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And, a man certainly doesn't have to love you to sleep with you. If you've slept with guys you didn't love what makes you think they are incapable of doing the same? You only ever love someone once right? Then why do some men have several different partners? Why do they cheat on their wives? Why are there men who rape a different woman every night? Why are there men who sleep with a different woman every night? One things for sure, men love s_x, and they will do or say anything to get it. Which is why this man has taken advantage of you. You don't need protection because you're in love? Is that something he told you? Men don't like using protection because it takes away some of the feeling of s_x. It has nothing to do with being in love. The only reason you wouldn't use protection is if you wanted to conceive a child. Since it seems neither of you want to... the only other reason would be that he said these things to take advantage of you. He calls you his sweeta__s and you like that? That's the type of name a man will call you if he sees you nothing but a sweet a__s... nothing but someone used for s_x. A play thing, if you will. If he respected you his nicknames would be flattering and considerate. Like "Sweet heart", "love", "beautiful", etc.

Yep, he's a pedophile.

where in gods green earth would you meet a 34 year old MAN when your a 15 year old CHILD? you can't even drive anywhere so how did you even meet him? You know he can go to jail for this and if you still live at your parents, fyi they can look at history on your computer and see what your doing. He will get caught, and he will get arrested. Theres no way around it, your not even half his age. Also, planning on getting pregnant at 16 is not very responsible...and ur still illegal at 16 to have a child with a 34 year old.

He's her dad's friend, I a__sume that's how they met... Just like Catholic School Girl from about a year ago. Anyone remember her? lol :P

I think this is the stupidest thing i have ever heard "we dont use protection because we love eachother". Married couples use protection as a form of BIRTH CONTROL so they don't get stuck in situations that are not planned. Abortion is NOT a form of birth control, it is not the easy way out. I honestly do not believe this man loves you, I just wish your father knew all about this, this man should be in prison. Seriously, go and speak to someone, this man is taking serious advantage of you and as a child you are falling for every word he is feeding you.

Let me try to break things down since I feel very sympathetic toward you and your situation. You said you were afraid he wouldn't feel attracted to you if you got fat-- this directly contradicts him loving you and making you feel beautiful. When someone loves you, they don't care if you gain 30 pounds, smell like c___p with your hair all messed up in an old pair of sweats. They will think you're beautiful anyways. Love is much, much more than a physical attraction. If he loved you, his emotional attraction to you would intensify the physical, making things like that not matter. You said he's not a pedophile. Here is the definition for you: "a psychological disorder in which an adult experiences a s_xual preference for children." Children, as used in that definition, is usually people under the age of 18. Adult meaning over the age of 18. It is illegal for relationships like that to happen. For example, in my state it is illegal for someone under the age of 18 to have s_x with someone over the age of 18 as long as their ages are within 3 years apart. 3 years. Yours is 19 years. He told you not to tell your father.. of course he did. If you told your father he would be far from accepting. Your 'boyfriend' would be thrown in jail for many, many years. You think you don't need protection because you love each other, and you believe you can just tell your body not to get pregnant. This is extremely false. Married couples use protection. There is a reason it is called 'birth control.' Your body decides when you get pregnant and you have absolutely no control over it what-so-ever. More often than not couples who want to have children have a much harder time becoming pregnant than people who don't want children? A couple could try for years to have children, then when they stop trying become pregnant. It's actually quite common. Unplanned pregnancies happen all the time, women who don't want kids are becoming pregnant. That is why there are abortion clinics. You said your dad would be accepting of your relationship if you told him. So go on, tell him and see what happens. If you think it's not a big deal why haven't you? Because this man thinks it's a big deal? Why isn't he as proud of your love as you are? Just for kicks, tell your dad. See what happens. If we all turn out to be wrong and your dad doesn't get really p__sed off and have this guy sent to jail, then you'll have your proof there's nothing wrong with your relationship. If we're wrong what are you afraid of?

