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I believe you said before you were raped and the baby was taken away when you had her.. But yet you still got to b___stfeed her? Yes, Amanda i was a little weary of the super romantic posts as well. Though ive never seen the notebook. There are also qiute a few other things.
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her first baby died from a car accident when she was 6 months old...or at least thats what one of her previous posts said. Ayla, if this is true, it would mean that between the ages of 15 and 17 you had a baby, who at 6 months died in a car accident, then were pregnant with twins and lost them in a car accident when you were 4 months and are now pregnant again. It seems to me that maybe you should look into some grief counseling because it doesnt seem like you are dealing with the tragedies that have happened in your life if they in fact did happen. Its like you keep trying to replace what you have lost. If i am wrong and you are completely ok then im glad for you, but you are very young and that is alot for someone your age to have gone through.
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you are partly right.. I tried to bring her back one time but it didnt work! The twins was the last pregnancy. I am pregnant this time by planning it ish.. Jayson wanted to have a baby and i was like ok we can do that! Not to bring her back but to enjoy the love of a baby! THANK YOU for explaining that. It was so difficult for me to explain! Its still hard to deal with but im working on it :) Jayson understands that and thats all that really matters! She was never taken away from me, they tried so many times to take her away! they never succeeded! She was taken away from me at 6 months old because her dad decided he wanted to take her with him when we just had a bad snow storm. He slid on ice and hit a tree *her side hit the tree* she died at the sceen! There is a whole bunch of quilt still there but I am doing the best i can! excuse my boyfriend for being the romantic type! he does the best he can, to make me happy! Yes its alot to go through at my age but it makes me the person who i am today! I think that person is a very smart one and a very strong one!!!
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*oh i am in counseling by the way and it does help!* i am learning to move on and keep my head high! If it seems like i came off a bit harsh im really sorry but it just bothers me when she is brought into stuff! I am happy where i am in my life right now! I graduate early, I have a wonderful boyfriend, and i am going to have a baby! What more could there be to need? :)
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Hey, Ayla, glad you're getting help and take a really deep breath and try not to be offended by simple things. It's alright really. It's good that you're being helped and you have a bf who supports you especially while in mental anguish. Good luck.
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Im really sorry all that happened to you. Noboby meant anything by what was said. You just hadnt explained things throughly (at least not in the same post) so it made some a little leary. I cant imagine the pain of losing a child at 6 monhs. Ive had 3 miscarriages and i barely got through those.
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Its just really hard sometimes not to get offended.. Jayson told me the same thing though! I called him crying because again when i was reading the posts it made me think about her! He told me not to worry what other people think because they dont know... so i cant let it bother me. I have a baby i need to keep healthy! I am doing the best i can and thats all he could really want! sorry if i upset anyone or made anyone mad..
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well whatever your reasoning...in the end its your reasoning and dont feel like you have to justify yourself to anyone. It does seem like you have found a good place to vent your feelings and let others help you. Good luck with your baby and in all you do. You deserve it.
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I'm still confused. You have a 2 year old, you had two miscarriages, you had a 6 month old that died in a car accident and you're pregnant again? I asked you how many times you were pregnant and you didn't mention ever having another kid?
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I said my daughter WOULD have been two.. meaning she was the one that died in the car accident when she was 6 months old.. she is still my daughter!
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Ohhhh okay. Damn that sucks... I don't even know what to say about that.
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its deffinately not something i want anyone else to go through! i went to the doctors yesterday and the baby is doing just fine! its just like a little coffee bean as my sister says lol
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Ayla- I think you confused everyone when you said you had your 6month old pa__s away in the car accident but saying your 2 yr old, Im very sorrry for you loss, i cant imagine what it would feel like to loose your child at that age or any age for that matter and then to have a miscarriage with twins, I hope you have a happy and healthy pregancy. if you have any questions or need support you know we are here
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If i did confuse anyone i am really sorry.. its just she is still my daughter and she would have been two august 1st.. .i am sorry!
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And it IS possible for guys to be that romantic. Ive heard the way she talks about jayson and I know a few guys who are just as great. And Ayla, I'm glad you are hanging on through this Chika
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I wasn't suggesting she was lying. I was simply remarking on my lack of faith in males in general.
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