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Again, you are taking this much too far. I'm not telling anyone to do anything or to not post. I was hoping you'd realize that you are being harsh. Where did I say I know you? I said you're better than this... Are you saying I'm wrong? You aren't better than this? I'm not telling you where and where not to post.... You are not understanding what I'm saying at all, even though I've said it several times. You are taking such offense to it, it isn't even offensive. I'm not going to sit here and argue with you about what two faced means, you can call it whatever you want, I still think it was dumb. Why weren't you weren't offended then but you are now? Weren't you the one who openly said if she was near you you'd kick her a__s? But you want her to be okay? Listen, I was just trying to give you some advice, you're the only one who is offended by this at all. I don't care what you do, what you say or what you think. I simply thought you may have let your emotions get the best of you and didn't realize how mean you were being. You are the worst of them, quite honestly. I feel as though you may not know when to control yourself. I was just trying to point out that now is the time to bite your tongue, if you so choose. I thought, perchance, you'd wish to be seen as an adult, instead of a child who doesn't know when to stop.
Sorry, but you're really damaging your own image by continuing with this. I'm not saying you're the only one... This post didn't have your name anywhere in it. This is far from an attack on you. In the nicest way I can possibly say it... grow up.
I'm no longer arguing with you. You may do as you please, when you please. You are an adult, you make your own decisions. I was trying to be a friend to you, and help you and everyone else being mean to angel, out. That's what I believe a friend should do, tell you when you are at fault. That's what I would ask of you and everyone else I may have considered a friend. I didn't think you considered friends a bunch of yes (wo)men who just nod their heads at you so you don't b__w up in their faces. I gave you my opinion... Do with it what you please.
I'm through.
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honestly, nothing you've said has offended me. nothing anyone here says has. if anything, it is annoying to me. while you may have meant to be constructive with your criticism, it was insinuated that you were saying to whom and when to be nice. true, i may have let my emotions do the typing for me at times, but looking back, you weren't this "motherly" when you were 9 months pregnant. and that's how i feel you are now. in the nicest way possible, stop trying to be everyone's mother now that you are one. i mean sure this bickering gets old, but d__n, let people vent. that's why women are so superior to men. we vent and get over things. men hold it in and explode later. i admit i have a short gasoline covered fuse, but what i won't do is pretend i've never done what others are doing and attempt to correct their behavior. i'm sure once i have my baby, i will calm down, but considering i'm as miserable as i am right now, i'm going to allow myself some b___hing space. if addy starts being grouchy because she's having a tough pregnancy or feels bad, she's allowed. same for ashley, same for angel (yes i mean it) and same for anyone else that's pregnant. you had your moments and here's mine. angel's had a rough pregnancy so far from what i've read from her so she's cranky too. holy cow!!! better crucify her for it too. hell i bet if she was having a lovely pregnancy, she wouldn't feel like arguing either, but when you feel bad, you tend to be p__sy. even the "perfect" ones of us who feel the need to overcorrect. so once again, i'm not offended by what you said. i simply find it annoying and i guess i don't see this as serious as you do.
and i have no image to damage. i am not out to impress you, preppy, addy, db, or anyone else here. i also know that i am the one that specifically called myself out in this. preppy chose to add in her opinion of me and that's all well and good for her, but the difference here is i can admit i have done wrong to angel in the past (and present, but i'm talking about the past here).
as i said before, i don't care for what angel says. it really doesn't even annoy me that much, but considering where i am in my pregnancy and how i feel, everything is annoying. and she's having a rough time, what with falling and all, so she's probably edgier too, so we argue. big freaking deal. a real friend doesn't point out a flaw they themselves were guilty of and call it a friendly gesture, but i know what you are attempting here. just know that it won't help until i'm not in 24/7 pain or until i've had this baby. afterwards, i'm sure i'll be super lovey and sugary and want to join right in with you on telling everyone to play nice, but not now. patience (not flaw pointing) is the key to true friendship.
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Umm... If you agree you've done wrong why are you continuing? You attacked angel just a few posts ago when she barely said anything.... I mean if you really want to go about like this, go ahead. I'm not trying to mother you, I'm not trying to tell you what to do, as I have already said. If everything you say is true why do you keep posting in such spite? Why not leave the poor girl alone? You blame it on your pregnancy but isn't that what angel did and got attacked for it by you? Maybe you should really and truly think before you say things. I'm trying my best not to be offensive or 'annoying.' But you are so hypocritical and down right mean. If you think hurting a young woman's feelings isn't serious then you really must not be better than this. By all means, continue. I will no longer respond.
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What's kind of annoying is preppy and mandy going about acting like they don't invade posts in the intent to cause drama. I'm not trying to argue, but neither of them are any better than Teddy.
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Teddy-it's not two-faced, it's bipolar!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL just messing with you. Someone needs to lighten the mood here! Hey teddy, are you like hugely uncomfortable right now? I can't remember how far along you are, but I do remember you're about to pop, and I kind of notice an edge to all of your posts.
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AddyAndVictoriasMommy..lol sorry I had to type your full screen name cause it is so long and funny...what will it be like if you have a third.lmfao jk..Anyways tess Hope you are feeling well = )
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hmm teddy im gald you understand now that hormones, being pregnant ect can do the typing for you, i remember my little outburts and apologiy where i said i am get used to my hormones and still to about last week you still bring it up as an excuse! some find pregnancy more difficult thatn others some find it easier no one can be the judge of that.............i just wanted to add my hormoes DO make a difference post there..............i think most of us are expecting and finding it difficult which can play a part to all the b___hing..........................we are women a majority of them pregnant! of course there is going to be arguing but i think amandas point is jeesh its got to the extreem and we need to calm it a little bit............ and teddy you should stop being so hypocritical! i could of turned arounf and laughed at you! like you did to me when i said i am hormonal etc ect! apparently it doesnt affect anything! well you,ve obviously only just reached that stage so welcome to my world dont knock it till you,ve tried it!!
I HATE HORMONES!! the last couple of weeks i just cry!! i see a little baby and my eyes well up lmao!! if i see i alittle stray kitten i cry!! my cat got spaded last week and i cried all day thinking god what have i done my poor cat!! i,ve even started talking to my cat like its a human and i tuck her up in bed with me at night lmao!! tonie thinks its halliraius!
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Okay new subject....I think it is really cool that we actually have profiles on the forum now. I dont know how long it has been like that but i just noticed it, so i uploaded a picture of my boys. pretty cool. I feel like the only one who has used it though cause i couldnt find anyone else who actually filled in the info.
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You can still call me Addy lol or Tess or whatever is easiest..xD I ditched the last username.. for a better one :3
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We have profiles??? AWESOME!!!
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i have no idea how to use it or even get on to it lol
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Holy c___p, didn't know that. Cool!!
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Yea right where is says log in and you name it says profile...click on that to edit your own, and click on anyones name to view theirs.
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Aw teddy, I'm sorry, but I bet you anything that things are coming close. Hell I had my son at 37 weeks and I think Amanda said she had her daughter at 37 weeks. Of course my son was ALOT smaller, so your body might be writing an eviction notice to that little one!!!! Oh god-promise me that if something starts happening, you'll come on here and tell us-if you can of course. It's going to be so exciting. I'm already so excited for you!!! Ahhh-I'm usually not this peppy-but this is your first go round and I promise it's going to be amazing!! God don't I sound like a drug pusher! LOL
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I edited my profile.. SO COOL!
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Hey I just did my profile too and now and looking at everybody elses - its great!!!
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