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I'M SO PROUD OF YOU V!!!! You just made my day! Good for you for saying that to him! I'm glad you had a good Christmas. I did too. Ellie was late waking up, so we didn't start the day until 8. I made Harold and I fresh toast, eggs and bacon for breakfast. Ellie ate her cereal at the table with us :) Then we opened presents and went to a Christmas party... where we opened more presents :) Ellie was soooo good, I swear she's a different baby now that she's on formula. She met a bunch of people and wasn't bothered. She even let them hold her. She took a nap on their sofa too :P We stayed until about 4 because Harold was feeling sick. We were all so tired, we all fell asleep at like 5. Even Ellie! She didn't get her bath so I'm amazed she fell asleep. Oh and there was this little boy at the party, who was like 6 or 7. I guess he heard about Ellie and was telling his mom he was so excited to meet her.. Then when he did he was so shy and hid behind his mom's leg lol! It was so cute. And yep Harold didn't propose. Someone let it slip that he's planning to later :D

well V i must say THAT IS AWESOME! i was reading your story and thought it was sooo funny, poor guy deserves it honestly! what do they think we NEED them to be happy! well we dont since we do most of the work anyways! haha im glad you had a nice christmas without drama, thats how i feel we just didnt invite anyone who causes drama and it was quiet and little and we didnt do many presents but we played in the snow and enjoyed christmas movies and i dont think i would want it any other way!! i think sometimes finally kicked me in the head to say its not about what you get but who you decide to spend your time with!! plus i did get kinna spoiled by the bf, a ring and all of s_x and the city and he promised to watch everyone with me and britney spears tickets! haha aww amanda he may not have done it this christmas but i think its better to not have it done on christmas im not sure why i just think it means more when its not on a holiday but hey keep your spirits up valentines day is comming up soon!! haha great another holiday! and yes austins birthday is on january 29th so its really close and i think i will just do a little party with family, although the bf family is HUGE haha but i can make his favorite foods, hot dogs, fries maybe have some games i really have no idea i am sooo stuck on what to do, he likes trains and cars mostly and barney LOL i could do a barney theme maybe rent a clown blah im not a fan of this he isnt quite old enough to do something fun but he isnnt young enough to not do anything

hi this is JT118, thank you guccigal87 for your advice. i really hope my bf will stay with me like he promised.. i also really hope that his parents and mine will help with the baby but idk... im getting ready to face the "wows" and the "o my gosh look at hers" with being a cheerleader and representing the school thats not going to be good, but im gonna have to deal with it weather or not I like it. just out of curiosity how old were you when you had your baby??

well jt im glad i could help out a little i think thats why most of us regulars are still here after YEARS haha and being an ex-cheerleader myself i can tell you one thing, you will not be allowed on the squad sorry hunn but that have rules not to mention the dangers it can cause so i would tell them right away and get that over with, since you will be kicked off anyways. and the stares suck but really you get used to them its just the shock in the begining that hurt a little bit, i never expected that so maybe thats what shocked me more. I was 18 so i was a little bit older then most of the girls on here who were younger then me but i had raised my brother since i was 10 so it was definatly weird having one of my own. Its still hard, but you penny pinch and learn what things are needed and what are just for show. It always helps to have a good support around you thank god my family and my bfs family were supportive of us (after the initial shock of course) My mistake was that i was pregnant beforehand and had lost the baby but dropped out and so i had a year to catch up on but i did it and went straight into medical school when my son was only 6 months old which was hard but it was well worth it. That is one thing i like to push these girls on is keep going with your education it is more important then you will ever know until you cant get a good enough job to support things and by then it is to late. I wish you all the best of luck and if you need anything let me know ( Ive been pregnant 3 times so im almost a pro) HAHAHA

omg thank you once again, i'm so happy i have someone close in age to talk to that i can go for advice (well kind of close in age). I actually told my squad the news today and they were like "o well were happy for you but...your kicked off" it wasnt a surprise at all i just thought that they would of told me a little nicer (haha, i wish). yes the stares really suck, i'm not showing yet but almost the whole school knows about it already so their staring at me for that. my bf and his family came over for Christmas and we had a lot of fun try to decide different names for the baby. this might catch up with me later for doing something so stupid at such a young age, atleast you were older then me to make such a big decision. my parents say that im a really good kid and their happy that im staying in school, it's been my dream to become a vet so im going to follow that.

