, with an in-pregnancy bleed rather than a true period at the beginning of April. The trouble with that theory is that a test in mid-April should then show positive. Maybe her ovulation this month is throwing off more hormones than usual. Take another couple of pregnancy tests at one week intervals using first morning pee. Good luck!
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Thanks for fast response but like i said i diddnt ask when she had her period she could have just told me she was on her period cuz she was scared of having s_x (because of where we were)
so im not sure if she could have been lieing because she is showing serious pregnancy symptoms at the moment and i dont know if it could be possible
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So let's a__sume that her report of being on her period April 7th is not true, and in fact she was close to ovulation. She would be due for her period in the middle of the coming week, and could have started experiencing pregnancy signs in the middle of this past week. A test using first pee on Sat 25th should be pretty reliable, though it might be necessary to repeat a week later. Other pregnancy signs could include more frequent peeing, unusual v____al discharge, signs from b___bs, nips, emotions, cramps, backache, dreams, acne, dizzy moments, diarrhea, runny nose, smell sensitivity etc., a__suming the signs are different from her normal PMS. Good luck!
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There are a couple reasons why pregnancy is unlikely. a__suming that she was on her period, there's like a one in some big number chance that she ovulates on her period... It's a pretty rare thing. But let's say by some power of God that she DID ovulate on her period, or even that she wasn't on her period at all (by the way how would you not tell... there'd be blood everywhere) even if she was in her prime, if you will, it's uncommon to be experiencing pregnancy symptoms so soon... especially ones as severe as morning sickness. Was this her first time? If so, sometimes women get really hormonal after their first. If not, she could have gotten pregnant another day. Ask yourself this... did you notice any menstrual blood when you were having s_x? If yes, then she's probably not pregnant (not by you anyway, sorry, I don't mean to judge but you gotta factor it as a possibility) If not, then she may have been lying about it and pregnancy is possible but still not really likely with those symptoms so quickly.
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hmmmm i diddnt really think about that i was doubting my self to that she may have gone with another guy (stuff happens) but i did not see any blood while intercourse *i guess meaning she was not on her period ?)
and if she was pregnant yes this is her 1st...
& Grandpa Viv
I might wait another week to ask her to do another pregnancy test (my birthday is on 25th so i would like to keep it drama free) ahah i just had to add that in
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If there was no blood that means she's probably not on her period. The only reason I can think of for why she would lie to you would be that she wants you to get her pregnant. Psycho chicks like that are everywhere... I'd say hit the road if that's the case. People like that only get more psycho with time.
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I think there are high chances of her being pregnant, she can still get pregnant when shes having her period and she seems to have a lot of signs. You need to take more then one home pregnancy test, to be sure take one at the doctors.
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ahhah amanda17 that was pretty funny hahah but yah not sure tho she may or may not want a kid im not to sure...
and just a teen...
thanks for your reply and yah i no but really i am afraid if she does it will come out positive but ill make sure to have her take one soon
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I didn't even know I was pregnant untill 2half months 3 months.
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dam that long...
well she finally decided to tell me a little more cuz i was afraid to ask...
Turns out she had her period along the time of march 26th or earlier and now she has missed her next period april 26th already for a few days not sure still if this could be normal im just kinda confused...
Im 17 and she is 15 im just a year older and not really smart about this stuff
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Have her take another test.
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I find this situation a little odd. One minute she has told you that her period was on when you were having s_x on the 7th but now it's that she gets her periods on the 26th of every month. Having a period for a good 2 weeks is not normal! Here's my honest advice, it sounds like you are a good boyfriend who has her back just by the fact that you are on here, and she IS 15 and sometimes being 15 and in love can throw your head a little wack and make you think that playing around with the idea of a baby and a family is the greatest thing and will keep you guys together forever. A 15 year old who is telling you she is on her period the day you have s_x then changing and telling you a different date, sounds like she was trying to get you to feel okay with unprotected s_x for some reason on that day! The symptoms you listed in the beginning do not sound like pregnancy symptoms, it sounds like a hormonally imbalanced 15 year old girl who's body and cycles are constantly changing. The situation sounds like a young girl who isn't being honest with her boyfriend and toying around with getting you in a situation that opens the possibility of getting her pregnant! See girls know more about this kind of stuff and can be conniving in this area sooooo bad and mainly guys never know because they know very little about a girl's body! I'd start comparing facts and asking questions. Also use a condom every time, no matter what she says or what any girl says that you are being intimate with! Because if you don't, and you are trusting that the girl says she is on the pill or that she is not ovulating, then you are putting power in that person's hands and you never know what is going through their heads or what they could be planning for the rest of your life. And trust me, young girls do fall in love and start trying to plan to keep you. Actually their are women out their of all ages doing that stuff, so smarten up and learn a little more about the reproductive systems and how these things work. Start using your own protection which gives you the power back, no matter what person you may accidentally run into. And if you need help understanding how all this works, then just ask. We all would be happy to explain, and maybe then you'd see that this situation seems a little shady!
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Well now i have been using condoms and i have been asking a lot of questions making sure i don't miss anything but its kinda hard to know for sure whats really going on because i am not in school since they kicked me out.
I had her take a pregnancy test and she says she took it at school but when she told me she said it came out negative.. But i have family that i talk to and they said that it could really be just to early to know...
They suggested to quit using pregnancy tests and just taking her to the clinic for a blood test but i asked my girl if she would go and she said she rather wait so im very confused...
At the moment i just really wanna know if she is or not now cuz i am really getting annoyed now..
She has been very hungry, and sleepy lately from what i know.
Also main thing im worried about is she hasn't gotten her period she missed and still hasn't gotten it
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It wouldn't be too soon, if anything she'd be getting a super, super dark positive at this time. But, everyone is different and taking her to a clinic is a good idea. And, just from prior evidence, I've got her pinned as a liar, so I'm going to a__sume everything she says is a potential lie. So, IF she's taking the tests, and getting positives but lying to you about it... If you guys went to the clinic together she can't really lie about what the doctor's telling the both of you. It's not normal to miss a period for no reason.
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Yes i know i have caught on that she has lied to me because 1st she said she did get it because she said i was getting on her about to many things then finally she told me she diddnt...
So yes thanks for all yas help i will have her either take a test when i actually can see it or the clinic if not then i wont worry bout it if she doesnt want to be truthful..
ill be sure to post bak if i am for sure thanks you tho
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i dont think if she had s_x during her period she has a chance of being pregnant but if period started the 3,u have to count 14 days..and her ovulation days would be around the 17..take another pregnancy test my first one came out negative 2..then i missed my period again and when i took the pregnancy test again i was pregnant
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