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addy: i have my moody days lol! **youngbabymama** amen to that and congrats! i'm about 4 weeks behind ya. how you holding up? **naomi** rawr! are you kidding? i love the ladies on these boards. they have been here for me when i was told by my doctors i had a miscarriage and then told i was still pregnant. i don't care of their age. they have the brains to be able to have and raise babies and know all about making babies and everything that is included with it. oh and the question the OP said that was dumb as hell was "WAT THE FUKK DO I DO". well, if she's old enough to have s_x, she should be thinking about consequences. people use their age all to often as an excuse and it's no excuse. but for the record...rawr. **terri** we're pregnant. it's what addy and i do. i tend to censor myself a little more, but it's just who she is. nothing wrong with that. it's still nicer than some random old fart on the street coming up to the OP saying "aren't you a little young to be letting guys get you pregnant?" and other various things people feel like they have to say. if you've ever watched spongebob, when they learn that bad word, patrick calls it a "sentence enhancer". well that's what it is for addy. but don't preach what you can't practice. seriously. just because she did it doesn't mean you can do it and gripe at her for it. it makes you just as wrong. her saying 15 cuss words and you saying 1 is still bad on both ends, so bad is bad making you just as bad. two wrongs don't make a right and all that c___p. **tink** don't jump to conclusions. we didn't judge you. you're not saying "omg i had s_x unprotected and now i'm pregnant! what do i do!" you owned up for what you did and you're living with it and that shows your high level of maturity. no judging from me.

Tink, I wasn't judging YOU at all! You had the cajones to own up to what you did and that's WONDERFUL it's the OP who we are griping about. You answered to your mistake but in the end it's a good thing and not really a mistake and hey, it is what you want NOW so hey why not? There is nothing wrong with what you're doing. I had my first young and my second I will be 20. Both were planned with me and my husband! I'm not downing teen pregnancy at ALL I think that people are stupid to judge ALL teen parents because what, a long long time ago that is just what we DID! We got married early and had children early. It's only the pa__sed say 80 or so years that things have DRASTICALLY changed! I'm downing TERRI because she's a hypocritical s___t b___hing and moaning like she's amazing or something when she is no different than everyone else and should get off her d__n high horse. She needs to come back down to reality. NOWHERE did I say teen parenting was bad, I think if you have the means to support a child and you are financially, emotionally and physically ready then why NOT have children? TERRI is a complete MORON who thinks she is better than everyone else. What, because she said one swear word and I swear ONLINE like it's so incredibly horrible? It isn't! Like Teddy says, it's a sentence enhancer *shrugs.* If she doesn't like it that's too d__n bad, I swear. Sure, I'll swear in real life when I'm around just my mother or people I am comfortable with and my daughter isn't around but that's it. I think I can do and say what I like online where my daughter isn't going to read it. (She can't read anyways..) so what's so terrible about it?

addysmummy, i don't think that i am better than anyone else at all. i am just saying that you don't need to swear so much. nothing personal to anyone else.

you guys sure are funny. hahahaha... no sweetie i don't think that I am better than anyone else. Everyone has good qualities and bad and I guess the swearing is just one of yours. When I first read your post I was under the impression that you were alot older than what you actually are and I am sorry about that.. I guess in a sense that I am sorry for my first post about ppl thinking less of teen moms cause I see that you were one yourself. And I also think that it is pointless to keep posting on this post any longer since the author has not commented again in any shape or form.