sorry about getting kicked off, it kind of sucks but really we sign a contract when we join saying we will not participate in unmoral activities HAHA so i guess getting pregnant is pretty unmoral! and you would think they would do it nicer but thats why i wanted to let you know they would do that before you got shocked! Wow they all know already most of my friends didnt say anything until they were showing, i didnt even say anything until i was showing! HAHA but thats very courageous of you. It is fun picking the name, but then you have to take in your bfs options to! haha also when you pick a name dont let ANYONE but you and your bf have a say in it! i think its better that way, i mean you can tell ppl but dont be all shocked when they dont like it! i told everyone that yes i pick weird names but its my kid and i can name him whatever i want! lol and yea its awesome having this thread i still talk to girls all the time on msn now that our kids are older its just good to have someone to vent to sometimes, and people treat you different when you are a young mommy and act like you are mental or crazy or dont know what you are doing. you should keep the vet dream, but take it in steps, i wanted to be a er nurse, so i started with medical a__sistant and now im doing that and hopfully when austin is in school i can go back and do the nursing at least i will still be young enough to fit in with the college crowd HAHAHA

yeah, when i signed the contract i didn't really think that i would be in this situation so i didn't worry about it. Actually i told my bf to do it just so that i could get the feeling of everybody staring at me out of my system. picking the names is fun but then at the sametime it's hard, so me and my bf split the job he's picking out the boys names and i'm picking out the girls. he's actually doing a really good job at it too. my parents are trying to make me pick weird names and im like no it's my baby you don't get to pick, lol. i like this cuz now i can talk to other pregnant ppl and ppl who have had kids, it's nice. an er nurse,wow that sounds really cool. lol, as long as you fit in with the rest of the college people it's fine.

yea i know its hard but its do-able as long as you keep your education goals in your head and have a time line somehow everything works out, im not even sure how that happens yet there has been times where we cant even put food on the table and then boom we have food! haha you keep your head up and try your hardest thats the best you can do. oh yea you guys split the s_x thats cool, i couldnt do that because i really wanted to pick both girls and boys actually the girls name we choose was so easy cuz i said one name and my bf fell in love with it so we are saving it for our next kid! it was just the tucker that didnt go over to well, oh well maybe if i have another boy i can try it again! what are you thinking about right now for girls names? I like weird unique names i always hated when there was like 5 ashleys and 12 jeffs in school! its awesome to have a support system like this, im not sure why but it just makes you feel better to vent and know that we all are going or went through the same thing!

yeahh im just gonna kepp up with my studies and hope for the best, i don't wanna drop out of school it's gonna catch up with me at the end. i picked out Caylee for the girl and everett for the boy i wanted that because thats my bf's first name and his dad and grandfathers names so i wanted it to run in hte family but we call my bf by his middle name he likes it better. my bf hates that name but he knew that i would like if we had that running in the family, so he just dealed with it. he wanted Trevor, i thought that was cute too. i hate when you have more then one person with the same name that goes to your school. i have 5 Jennifers that go to my school and it irritates the c___p out of me, cuz the teacher calls that name and im like all ready to answer and there like o not you. it gets irritating. i like the name tucker it's unique and cute. you only have a son right? i hope you and your family a very happy new years.

haha yea i know its soo annoying, i never really had that issue cuz i didnt know anyone with my name which is weird since i think i have a common name. Its Tiffani and there was no other ones in my school! yes i only have one boy :( but i want more i would love to have like 4 or 5 kids, i just have issues carrying them, i am the most fertile you will ever see and can get pregnant over anything, i dont even get periods and im on bc and ive gotten pregnant! LOL but i misscarry so we will see we are gunna wait and give my body a little time to i dunno do something and then try again! our girls name is Skyla, or tatianna i love those names! but it seems like you think youknow already, but you may change your mind like a million times! have you had any dreams yet about the s_x?

you are so lucky, i hate having the same name as 5 other people. i like the name Tiffani it's a cute name. aw my mom has that problem she wants to have another baby but her body can't handle it. yeah i want atleast 3 or 4 but i didn't expect it to happen so early, i think that this is gonna be the last baby for another 5 or 6 years. omg wow your body is amazing, it can find a way through anything. if you just let it rest it'll be fine and in know time you'll have your skyla or tatianna, lol. yeah i've gotten them picked out so far, i've had times where i've wanted to change it but my bf's like no! were keeping these. yeah i have and in the 2 dreams it was a girl, i want a girl so bad. i just started school again on Monday and in our s_x ed cla__s were doing the pregnancy part and me and my bf just "coincidently" got put together and i have to put on the big belly strap that makes you look like you ready to burst and i told my parents this is killing me, get ready too hear me grumble in 7 months. i went for my 2nd doctors appointment today and the doctor said everything looks good and i'm extreamly healthy, now i just have 8 months to go. me and my bf got into a fight last night and it was to the point were i started crying and saying that i didn't wanna have the baby, and we were yelling at eachother and he stormed out of my parents house then like an hour later he came back and apologized but i thought that it was gonna be the end. i know that might sound weird that i wanted to give up my baby but have you ever had that feeling before?

