Pretty Plz Help Me I Need Advice

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summersun - April 28

i missed my period and my mom said it was from my little sister is trying to start and that is why my period is late that is what my mom said. so i need your advice what do you think and i need to know right now because my boyfriend is scared to death!!! and im only 14 help plzzz!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

amanda17 - April 28

I'm kind of confused by what you mean. You said your mom is saying you missed your period because it's about time for your sister to start hers? That doesn't seem very likely to me. I heard some rumors when I first started my period that your period can come at the same time as someone you are close to... But that's never been accurate for me, and I've never heard of someone missing their period under those circ_mstances. Take a test anyways.

 

Grandpa Viv - April 28

There is a theory that women living together tend to menstruate together - something to do with pheromones. I don't think it applies in this case - ask your mom if her period is late too?? If you recently started having s_x, the emotional stress can cause you to be late or skip. Give us some dates. When was your period due, when did you have s_x, and what kind of protection if any. What signs do you have? Good luck

 

mama4andmore - April 28

There are many reasons why someone your age could being having their period late, but if there is any chance you may be pregnant take a test. I was 14 when I became pregnant with my 1st child and I know how scary it can be wondering. So to ease your mind take a test. Their may be facilities in your area that will give you a test for free and also they won't tell yourparents. But for the furture be safe and use a condom! Take care and the best to you

 

summersun - April 29

i took a test and it was negative so i don't no what to do now so what do you suggest!! my boyfriend is ok now he had a suzier when i told i missed my period and when i told him it was negtative he was relived

 

mama4andmore - April 29

For the future ALWAYS use protection. But wait for a week or two to see if it starts, if not have your mom make you a doctors appointment.

 

amanda17 - April 30

Wow, don't disrespect your mom like that... Despite what you may think, she loves you. She's just frustrated and disappointed in you. That's a hard thing for any mother to go through. You're her little girl, she only wants what's best for you. I think you should go back and apologize to her.

 

summersun - May 1

i tried to talk to my mom she wont even talk to me i told her i was sorry and she said she didnt care anymore about what i did i told her i wasn't pregnant i got my bf mom to take me to the doctors and he said im perfectly perfercet nothing wrong with me!! so i told the doctor to call my mom she did and she told her everything and she said that im not her problem so now im living with my bf

 

Teddyfinch - May 1

ok so if you're not pregnant, and you live with your boyfriend now, what's the problem?

 

gram2b - May 1

My Lord child!! You are 14??!! How old is your BF? You DO mean your living w/ your BF's PARENTS and him, right???

 

summersun - May 2

yes im living w/ his parents and he is only 16and a half

 

mama4andmore - May 2

I know growing up if rough,. Parents often contradict themselves by saying stop acting like a child and then saying you arent old enought to do that. You are at an age where you are expected to be on two different levels at once. I really think you and mom need to both appologize and come to an agreement. Don't let pride stop you from calling your mom because no matter how old you get you will always need or want her. DOn't be stubburn just go home and talk to her. Take care.

 

ladyZ07 - May 2

i COMPETELY agree with mama4andmore. i mean...its not easy to be the bigger person in situations like this. but it shows ALOT of maturity and..lol grown up ness in your self. jus go talk to her...and if she is still freaks out...give her more time until she is calm......and if she IS calm when you talk to her...then GREAT try working things out. but please dont grow FAR apart from her.....BELIVE me thats the HARDEST thing to have to go thru. I dont even talk to my mother for LESSER reasons...the best of luck to you

 

summersun - May 2

i went home like you suggested and apolizied to my mom and she did the same well mom and i think the best thing to do is be a part for a couple of days to be apart you no and then on sunday im moving back in

 

angelmonkey - May 2

i agree when i was living athome me and my mum constantly rowedand after i moved i didnt talk to her for a year!! and it was the hardest thing i,ve done.........we now have a close friendship!1 also summersun in some posts you say your not pregnant and in others you say you are?? im confused

 

Grandpa Viv - May 2

Summer, I hope you and the bf are using condoms now, or better yet not having s_x at all. Since we don't know when you ovulated this cycle, you could get pregnant any time. Good luck!

 

PreciousBaby19 - May 2

fist of all..move back home...try NOT having s_x at 14....rplace that with doing well in school..getting nice summer job, babysitting, and starting to respect your mother. Jesus if you were my daughter.....uhg.

 

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