i personally think that you both have taken it to far addy and terri....this post is about moe and the fact that she is scared...instead of insulting her and making her feel stupid why not encourage her to do the right thing and tell someone that can help her? when adults look down on teens and children they tend to do dumb things like have babies in bathrooms and drown them or throw them in the dumpster because of someone telling them that they were stupid to get pregnant in the first place! that is not right. moe get the right help and get out of teen pregnancy you need answers not punishment... call an 1.800# for help.. thats what i would do. good luck young lady

addy, did you not say in a earlier post that you were turning twenty? and that you have a daughter who i am a__suming you had in your teen years... so i a__sumed at one point you were a teen mom. not that it really matters and no i do not think that iam better than anyone else. i was a teen mom and therefore i was posting on a teen pregnancy forum to help someone else not to come here and be an a__s. i have three children and expecting my fourth and i am happy with my situation. i know how being a teenage mom can be hard but you know what it is all worth the struggle. i am not really saying anything about you just that you tend to swear alot on here and i havent said a thing about anyone else therefore i am not thinking nor acting as though i am better than anyone else. duckiesmom i agree with you 100%. there is no much c___p out there nowadays and alot of uneducated girls on this topic. most are not aware of the support that they can receive. i encourage all pregnant teens to confide in someone that they trust and remember the decision is your no matter what anyone tells ya. i was scared to tell my parents and in the end it wasnt that bad.. i thought for sure that my dad would freak but he was cool and he talked about it for a long time and he told me that whatever i choose is my decision. and when i found out i was pregnant with this child i was like oh wow what are ppl going to say i am 24 yrs old and pregnant with my fourth child and than i came to the conclusion let ppl think what they want.. i support my kids, have my own house, have a full time job and i am the one responsible for them so kiss my b___t if you wanna judge. my husband was working for a company and they were very judgemental about us having three boys and i told him when he said about them going to say c___p to him about another one and i said tell them to mide their own business you and me are the ones at raise them not them nor the government. just set them straight and they wont say anything else. so ya stand up for yourself. take care.

I'm really not going to bother reading that whole thing.

addy was not intended only for you.. only the first few sentences were i was referring to teen moms in general about how you are the one that chooses your life after the birth of your child. and that teens can do things good afterwards with their lives.

Yeah,too bad the majority under 17 DON'T. :)

addy have y had a doc appointment yet?? is your belly getting bigger?? how far gone are you now?? sorry about all the questions lol just curious lol

addy, i cant believe how much i agree with you on that. there is so many girls out there that need to wake the hell up and man up to their responsiblitly and it breaks my heart to learn how these babies and small children are so neglected. i look at my children when i hear c___p about neglect and think man how could someone ever do that stuff to something so precious. and when the parents take responsiblity for their actions and raise the child it teaches them nothing either. sorry to vent so much but that subject boils my blood. lol. how far along are you?

Lol angel. I've not had an appt. yet because my insurance decided to not accept me yet they need "more paperwork".. b___ds. But I'm 10 weeks 1 day getting a lot bigger ( at least to me lol ) and my hubby went to AT yesterday (annual training) for the army. BOO! And yeah, it's stupid but genuinely most of the girls under 17 don't care for their children sadly.

lol i still think its twins lol, are u still realy tired? morning sickness? did u have implantation bleeding at all? i think i might have that right now but not sure how common it is am 6dpo and i have brown pinkish discharge (tmi sorry lol) but my periods are so regular and the only thing i can think of is implantation bleeding, by the time you have your first scan you will be able to hear the heartbeat!!!

Ugh God lemme tell ya, I went to the store for like a half hour today and by the time I got home I was sooo exhausted I wanted to PASS OUT. And I got these cheap prenatals and they make me want to PUKE every time I take them. I didn't have any implantation bleeding but I did have light cramping but nothing to call a doc about. I am really hoping it is N O T twins. My mother says it is probably just a pretty healthy baby. I think so too.. or rather hope so so incredibly much that it makes me think that x_x; But if you had spotting it very well might have been implantation bleeding. You might want to test in a few days just to see whatcha get since you had the light spotting!

angel: good luck this month. i'm sending you some baby dust. i seem to have extra right now (extra weepy and my bb's are killing me). **addy** which brand do you have? i have the spring valley ones from walmart and no problems yet (knock on partical board. no wood on my desk). but it's over 100 degrees (40 degrees C for angel) here so after a walk from the car to the store, i'm ready for a nap lol.

oh and addy just type TLDR when you don't want to read a long a__s post. it stands for "too long didn't read".