Definatly Needing Help Girls
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Okay so my names jess and im 16 years old, i havent been on the pill for about a week now and my 18 year old boyfriend and i have had s_x multiple time no condem as we dont like them and he doesnt pull out either i have a fear i am pregnant if i am i will be happy and scared all at the same time, my mum said that she would kick me out if i got pregnant and i really have no where to live as my boyfriends dad doesnt work and i will have to eat for two and there isnt enough room in a couple of months i might be moving in with my boyfriend and getting our own house but im still not sure i dont want this too stuff up our lives and we are both totaly agaisnt abortion and giving the child to an orphanige my mum also said that she has the power to put the baby up for adoption because she is my legal guardian but my boyfriends legal as well so would he have a say in it too ? please help
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Hmm! If you are not pregnant already, you soon will be. It sounds as though looking out for your own welfare is less important to you than pleasing your boyfriend and rebelling against your mum. Should you perhaps re-examine where you are headed before it is too late? The quality of life for yourself and your children is at stake. I don't know British law, but think it unlikely that your mum can adopt your baby out against your will. However, if you end up in a situation where the baby is neglected, child protection could take it in. Good luck
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I agree with him, if you aren't already pregnant from that, you probably will be soon... i understand the whole not liking condoms thing, trust me, i have a 1 year old and im pregnant again, and i just turned 20 years old.. if you and your boyfriend both dont want a baby to "stuff up your lives" then you need to stop what you are doing and think about it... already if you think of a baby as stuffing up your life, then seriously be more careful... thats not fair to the baby what so ever, if you want a baby, then fine.. if not, then use condoms or make your boyfriend pull out, which by the way, pulling out is NOT effective.. i have proof.. my daughter, and my belly.. as for your mother taking your baby and putting it up for adoption without you wanting that, im not sure where you live, but i would think thats not possible ?? but i could be wrong.. research it.. thats your best bet.
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