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I wasn't suggesting she was lying. I was simply remarking on my lack of faith in males in general.

Im not saying anything either way. I just really hope someone wouldnt lie about something like this and make up such an elaborate story.

AylaRose, sorry but I don't get this guy. He comes home for a week, does all kinds of romantic things and wants you to stay off your feet and then leaves you again to go hang out with his cousin. I mean if he was in the military or he was working out of town it would make sense but this doesn't make any sense. If he wanted to have a child with you he should be there, now, supporting you (espically after all you have been through) and working to earn some money for all the things your child will need. I'll be honest if this were my husband i would be beyond p__sed and severely offended if he thought some rose petals on the ground and breakfast in bed would make it all better. If i were you i would tell him to get his a__s back here NOW! Play time is over, time to be a man and take care or your family. Tell him he made that commitment when he decided he wanted to start a family with you.

he came home because his cousin said he owed me a big appology.. thats why! He takes care of me when he is here! I am trying to be so free with him because i know he is scared. He is so sweet and more than i could deserve. I love him greatly and I know he loves me! He is taking advantage of the last break before its "daddy, daddy daddy!!" He will be a great dad, he has to realize that first!

Well, if your ok with it all i guess it's fine. I was just reading everything you said you have been through and now being pregnant it would seem like you bf would want to be there for you. It just seems to me that if having a child is what he wanted he should have gotten all this out of his system before you started trying. I just think about how hurt i would be if my husband felt the need to leave me for months when he had already made the commitment to having a family. I'm not trying to attaack you or anything. You sound like a nice person and i think you will be a great mom. I was just concerned that your bf wasn't taking care of you. But like i said if your really ok with it all then i guess there is no problem.

Of course i want him here for me and with me.. but he made these plans before we found out i was pregnant.. so i really couldnt say "you need to stay here" i mean it would be nice but i talk to him everyday and what not so in the end it isnt so bad! just gotta keep going!

This guy is being selfish, plain and simple. You both made this baby, it doesnt matter if he made these plans before you guys found out. He should be there with you every step of the way, he should WANT to be there with you during all of this. He's not as great as you seem to think! Alot of guys are scared but they dont run off for months on end. Didnt you say he wanted or kinda wanted this? Well he should have thought about it before! And why should he get this last break? He's not doing anything right now, he has months before the baby s here, that's his break! YOU are the one who doesnt get one! Your growing that kid, your being uncomfortable. I'll tell you, if my husband left me when I was pregnant for months to have fun we would be done.

alyarose i,d just go to a different board like the tri boards these girls will pick at everything i mean jeesh look at what amanda said "Oh... I was thinking like the post about her boyfriend doing all that romantic stuff for her. I didn't want to say anything but what guy is really that romantic? I mean Harold is awesome, but he doesn't go that far... that's like The Notebook status... I just don't have that much faith in males haha :P" i mean jeesh my bf has done romantic stuff like that for me. she obviously just p__sed as she doesnt get treated the way some girls are deserved to be. i wouldnt worry all you have to do is say something and if there board they,l jump on you. there are some nice girls on here like the older ones but some of them well..................

oh and now i read the second the post they all beleive you again........im sorry i just cant stand the way that people would be so inconsiderate! its really sick. none of them have really apolgized for doubting you over such a thing and amanda you say i wasnt saying she was lying just soemthing about your lack of faith in men. oh for god sakes read what you said. you bascailly said harold doesnt treat me like that so no one has romantic boyfriends! and note how i said "BASCIALLY" not "LITTRALLY"

Haha. Are you going to start following me around again Angel? Personally I really don't want to be treated like that, it would make me uncomfortable. If I was unhappy with Harold in any way I wouldn't be with him, and I wouldn't have stayed with him all these years. He may not be perfect but he's perfect for me. I love him to death and I wouldn't change a single thing about him, or the way he treats me. I never said he never does anything romantic for me, but he doesn't go that far. It would mak me uncomfortable to be treated like a goddess instead of what I am; his fiancee, his best friend, someone he can go to when he needs to talk, or wants advice, someone he can be comfortable with and see as another half of himself. That's great if Ayla wants to be treated that way, and good for her that she found someone that will do it. It's just not my cup of tea. I was stating my lack of faith in men because I've never personally met anyone like that, it seems more to me like a young girls fantasy from watching too many overly dramatic romance movies, I don't necessarily not believe there's not a guy out there like that though. I didn't feel the need to apologize because I never accused her of anything. If you'll notice I was a bit confused when the other girls started saying she was acting a little weird. So to Ayla, I apologize if my intentions were unclear, and I apologize if I said anything to upset or offend you, I really meant nothing by it. I wish you the best of luck with your pregnancy, your boyfriend and the rest of your lives together.

doesn't do* make* Pardon me, it's 4am here. I haven't been able to sleep, I think it's catching up with me.

amanda you sound like oyur trying to convince yourself there. and oh i posted on the same post as you oh i must be following you! no i just read everyones post and if i feel the need to reply i do. we dont want your head getting to big do we now

ok ladies, amanda17- please do not appologize! You did nothing wrong! You stated your opinion and thats fine! I am the one who should be appologizing: When it comes to her, i hurt and sordof explode and I shouldnt. So I am sorry if i exploded on anyone! Amanda19- he did want to get pregnant! now thats its here, im a little concerned! I think i should be dating his cousin lol jkjk his cousin is the one that calls me and sees how the baby is doing! I call Jayson or he wouldnt call... I know it sounds bad. But he is a good boyfriend and i love him dearly! He treats me good when he can. before i was pregnant things with him and I were amazing. cuddling watching movies, going out! things like that.... In a way im scared he will leave.. but i cant worry about that.. i was a single mom before i can do it again. Reading what everyone says makes me think of what i do and dont have! Now nobody needs to appologize for anything.. its your opinion and thats fine! I am sorry if i made anyone upset! I didnt mean to. I was just defending my daughter... sounds silly i know but its what i do!

Didnt you guys plan this pregnancy? You tried to get pregnant? So whether or not his plans were made before you got pregnant shouldnt matter. Unless his plans were made way way in advance. Like before ya'll even started trying. Which i doubt but...euther way it shouldnt matter. I cant believe he has the audacity to be away from you that long when you're pregnant with his child. Especially since it was a planned pregnancy.

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jeesh so its notlike it was an accident and he was like oh i dont if i want a kid its a bit of a shock i need some space kinda thing then, well......i dont know what to say to that! you need to put your foot down with him girl! this pregnancy was planned yet he,s acting like a little 15year old immature boy who,s scared. he should be acting like more of a man, i,d tell him he either comes home in november or not at all!