yea well im still really young so im just gunna wait and rest a little and then when i try again do nothing but s_x and sleep HAHAHA i wanted a girl really bad to but my dreams were about boys and then the one that had a girl in it i ended up killing so save the boy and well i had a boy! although i thought it was very twisted to kill my girl! yea when you are huge it starts to get very annoying! specially since you will be HUGE over summer! thats good that you are healthy, and you probably have 9 months to go, im not sure how far along you are but when you add up the months you are pregnant for 10 not 9 months but you know for 9 because you cant do a test right away, sorry to burst your bubble sweetie. and you will have lots of fights the hormones go mental, i would cry everyday sometimes over stupid things and i would freak out all the tim eover nothing you jsut have to learn to breath and apologize out of your a__s!! I have thought lots of times about wanting to give up my baby, it was very hard to keep it and you are so excited at the begining until you realise how hard it is and how many people out there want kids but cant have them and how good parents they would be with good jobs and stable money its really hard to make the choice to keep your baby and its almost harder to actually keep it. Even now i love my son to death but i think about how different it would be if he wasnt here and how better things could be and i could buy my clothes again and look great, you give up so much more then you can ever imagine to have this kid and try to raise it and pay for it that you end up in low grade walmart sweats that you can only buy half off and you cut your hair at home to save money its very very hard. Not to mention you give up all freedom of doing anything for 20 years, even movies or hanging out with friends is hard and you have to get babysittiers and if you want a job pay for daycare that takes up over half of your cheque. if you are not 100% sure you can commit to the kid and have the money for it then its defiantly worth contemplating adoption. Is this something you might want more information on?

Sorry to squeeze into your convo, but I just had to add something. We have to own up to the fact that when we get pregnant, a part of us needs the guy to feel completely connected. It's not until you are pregnant and have tiff or your hormones cause you to be disgusted by your guy, that reality sets in. Having a baby with someone is the ultimate sharing of life. You will always be bonded with that person,and that bond has manifested itself into that child.It's completely understandable to get a little scared and go back a bit to not wanting that serious. So that means you have moments where you don't want the baby. This is real and scary no matter how perfect the situation and how much support you have. It's normal to stock of the choice you made of the father of your child (especially if you may not have evaluated it with the same clarity before you were pregnant), the choice you made to keep the child, and whether or not you feel "up" to. It is a rollercoaster ride, and some people can't ride rollercoasters, some shouldn't and some don't want to. But I will say this, it isn't all bad!!!! No matter what happens with you and your bf, or you and your family, remember that that is YOUR baby growing inside of you. I think you find it hard to connect to the baby in the beginning so those doubtful thoughts come constantly, because really all that you have to love about the situation is the bond and love you feel for your boyfriend, but when you feel the baby move, the relationship starts between you and him/her. So you most likely won't feel that so much. Then doubt may set in of whether you can do it-whether you are worthy. On the worthy thing-don't chicken out on that. Make yourself worthy! On the can you do it thing-only you can decide that and if you are thinking of other options then they should be discussed and researched. Heck I never thought Id think of adoption or abortion, but I ended up in a situation that I never thought I'd be in and I didn't think I could go through with it. But my inability to disconnect from the little thing that kicked me at 14 weeks made giving him up unbearable.

Forgive the choppiness and errors! That same little one I'm discussing has done something to my keyboard and it keeps acting a little retarded, plus it's late so my mind is a little messed up and easily distracted by the keyboard!

ol just have fun thats all that matters. omg what a horrible dream, wanting a girl and then killing it thats so sad. but atleast your son is healthy and fine. thank god the a__signment is over on Monday ive gotten hardly no sleep becuz it's so irritating, but i have to get over that cuz soon i'm actually gonna have that. the teacher talk to me and my bf on Friday and she was like how do you like this feeling and it's not so easy and i was trying to put in my comments but she kept interupting me and it was getting me really p__sed off, and my bf knew that and then finally he was like my moms here to come pick us up. it just got irritating cuz i would try to put in my comment and she would just cut me off. i'm glad that im gonna be huge over summer cuz i dont want anybody except my family and my bf to see me lol. then when i get back to school im gonna have a skinny body...hopefully. i'm a month and 2 weeks, gosh my doctor said that i'm an average size person and then when he was checking the baby he said that it's gonna be big (which idk how he knew that cuz it's hardly a baby yet, like it doesnt have a look of a baby yet) and then he said i should be showing when im 3 months so i'm gonna be getting big soon. thats ok you didn't burst my bubble i have nothing to do over the summer anyways i'm just going on a family trip in July and im not due until August 18th. now i know what people mean when they say your hormones go crazy lol. i apologized so much and he apologized a lot. i had a dream last night that there was this family that wanted a baby but they couldnt have any and i gave it to them and then i woke up crying and i couldnt go back to bed for the rest of the night. now that you brought that up i think that might be a good idea but when it comes to the point of giving it up i dont know if i can do it, can i have information on it just to look into it please. i have homcoming in 2 weeks and i'm going but then in 2 years i have prom and it hard to find someone to look after your baby, my parents said that they would but when you think about it you dont know if they might change their mind. but if you could give some info on that it would be great.

sorry for the all the typos