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Angel are you on right now?

nope tish i went to bed after that comment but im on now lol

iona: actually, i'm 28, but i don't think you're mature enough to post here yet. i don't care for your age. you're just here to b___h at people. what a useless poster.

pb: why would we need to get over it? you said you weren't attacking someone and i showed you how you were. i think whatever is bugging you, you need to get over. i don't know what's going on with you but you have changed since i last spoke with you. there are ways to be blunt to a younger person without being an a__s about it. and angel has been on these boards consistantly since she started posting here, you know back when you stopped posting for a while? so why shouldn't she be able to post? if we go by continuity, then you don't get to post either. and make sure to let us all know which posts we're allowed to post in. i would hate to break some unwritten law. and how is she hypocritical? she hasn't claimed to have 18 miscarriages and then change it to none and happen to be pregnant. she came here talking about trying to have a kid and that's it and now she's on her way. i think you need to take a vacation.

angel: the reason it's annoying to talk about kendra here is that this is another person's post. try to put yourself in their shoes. you come here asking for help and then someone changes the subject and you never get the help you came for. that's why we try to not hijack posts. it's just forum etiquette.

tish: i wouldn't come back either. the post was hijacked by women fighting like little kids. i wouldn't bother trying to get advice from someone like them either.

I mean it did come off b___hy, i get that..but i mean. At least i tried to give advice..everyone else kinda just mocked it. But its okay. I really honestly already apologized. I've been going through a lot and just b___hed everyone out. =( me soory.

Seriouly people what is wrong with you? I came to this thing to look for some advice and all you people are doing is agureing with each other. The only advice ive really gotten is to stay in school, well i already knew that. DUH. Try looking at my problem from my point of veiw. If your were 15 and you wanted a baby and you came to older people for advice you would expect them to act like mature people and try to help you out. But no all you people do is agrue with each other. Im not saying i want every one to be n my side and tell me to go ahead and do whatever. I really do need advice on this. Im sick of adults acting like little kids again and agruing over what advice to give a 15 year old who wants a baby. So heres some advice to you people. STOP argueing and if you really think you have good advice for me then email me. my email is broken_teddy_bear21 I still dont know what i should do about this. i havent gone to my mom about it and neither has my boyfriend. Im scared and so is he but we are serious about this and we have no idea what to do. so like i said if you think you can really help me then email me.its at hotmail.com

Sammie, why do you think people are going to HELP you ? YOU ARE 15! Raising a baby is more than giggles smiles and happiness. It isn't like that. You don't know anything about raising a child.. you are still a child yourself. I am on my 2nd with my husband and we are still nervous!

LMAO at this "sammie" person....if you whine this much now, imagine how you will whine trying to raise a child .... i read that post and all i read was wahhhh wahhhh wahhh i want a baby im still a baby wahhh wahhh wahhhh sorry to be so blunt BUT you know its a BAD idea....you said it yourself so WHY should we waste our time telling YOU what you ALREADY know?

sammie stop b___hing. i posted advice to you but i guess if it doesn't say "yeah ruin a baby's life and try so young" you don't want to hear it. grow up a few years and then try. YOU'RE TOO YOUNG!

Sammie, when i was younger and realized that i would want kids someday i started to think about what that would be like. I would imagine myself and my husband living in a nice house in a nice and quiet neighborhood, i would be a stay at home mom and i would take my baby on walks everyday. Basically i had set a goal in my mind on getting my life a certain way before we started trying for kids. So even as a teenager i would save as much money as i could, and i went to college so i could have a good job and earn more and then i met a guy while in college who basically wanted the same as me so we stared working towards that goal together. I would say around 21 i really started to want a baby but i knew if we had one then i wouldn't be able to stay home and i really wanted to be able to do that, so we waited and at 25 we finally started trying and i had my baby at 26 and it has just been wonderful. I have everything i always wanted, and i stayed home with my dd for 9 months and now i work part-time by choice. So i still have a lot of time with my daughter but also have a career. I guess my advice is think about what you really want when it comes to having a baby. Maybe that will help shift your focus. Think about how much easier things would be if you started to plan and save now and waited at least 5 years. By then you guys would probably be able to have your own place and one of you could be working somewhere full-time at a place that offers benefits. Believe me i do understand how hard it is to want a baby and at the same time know you are not ready but you are young and you have plenty of time to have one. So make your life the way you want it before you bring a child into this world, everyone will be so much happier for it.

