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lol i am embara__sed to ask this question but is rubbing your own c___t and getting off masterbation? if not then i can count on one hand how many times i have m_________ed in my life...lmfao!

amanda i know how you feel about the not wanting to be touched thing...........i feel like that most of the time so most of what we are telling you is probably usless to you atm...........i wish i could help but im still trying ti figure it out myself lol..............i mean its impossible to do any of these things when you dotn want to be touched...........the thing that works for me sometimes is if we,re lying there and its innocent sometimes it works sometimes it doesnt...................

Gucci we bought one of those "Play vibration" things you're talking about... Doesn't do anything for me. I think it kind of hurts and is uncomfortable. Am I hopeless :(

Jeff has found spots on me that make me feel good, that turn me on. For example, we'll start making out and he'll make his way from my mouth to my neck, to the lower part of my b___sts, to my inner thighs, to my back. It's things like that. Gentle ma__sage, rubbing of the genitals lightly and lovingly.. things like that. Oh and DB, to my knowledge that is getting off/masturbation lol. If it isn't then I have never masturbated before LOL.

Lol thanks tess...my guy friends always ask me questions that they have always wondered about women, and the most popular is how often do women m_________e....Im like i dont know how to answer this cause, I dont know if its masterbation

Certain situations, it might be the guy. When i was upset or didnt feel like i was treated like i should have been, i ended up keeping that in the back of my head, and when we were perfectly fine, and he tried having s_x with me, i just wasnt into it. I felt like i was being used, even though i wasnt what so ever, but because i had the thought of him yelling at me or getting mad for no reason, he didnt turn me on. I have a problem anyway getting off, and it wasnt until i got pregnant that i could get off faster, but still even though i am pregnant if we get in a fight and later that day or the next day if he tried i would not be aroused WHAT SO EVER. Maybe it is the break up though. Or maybe in the back of your mind you are thinking something bad about him with even realizing it, or wanting it to go away. Like if you suspect him cheating on you, or even because you were hurt in October over the break up maybe you have that in the back of your mind still that he really hurt you. Or he just isn't that great anymore. Try new positions, and new techniques. But its also about feeling comfortable, completely and utterly comfortable with him... You seem comfortable though. You have had 2 kids together. I'm sure, you are comfortable.

We only have one kid together, and I'm absolutely positive I am not upset at him or uncomfortable with him. I love him, I always have. I wasn't upset at him when we broke up, I was confused. I was the one who broke up with him. We're doing really well now. I just had a baby, not wanting to have s_x is very normal. I'm sure It has nothing to do with anything else.

Oh well i didn't know that you had a baby that recently. You didnt make it sound that way. Maybe you just need some spicing up, or to get out of the house with him and have a romantic night and end it romantically in bed or how ever you want it.

just a quick question amanda....you say you think this is what caused you to break up in october but it has only been a problem for 2 months and that it was ok before? how could that cause your break up if its only been a prob for 2 months lol........and i thought you had only just got back together recently?

Like I said, it wasn't great for the first few months after I gave birth... so we definitely were not having as much s_x as we used to. Because I over thought things, I figured I didn't want to have s_x because I didn't love him anymore. My s_x drive completely disappeared two months ago to the point where I just don't even want to be touched. We only broke up for two days, then we got back together but decided to try and take things slow before becoming engaged again. We just recently got back to where we were.

Oh and Branjola, sorry if I came off b___hy when I said that. I didn't mean to. I just wanted to make it clear that I don't doubt my relationship :) And yeah I'm 7 months postpartum. I don't mention a lot of little details about myself because I'm a regular on the form and most of the girls already know... So yeah :)

Not trying to start anything but amanda dont listen to them! Your hormones are just out of wack just like the rest of ours. Like i said before having kids is like starting over as a woman and your body, your prefernces will change along with your s_x drive. Some women love s_x while pregnant other women dont want to be touched. and after having a baby those feeling dont just go away immediatly. It takes time, and alot of mental confrentations with yourself......man doesnt it suck to be a woman somtimes?!?! : )

wow. this thread is so all about me lol. I went from being a major s_x freak to wanting NOTHING. I dont even want Ryan to hug or kiss me. I thought there was something wrong with me, lol.

At least we're not alone! I mean I had expected my s_x drive to decrease but to not want to be touched at all? Even when I think about s_x I get kinda grossed out... I guess I'm seeing it very physically instead of how I used to see it with the emotional part of it attached. And we all know s_x is gross lol

Haha. I have no idea what my problem is. We still have s_x twice a week for his sake. I just lay there wanting it to be over. I always have to make him have s_x with me because he says he doesnt want it if i dont but i just cant do that to him.

geez,my husband is h__y pretty much all the time,but being 32 weeks pregnant I'm not really in the mood at all,and when I am I would rather take care of it myself.We do it once a week or so,but it is hard for me to get in the mood,and even harder to get comfortable enough to want to do it.I know it is the pregnancy,because when I'm not pregnant,we do it probably 2 or 3 times a week.Right now though I have a toddler and a big belly and I just don't want to.