sweet(dumb)a__s: based on your usage of language, you're a toddler minded hole for this old fart to use. sorry kid, but you wouldn't know love if it slapped you in the face. you want to know how soon you can get knocked up again after having an abortion? they should sew you shut. or at least your legs. he sleeps with you probably because you're the easiest "yes" he can find. and omfg he told you a man will only sleep with you when he loves you? that's wrong lol. he tells you that because his reason for sleeping with you is he needs to get his rocks off and he doesn't want to get his hand dirty so he gets off in you so he doesn't have to clean it up lol. you're so ignorant lol. find a planned parenthood. they can help with your decision. also, you can't have an abortion without your daddy finding out so haha when the old fart goes to prison and gets banged by some guy but i guess it'll be ok cuz he'd only be banged by some prison sweetie named bubba because bubba loves him lol. and, uh, he'll go to jail because you're not legal age yet and he's way over legal age. any court would see him as using a minor for s_x. that is illegal. so much for you knowing everything lol.

why r ppl so negitive i mean.....if ur happy with someone why not be pleased when other ppl find love to??its a amazin feelin. i can honestly say we r happy the time we spnd together obv not much time right now cos he work day n night 2 save for our future!!! i dont think theres nothing w rong with havin a baby at 16 itll be great to be a family. obv he dont want kids yet he aint ready but he promised me when im 16 hel get my preg n we can live together n hell yeah i trust him what do u got if u aint got trust in ur man :( im totally not stupid i swear. me n hims for real n i wanna be with him for ever

Gosh dear, if you love his stuff in you you better take full responsibility for what his stuff created!! Get your head out of your b___t. He does NOT love you, what he is doing IS considered rape and I think we're all thankful that we DON'T have a man like yours. He's feeding you any line he has to to get you to keep sleeping with him and because you JUST turned 15 you're still a child and are believing everything he spews. So, your decision is to kill this innocent baby and then hop back in bed (with no protection) only to get pregnant again. But oh c___p, you won't be 16 yet so you'll just get rid of that one too. Will you just keep having abortions until you get to b__w out the candles on your cake?! The stupidity is absolutely overwhelming. He "obv don't want no kids" right now because you are 15 YEARS OLD and all he wants to do is get off. AUGH! I wish to high heavens you were here with me so I could shake you child! You need to tell someone. You're blinded to the fact that this is illegal and very, very wrong. Ok, not going to be on here all day with this kid. Someone hold me back! :) SourB___t, you're making dumb decisions that will affect the rest of your life and you need to take time to think about what you're doing. Do none of your friends know that their buddy is sleeping with a MAN who's 34 or do they think it's cool too? So many things wrong with this situation. Sad.

It makes me so angry, reading what you are saying. You are so immature it is unbelievable, blind to the real world.

Jesus girl you need 2 get a grip, and a real wake up call! What u are doing is insane!! U may think this relationship is normal, or right, but u are so wrong about that girl. Trust me this guy isnt gonna be there 4 u forever, he is using u like everyone else is saying here! FFS girl open ur eyes, see how ridiculous it sounds. When i was younger i was taken advantage of by an older man 2 (cos thats whats happening 2 u, he's taking advantage of how trusting & gullible u are). He told me he loved me, made me think we had a great future together. Well it turned out he was married & wanted some fun. Thats all u are - his fun. Theres been so many problems since, so much heartache. U are heading 4 a big fall girl, u need 2 tell someone.

i seriously doubt he's working when he tells u he is, not 4 ur 'future', & i bet the only time he's with u he wants s_x right?

What a little s___t you are! First comes pregnancy then comes HIV POSITIVE!!!! Then you have 10 years before you get full b__wn AIDS and die a horrible death. Trust me I know, my brother died of AIDS and it was horrible. But you go girl, keep having that unprotected s_x with a man that I'm sure has had many many partners before you.

there is NO WAY this is a real post. Dont get yourselves twisted over this troll.

i don't think this is real either i don't think any 15 yr old would be this stupid(at least i hope not) i think they are just messing with you guys to make you mad

this post is ...very familiar, in both the way its written to the story line.