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Cos I know I can't win?! This isn't about winning is it. You're obviously now realising what everyone was saying in the first place and why I thought you were ridiculous. I'm not going to be all oh haha I was right, I doubt thats going to help you in any way. As has been said already, you must really think this through now cos only you can make this decision. His reaction I think shows he isn't going to supportive in this situation. I know you feel a lot about him, but even though he may have genuinely fell for you, he knew it was wrong and didn't want to be caught so had to hide it. Is that the type of relationship you want? I think if he really cared, then no matter what, if he thought you were miscarrying he'd have been round like a shot. Well I hope you can figure things out, I understand your mother will be mad but she needs to get a grip too, cos shouting about it wont change or solve anything.

thanks gurls i know ur all right im just d__n stupid wen it comes to this guy :( we met last night cos he wanted to talk but it ended in s_x again i just cant say no to him n i feel really stupid. why cant i be strong enough just to say no??? he was been real sweet n kissin meso we did it n after he just changed n now i think of it he does that a lot but never the same as last night. he didnt ask much about the baby but said i cant keep it n thats it. i just dunno. on a better note the bleedings stopped n theres been no pains. i gotta go back to the docs this wk

sweeta__s...... I think someone else mentioned it, but you should try a planned parenthood or pregnancy crisis center in your area. They specalize in these types of things. That way you can talk to someone who trained to handle these types of situations and they could help you go over all your options. Have you told your mom who it is for? Do you live with your mom? what kinda doctor did you go to? Did they do an ultrasound? what state do you live in? I am really good at finding resources and can hook you up with someone in your area for a__sistance. I know it is hard to stay away from someone you love even if they are bad for you..then throw on emotions of pregnancy and the fact that you are young so you dont have much experience in this area. You should sit down and write down everything going on and how you feel about all of it so youcan look at it on paper...it helps to clear your mind. then pray to god for strength and direction, and come on here as much as you need to get support so that you can get the strength to get away from this guy....YOU DESERVE BETTER!!!! I know it sounds corney but look in the mirror and tell your self out loud I DESERVE BETTER... It might not feel right at first but keep doing it... you need to start loving yourself!!!! God made you exactly who you are and loves you for exactly who you are!!! You have a chance here that a lot of young girls miss out on and that is to truley gain love and respect for your self and the rest will fall in to place.

Why not talk to your dad about it?

im scared my dad wud just hit me hes hit me a lot hes hit my mom a lot (guess thats why they aint been together for ages). i thought may be my mom wud go tellin him but not yet. breezieb yeah im with my mom at the moment not sure how long for. i went to our physisian (sp?) no they didnt do a u/s but i have to have 1. im in boston MA. yeah i just cant seem to stay away from him he called me again last nite n we talked til my mom herd n grabbed the phone so he put it down so she didnt know it was him. i find it really hard to love or like my self i dont think im a good person cos bad things arnt suppost to happen to good ppl r they? guess tho ive always been blamed for most things wrong lol!

thanx btw

Thats how wankers like him get laid, they choose someone vulnerable because they know others won't take their c___p. From your other posts it looks like you were abused when you were little is that right? If so, you can't seperate this from those experiences, because he's doing the same thing. He's just trying to cover it over with a load of sugar by telling you he genuinely loves you. Thing is if he did, then he'd be by your side no matter what. So keep your chin up and be strong and ignore him. Better yet let people know it's him, then it's gonna be very difficult for him to prey on you. When are you back at the doctors?

You could always call the police...

sweeta__s..... I will look up resources in your area and post them for u. Please know you are a good person!!!! unfourtantly you have been misguided. And bad things happen to everyone!!!! it is up to you to decide how you are going to respond to those things. take this as a blessing to really look at yourself and get to know yoursself, a chance to get strength and to truley love your self... Making the descion to love yourself and do good for your self now will help you avoid alot of future heartache and it will help you realize that life is what you make it and YOU have the ability to be anything you want! Start making goals and working towards them both long term and short term. You need to know that you can have a great life....take the steps!!!

ill first of all he must be a nasty old man. you are one nasty girl. u grose me out. having an abortion is not a good idea u are killing a human being. u made the decision of havinf s_x will a ill old man and u acted grown up so now be grown up and have ur baby. and i am sorry to tell u but u digust me. sorry but i am honest.

hey sweet, how are you feeling? Genna xx

luzme - stfu please.

There is a difference between honest and being a hypocritical b___h. Honest statement: I believe abortion is wrong especially when you made the choice to have s_x with an older man and decided to not use protection. Hypocritical b___h statement: I've obviously had unprotected s_x and think I might be pregnant, can barely write but I'm telling a 15 year old that she disgusts me. Dear I don't agree with abortion or her choice to have s_x with an older man, but the disgust thing is really unnecessary. I promise you there is somethiing about you that I would love, and there is something about you that would disgust me. That goes for everyone. Be nice and try to tone it down a bit. Also, stop replying to posts that are two and three years old. It annoys the regulars and there's no point in wasting your energy telling someone not to have an abortion when they were pregnant or thought they were pregnant two or three years ago. They've either had the baby or aborted it already.

there is something wrong wit the age thing when he is 20 years older then you. u r not a woman yet, you are a little girl. and thats is just nasty. either he has a prob in the head thinkin a tennager is someone for him. or he is playin around with young meat. he is sick in the head.

its like having s_x wit ur dad. and if your parents knew his a__s would be in jail.

its NOT like havin s_x with ur dad! if u read it all u wud see my parents rnt that bothered about me! n neway we aint together now :(