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i would say that he wants kids. cuz hes hinting around wanting you to have s_x with him without protection.

Maybe, maybe not. I mean there is a possibility for everything. He could be hinting at that or he could be hinting that he wants a different feeling other than the rubber ;-). But u never kno till u ask!

i wish my boyfriend was like that. he said he'd leave me if i got pregnant and i think i am now. maybe you should ask your man x

well im kinda thinking he is because he knows im on no form of birth controlle... and im hoping to move out this summer and i have the option of moving an hour away or six hours away and he just kinda looked around and said you do have more options then out of town... im happy just not sure if im ready for kids yet... on average how expencive is it? i live in alberta canada...

Kids are pretty expensive. Even if you buy the cheap diapers and formula and buy everything second hand, there are just a lot of expensises most people don't take into consideration, like you'll need a place that can accomidate a child, you'll want to live in an area that is safe and has good schools. A child needs to be cared for at all times and that means either one parent stays home and does it or you send them to daycare. All that stuff adds up. By the time a child is 18 it is estimated that it will cost well over $100,000 to do it and that doesn't include college. I can't say for sure if your bf is really ready for kids or not. Sounds like the two of you need to have a talk about it. You didn't say how old you are, but i'm guessing since you are posting here you are fairly young. Don't rush into having kids, especially if you are still in school or planning to continue your education. You said you are planning on moving out soon, you should enjoy your independence first. And most importantly having kids is something both parties should be 100% on board with.

Honestly just going off the average male. I would have to say that isnt wasnt so much about having kids as it was he wanted s_x that night...Im not by any means saying he doesnt want kids now or later. Im just saying before making any rash decisions make sure you sit down and talk through this with him. krissy lol i feel like i have already spent well over that amount. I know just with daycare I spend at least 16,000 a year...and thats just for work days. that doesnt count if we need a sitter for school night, working overtime, or husband wife time.....lol man kids are exspensive. i find the worst to be daycare. I have been out of work since late october because of my surgery, and with unemployment i still make just about the same as if i was working, just because the kids havent been with the babysitter since i have been out.....Ahh but i love my boys!! Now if only i could get a girl

I think that was more like him wanting to have s_x and saying he didn't care just so that he COULD. But all in all, you may want to just ask him. But before you both commit to anything as big as a baby, you need to REALLY think about it. The cost, the hard work, every little thing.

Durante, I truely believe it's the child care that kills people. I'm lucky that my MIL watches my dd 3 days a week for free, but before i had my dd i worked full time and now i'm only working part-time and i'm making about $15,000 less a year, that was a pretty big cut for us. I mean i'm happpy with the arangement and i like being home more but we have had to make sacrafices to make it all work.

Ummmm are you kidding me??? Not to poster but to some of the answers! Honey let me explain something to you: the teen brain works a little different and that is why parents always say boys are running from hormones. They are. It's proven. Testosterone flowing in through puberty and maturing seems to throw off the ability to rationalize and see things from different perspectives. Here is the truth, as he is laying there next to you, p___s hard, trying to stay in control, his body gets so desperate that yes he truly believes that he loves you so much. At that point lust is mistaken for love. Desperation creates a block from seeing consequences. He is caught up in the moment though he hasn't even touched you yet. Remember that, but a different way of thinking is occuring when he's working and going to school to provide for you and a screaming child who keeps him from getting any and keeps him from sleeping. The thinking may be different when that stick comes up positive, and sometimes the thinking changes the next day, next week or next month even without a pregnancy. The next time he says something like that, tell him to marry you and then you can have a kid. If he loves you so much and wants a baby with you then he can wait, marry you and then have one. While he's laying in bed with you, nature takes over and his body tells him his p___s is hard, that means release of sperm and release of sperm in a v____a means "we want to impregnate you!" It's very animalistic, and what do a lot of male animals do? They bust a nut, and move on to the next one who's in heat!

thank you V!!! you alway have such a sophisticated way of getting a point across......lol I love you! you are great!