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lexiilicous - January 9

im 14 and im pregnant my mom says its up to me whether i have it but shes not happy but she said she will support me either way . im scared though i want it but i dont want a abortion i just dont believe in it . what do you think i should do

 

AddyAndVictoriasMommy - January 9

You just said right there you want it. Maybe you should look into adoption. No matter what you decide to do it's going to be rough. You should try and find other girls your age who were pregnant or are, see what it was like for them.

 

lexiilicous - January 9

i want the baby but i just dont no how my othe family will accept it

 

guccigal87 - January 9

when it comes down to it its not the other families choice. If you beleive you can pay for and raise the baby right then go ahead it is very very hard though, especially at your age, adoption is another good choice cuz you can pick the family and you can have an open one and still see the baby and abortion is another choice that is fine. I have done two outta the three, I havent done adoption and well the other two were hard choices for me to make but when it comes down to it the choice is yours and only yours and you need to do what you feel is good in your heart and good for you

 

JT1118 - January 9

i know where your coming from im 14 and im a month pregnant and im debating weither or not too give up the baby for adoption or keep it. if you wanna talk my post is called 'i'm 14 and pregnant.....any advice' but you can talk to me i would love to help you.

 

AddyAndVictoriasMommy - January 10

It's really not up to the rest of your family. Do you think you can do it? Do you think you can wake up to a baby? Care for a baby? do everything that it takes?

 

babyxrawrz - January 10

wow, 14 is super young to be pregnant but yeah everybody makes mistakes..i've made plenty. It is def. your decision wether you keep the baby or not but you've also got to think about your education and finances that you're going to have to deal with. well I hope everthing goes well for you!

 

lunamoo - January 10

Hello Everyone here!!! YES IT IS up to her family if she is going to "raise" her child as HER FAMILY is the one who will provide 100% financial, emotional and logistical (housing etc) for the baby. I know this may sound harsh, but her family could say simply NO they do not want to raise another child. Of course a 14 year old can not raise a child on her own...why are people on here even asking....Anyway lexiicous, good luck! You are in a very very difficult situation. You need to sit down with some external help as well and your mom and come up with a plan of how you will all manage through this. Good luck!

 

AddyAndVictoriasMommy - January 10

We are talking about the REST of her family, not her immediate family who she is living with ( parents )

 

branjola - January 13

Think about adoption. There are other women out there who cant have children that would LOVE to raise the baby in you. I wouldn't kill it.

 

lexiilicous - January 14

I never really thought about this part i didnt realise it was just before i found out i was pregnant well around 5 days before i found out i was pregnant i drank about 4 bottles of wkd on a daily basis do you think this could seriously harm my child ?

 

AddyAndVictoriasMommy - January 14

You can't know for sure, but don't let it get you down.

 

lexiilicous - January 14

im still scared though i totally blame myself it would make me feel terrible do you think that it could be healthy even though

 

JT1118 - January 15

lexiilicious. do you wanna have the baby? becuz on my page you said that if you had the baby you had to move out.

 

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