I'm going to say....you should not have a baby. At the very least you both need to graduate and move out of your parent's houses first. I'm a__suming you want to finish school. Would you plan on working to support your child financially? Because if you go to school all day long and go to work when school gets out, when would there be time for your child? After you got off work you would have to sleep before getting up and going to school again unless there's some miracle caffine patch somebody neglected telling me about. And who is going to watch the baby while you go to school and work? Your parents? They already raised you so I'm a__suming they're done having kids and probably don't want to raise yours. If you want to opt for daycare I would suggest looking into how expensive it is because when I lived in an apartment my daughter's daycare was more than my rent. What you should do now is get good grades, graduate, perhaps work part time so you can learn responsibility and about money, and during that time make sure this boyfriend lasts that long.

you have got to be kidding me. grow up and then you will realize how hard life really is and what love is. you are 15 and you might love your bf but you are not in love so grow up, get a life ,and then think about having a baby.

Sammie... before you decide you truly want a baby think about what you could be doing to yourself. You are only 15 years old and you have so much to look forward to. I dont think it is in any way a good idea to try to conceive a child at that age. There is so much that you would miss out on that you cant ever get back if you were to get pregnant at this age. My sister was 16 when she got pregnant and 17 when my nephew was born. She is a wonderful mother, getting ready to turn 21 next February, but she said that if she had it to do over, even though she loves her son with everything she has, she wouldnt have had him. She has missed out on so many things. Think of your life right now... you are on summer vacation, and can do anything you want, go anywhere you want, stay up as late as you want, and sleep in as late as you want. Throw a baby into that mix, and all that goes away. If you want to go out, you have to find a sitter, if you have to find a sitter, then you have to spend more money than just going out because you will have to pay the sitter. Kiss sleep goodbye because you wont get any till the baby is 1 or older... and in some cases (my sisters) you will have that baby still sleeping in your bed at 3 years. So kiss anything romantic happening with your bf... because if there is a baby in the bed it kind of ruins the mood. Truly... you need to experience all that life has to offer before you decide you want to become a teen parent. I am nearly 24 years old, and married, and sometimes I wonder why I didnt wait longer. I get jealous when some of my other friends that dont have children can go out whenever they please and not have to call around for someone to watch their child. I love my baby boy, but life is VERY different when you have a child of your own. Your life is not near as important as theirs. You also have to think about the fact that you are still in school... think about how hard it is to study right now, throw a screaming baby into the mix, and see how easy it is then. I know its possible, but it is very difficult. Also remember you arent even able to drive yet. How are you going to get to your doctors appts every month, and then every week... how are you going to get to the hospital when you have to deliver, and once the baby is here how are you going to get him/her to their doctor visits, or to the hospital in case of emergency. Really think about this because it is a change that I dont think you should be making at such a young age. Enjoy life, and think about having a baby when you know you have done all the things you want to do. And I guarantee you wont have done all the things you want to do in life by the age of 15. I hope you make the right decision to hold off on having a child, it would not be right for you to push aside your life to bring a life into this world that you are more than likely just not ready for. :) Ultimately it is your decision, but I hope that you choose to hold off on having a baby until you can enjoy your own life as a child/young adult.

So I came upon this post and had just a quick question: PreciousBaby19 - you say you have a son who turned 4 just recently and you are now 19 would make you 15 when you had him and had miscarriges since then....while I'm sorry for the miscarrages, wouldn't it be awsome if you gave yourself that little speech you just typed out when you were in the process of having s_x at 15? I mean isn't that a cla__sic case of a pot calling kettle black?? I don't know just a thought - you've got quite a mouth on you and seem to spend a whole to of time on this forum preaching to others, when really when one looks you over, you're just like the other 15 year olds getting pregnant, having babies much too young. and having a husband, looking for a house, getting a kitten (sometimes you ought to read things over before you post and think about home immature some of the things that you spew sound) do not make you mature. You are no better than the other teenage moms and want-to-be-moms and moms to be, so please stop trying to act like you are. Now I will run for cover before you open up that big old mouth with obsenities and go do that one thing, that's imprtant in life, you may or may not have heard about it - it's called a JOB.