How Am I Suppose To Take This

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newbaby2009 - August 26

Yes you need to focus on your love and your babies. Just not to the point you become blind to the possible truth. It will only make it hurt worse. Is she still saying its his? B/c if so you would think she'd be willing to do a paternity test to prove it.

 

ashley_1991 - August 26

shes saying its not his, but my stupid head keeps saying well can you believe any of them.. i think im just really worried about it being his,,

 

newbaby2009 - August 26

When did she quit saying it was his? I posted about a similar issue a little while back. And im going to tell you the same thing everyone ti-old me. You'll never be at peace with this if a paternity test isent done. You'll always wonder whether or not its his, Of course he says its not and she says its not now, but at first said it was. I would try to talk to her and see if they were still having s_x when she got pregnant.

 

ashley_1991 - August 26

well right after they had s_x like 3 days lol she said she was pregnnat and it was his.. and im talking ot hte firend who said she was there and no she wasnt pregnant when she took the test she thought if she told him she was hed go back to her.. we will know jan 25 if its jon cuz he bf is black and she is white and jon is white so if baby comes our casper then ill demand they do a test ,, she stopped saying it wsa his the minute she foudn out she was REALLY oregnant

 

newbaby2009 - August 26

Well at least you'll have a way to tell lol. Just try not to think about it until then. Easier said then done i know. Just remember, your baby fells what you feel. Even Dominik knows when mommy is sad.

 

ashley_1991 - August 26

your soo right! imjust going to try and forget it and be happy i dont wanna waste my pregnancy being mad when it could be over ntohing. THANK YOU SOO MuCH

 

newbaby2009 - August 26

Your very welcome. Though im not sure what i did, lol. I gota jump in the shower. Rylies been asleep for an hour n a half so i have a bout 30 mins left. Ive been posting between laundry and dishes, lol. It never ends.

 

ashley_1991 - August 26

tehe just being able to talk helped :D

 

angelmonkey - August 26

ashley if he slept with her in march and she would of conceived end of april then how can it be his? i dont think it is? i conceived late may and im due feb 14th so im guessing she would of conceived middle of april, i didnt know she pregnant lol you kinda just all started talking about it

 

newbaby2009 - August 26

Well she doesnt think/know if he continued to have s_x with her.

 

angelmonkey - August 26

oh my bad i dint raed the whole post properly...this is all confusing but just to let you know that dont worry if the baby comes out white as its common when a white women black man ect have a baby it can either take most of mothers genes and come out white or take more of fathers genes and be quite black or come our half cast im not quite sure how it works i just know that this couple were both white and had a black baby the husband thought she had cheated she had a dna test and it was his, what happened was like centerys ago or whatever she had black relative and had the black gene in her and her baby took that gene on! strange i know but theres still possabilitys,

 

newbaby2009 - August 26

Speaking of that, on Maury there was a couple on b/c the hubsand said his wife cheated and their son wasnt his. The mom was mexican and the dad was black. Both were dark skinned and dark haired. The son was pale white with bright red hair. DNA test proved it was his! Just reminded me, lol.

 

amanda17 - August 26

She was trying to conceive with her boyfriend and she's saying the baby is your boyfriend's??? She is some piece of work... where do you find people like that?

 

ashley_1991 - August 26

i have ALWAYS Had proiblems with this gurl lol,, and shes just a really big whore i truly feel sorry for her baby cuz i know that she will not make a good mother in the least, she is very messed up. I dont think that he had s_x with her after that one toime, and for his sake he better pray that he didnt, if i find out this baby is his i will snap, he will be moving out and he will have access with his kids elsewhere and not with her around, im going to let it go untilk the baby is born and then ill see how im feeling then, thank yoiu all

 

amanda17 - August 26

Have you ever noticed that guys always go to the biggest, stupidest, meanest, ugliest whore they can find? I mean seriously. When I was cheated on my first thought was "HER? You picked HER? Over ME?" I mean let's not be conceited here, but I am sooooooo much better than that chick. Hahaha. Guys... they don't make any sense. Anyway good luck with everything. If you still think your guy is lying to you, sit down and talk to him (preferably without yelling) don't let him go anywhere until you feel confident. I mean after all you're marrying this guy, right? How on earth could you spend your life with someone you don't trust?

 

ashley_1991 - August 26

yes i know what you mean with the do find the ugliest s___ttiest girls and the worst part is she kept telling me she was going to take dominik and stuff from me and i thought try it :P I have sat down and talked with him, i dont wanna be with someone i cant trust and i told him that. hopefully no more "secrets" will come out again i hope hel earned his lesson ,

 

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