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somehow i think you post the opposite of anything that is supporting. don't listen to Merciii. she's high again. and had a d*** in her ear so she can't seem to think straight.

Yeah it may destroy the other people and it will hurt them and ...devestate them..but in the end it is her RIGHT to change her mind, and they will get over it. what she feels like she is doing in her heart is all she can do .

just cos i dont agree with the majority of opinions........ meh

Merciii's a wave maker. i guess that's not such a bad thing. michael moore is a big wave maker and he does some good sometimes lol.

Should I grab my scube gear!!??

yeah, but for me i'm getting my surfboard. i'm not good, but hey i can make it look good.

oh and i got my bloodwork results back. i am, big surprise, not pregnant, so i'm starting my progesterone today at cd52. stupid doctor. then i'm upping myself to 100mg because if i had o'd i would have at least had a period by now.

Stupid doctor. When do you see the other one again?

january 14th. but i start the provera today so it would have been hard to find a doctor right at the beginning of my cycle. dr. c has 1 last chance to do something right.

Shevvi - are you a teen? And you already have 2 children? It is your responsilibility to give this baby a fighting chance at life. It sounds like he needs to be adopted by a loving family that can provide every oppurtunity that you can not. i.e. the best medical care, braces, college, family vacations, a house - not an apartment. And a mom and a dad. Can you do all of that? Please think about giving this baby a shot at a great life. He did not ask to be born.

I understand it can be hard to think that u are giving somthing that is a part of you away. However maybe u should do an open adoption where u will see the baby once in a while so it isnt so hard on you. I think because u cant afford a third child you should give it to a family who cant have kids you are doing your unborn son a favor by letting him go to a family that can give him all the things he wants and needs u are not a bad person for giving him up you are smart. If u do decide to keep him it is best u let the family know asap because it will hurt them alot more in the end if you dont. good luck

uh wait a minute. since when is an apartment a bad place to live? my parents brought me up in a 2 story apartment for most of my life before finally buying into a house. last time i checked, an apartment and a house both had walls and a roof so what's the difference? oh and a mom and dad are optional. there can be both, or one. true, bringing a 3rd child into your family will be hard but honestly who can afford one? i was told by many women "if you wait to have kids until you can afford it, you'll never have them" and it's true. i still say, it's your baby and if you want to keep it, that's your right. let us know what you decide and d__n anyone if they don't like what choice you make.

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your caps annoy me.

thanks so much for all your replies and sorry i havent been on 2 answer til now, everythings just been so insane. i had my lil boy on jan 2nd, he was 7lb3oz & beautiful. but i am heartbroken. i decided i couldnt disappoint everyone and wanted the best 4 him and i went thru with the adoption. now i know why i felt i couldnt. its cos i CANT deal with it. the adoptive parents were at the hosp during my labor, the woman was in with me a lot of the time. they were just so hopeful and i thought yeah i can do this look what im doin its a gift. but he came out and they put him straight in my arms and from then i just didnt wanna let him go. later when the parents were sat cooing over him i knew then i didnt exist no more it was like i had my use, now it was gone. but i still signed over. this is supposed to be an open adoption. but u wouldnt think so. i have wrote them a letter explainin how i feel and that im finding it really hard 2 deal with it. they just sent a reply sayin maybe they shouldnt let me get involved no more and not have any contact. they refuse to take my calls, they wont answer email. she said she'd send pics every few days at 1st but theres been nothin. they shut me out completely. i just want my baby back hes still mine i need him here with me. i'd told my children (tho not sure they understood it proper esp the younger) that i was giving a gift 2 a couple who couldnt have kids. but i also told them that we'd see him from time 2 time. the oldest is askin Qs. i dont know what 2 do, its like i cant rest until hes with me again, i cant stand the loss of him and he aint even gone... but i can demand him back. sorry for such a long moan but i just feel so depressed he's not with me. im trying to be strong for my children but its tearing me up inside :(:(:(

franny im 18 & lastchance no my name is Shevane x