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I took a pregnancy test and it came out positive...now what am i supposed to do? I'm scared and i can't bring myself to tell my boyfriend. I know abortion isn't an option but im afraid if i tell my mom right now she'll take me to go get one.
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You need to be strong, and think about your life and the baby's life. Do you want an abortion. An abortion may save your live but in the long run your regret it, just knowing you killing a live, part of you. They say that onces something in you dies, you die too. You need to be mature and take responsibility for your actions and tell your mom and your boyfriend and all of you need to deciede on what you want to do. How old are you?
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I'm 15. i had an abortion last year cause my mom made me and i hated it. I know i cant be a mom and i want to give my baby to a couple who can care for him or her. I come from a family who adopted and i love knowing even though i messed up there's some benefit out of it
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Look under General Pregnancy Questions for Adoption - there's a couple looking for adoption. Good for you! A courageous decision.
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You have to be brave. Tell your boyfriend, and your mother. If she tells you to get an abortion, be firm with her. Tell her you want to give it up for adoption and that's that. It is illegal for her to force you into an abortion. Ultimately it is your choice, if you don't want to get one, don't.
And DON'T TALK TO CREEPY ADOPTION PEOPLE OVER THE INTERNET! God Grandpa Viv is giving c___ppy advice today! Go to an ADOPTION AGENCY. Don't let the manipulative baby-collectors over the internet talk you into giving them your baby.
Anyway get on some birth control girl! Use at least two forms of birth control so that when you get pregnant again it will be planned. Good luck.
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It sounds like you've already made up your mind about the abortion issue. Now you have to be strong and stand behind it. Good luck sweetie... you can do it. In the short time I've been a part of this forum I'd say you'll find lots of support here!
I've been looking to adopt a little one myself for months, but I'm with Amanda... WATCH OUT FOR WEIRDOS ON THE INTERNET!!!!!!!! There are so many agencies out there to help you through the process, and depending on what you want in some cases YOU can choose the family.
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