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Not to be mean sweetie, but here is something that you have to realize-you're 13 and you don't even grasp how the world works. Hell, I got pregnant at 20 and I realize now at 23 (happy b-day me-October 1st) that I was a naive little kid.. You look at other people and think you are making smarter decisions than them because you're not being a ho, you're with someone who says they love you, but sweetie-they all do. I promise you, I could flirt with every guy in my apartment complex, promising them s_x, and I could get at least half to say they love me or want to get married, or think I'm the one, or will be there for a baby if we conceived one, if they thought they could get some after that. The girls in here can second me on the fact that you really don't get it, and the sad thing is, that if you ARE pregnant, you're going to have to learn the hard way. At 13 there is so much that you have ahead of you. Like real s_x where two people know what they are doing and it feels good, or s_x with real love instead of experimenting. There's high school, driving, getting a job and gaining independence from you parents, going out with the girls, flirting with guys, prom, graduation, etc. I mean even at 13 there's more to look forward to, like getting taller, growing b___bs (or them reaching their real size), getting a womanly body, having more than one year into being a teen, etc. If you have a baby, all of that will be gone. You will be at home, with a baby, trying to finish middle school, then high school (and you'll have a higher chance of dropping out once you get old enough to work). Also, with your age, the chances that your guy is going to stick with you are slim. If he is 13, 14, 15 then he is waaaay too young to really be held to anything he says. He is way too immature! Then at that age he is at the mercy of parents and friends, so if his parents look at it like it's your fault, and try to get him away from you-good luck! If his friends make him think it's embarra__sing having a girl pregnant-he'll deny you. If he's 16, 17, 18 +. He is going to have a good chance of facing jail time so he can't be there for you. If he is that age and is having s_x with a 13 year old, most likely you can chalk it up to being used, becaise most guys that age don't a__sociate with girls your age, and it will be an embarra__sment if his peer found out. Now you might get lucky, but you have put your self into a position where your chances of things even coming out slightly positive are SLIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIMMMMMMMMMM!!!!! So please, get your boyfriend, an older sibling, an older friend, whatever to go get you a pregnancy test. Pee on it, read the result and pray for a negative. But no matter what you need to not be doing this until you learn a little bit more, but if you are dead set on it, you need to get to a planned parenthood and talk to someone up there, you need to talk to your parents but at the very least get to some clinic, planned parenthood, family doctor, school counselor, school nurse etc to get as much help as you can to make better decisions, because sweetie, pregnancy is not the only think you have to worry about in this world!
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