How Am I Suppose To Take This

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ashley_1991 - August 26

he says the night they had s_x in belleville( wichis the only time that he will admit to doing it) that they used a condom and they never finished cuz is mom kept walking the room so i guess they didnt want her to know or soemthing

 

newbaby2009 - August 26

I dont really know when she would have gotten pregnant without knowing when her last period was. You just need to count back 40 weeks from Jan. 25 and she most likely got pregnant about 2 weeks after that. Thats going by the average 28 day cycle. Most women dont even know when they got pregnant themselves so there really is no way to be sure.

 

newbaby2009 - August 26

i got pregnant around May 28 and im due Feb 18. So probably around April 15 or so. Im just guessing with a little logic thrown in so dont take it to heart!

 

ashley_1991 - August 26

so it would be late april or very early may. ish,,, than kyou rofr your help newbaby, i just dont know how to cope with the fact that he could lie for that long,, and when im upset about it or i try to talk to him he says its in the past we are happy now so dont worry about it

 

ashley_1991 - August 26

lol this girl is 19 weeks 2 days pregnant according ot a mutual friend lmao

 

newbaby2009 - August 26

Im confused. Lets just say shes 20 weeks. That would mean she got pregnant in March not April. And she should be due late Dec. not Jan. ???

 

AylaRose - August 26

I had something like that happen to me! Just as a relate story! My ex boyfriend lived 30 minutes away from me.. He went to school and I went to school! He got on aim the one night and I was going to talk to him, only to find out that it was his GIRLFRIEND who was pregnant with his baby! She told me not him! When i confronted him about it he said to me " i thought i told you!" Yeah sorry you didnt! I broke up with him and i moved on obviously! ........ I think it is totally wrong that he wont answer the questions you have! You have the right to know, especially if it is his and if he has seen her! I AM NOT saying he did that at all! I wouldnt overly stress it especially if you are pregnant! I know its hard to do, I think it would be best for you if you do let it go somewhat but know what you do! ....... I AM SORRY IF THIS DOESNT HELP OR MAKE SENSE!! :)

 

newbaby2009 - August 26

You're 22 weeks right. So shes due just over 2 weeks after you. So she got pregnant just over 2 weeks after you did. When did you get pregnant?

 

ashley_1991 - August 26

according to her she is due jan 25 and she is 19 wks 2 days,,

 

ashley_1991 - August 26

i got pregnant april 8th and she is about 3 weeks afer me so yeah she would have gottten preh april 22 ish

 

ashley_1991 - August 26

according to a friend of all of use the babys not jons cuz her and her bf where trying for a baby, but who knows anymore :(

 

newbaby2009 - August 26

Ok- so i was closer the first time. Pregnancy dates confuse me a little lol.

 

ashley_1991 - August 26

teheh yes they confuse me too :D sry about this post.. i just feel ughh i dont even know how i feel like really he tells me he loves me and since he told meabout this i havent siad it back i just go yeah and keep doing what im doing,,

 

newbaby2009 - August 26

Well i would tell you not to worry but i know i would be. Especially since you say you think he may have continued to have s_x with her. You think they'll do a paternity test?

 

ashley_1991 - August 26

no this girl is a mega b___h.. im just thinking of the worst i knoe that he loves me and our babies but i have to think and prepare for the worst...

 

newbaby2009 - August 26

Yes you need to focus on your love and your babies. Just not to the point you become blind to the possible truth. It will only make it hurt worse. Is she still saying its his? B/c if so you would think she'd be willing to do a paternity test to prove it.

 

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