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jeesh so its notlike it was an accident and he was like oh i dont if i want a kid its a bit of a shock i need some space kinda thing then, well......i dont know what to say to that! you need to put your foot down with him girl! this pregnancy was planned yet he,s acting like a little 15year old immature boy who,s scared. he should be acting like more of a man, i,d tell him he either comes home in november or not at all!
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it wasnt an accident it was planned-ish! we werent really trying trying.. but what ever happened happened.. We wanted to get pregnant but we werent like lets have s_x all the time to get pregnant... if that makes any sense. I think if i talk to him maybe i can convince him to come home in november.. i am a very laid back kind of person so i dont like to tell people what to do! I need him to be here and be with his baby *both of us* and maybe i can get his cousin to be like "dude, you are missing out on alot with your child! Its scary and we all know that.. but your gf is letting you come down here!! you dont have to stay down here til January! Go home in November! Be thankful she let you go in the first place!" His cousin calls me and talks to me when either Jayson is there or when he is busy! i tell his cousin.. you know i really want him home in November! his cousin knows that and tells Jayson that but its not getting to his brain! i dont know how to explain it! im really sorry!
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Angel if you'd like to remotely offend me maybe you should actually say something that's true, instead of pulling whatever comes to your mind first out of your b___t. Ayla- Oh I'm nowhere near offended, I was apologizing incase I has offended you! You should stand up for your daughter, you have every right (and maybe even responsibility) to. And as for your boyfriend, I'm not going to say anything bad about him, he seems like a nice guy. Anyone can say "Oh I want to have kids" but when it comes a reality it really is scary. I just don't think he knew what he was getting himself in to (I don't think any first time parent does!) My advice to you is stop thinking about what would make you a good girlfriend and start thinking about what is best for YOU. You are pregnant, you need to feel like he's going to be there for you, and you need to be pampered and feel secure! If you're fine with him leaving and you wouldn't feel sad if he left then let him go, but it doesn't seem that way.
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Ayla,I'm going to give you the best best best piece of advice I can possibly give you. Ignore Angel. She wants to create drama in every single post to people she randomly attacks. She just wants drama drama drama drama... like she doesn't have enough. If you want your post to be full of help, or good things, ignore anything she has to say because it's likely to get other members jumping at her. I've been nothin' but nice to you, so I hope you take it to heart. Honestly I really hope everything goes well. I hope (Jayson was it?) gets his head out of his b___t and spends every waking moment with you :P ( not literally, but you get the idea lol. ) I think you just need to talk to him and be honest about it! Tell him he's going to be missing out on so much and that you REALLY need his help.
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Im talking to him now! I told him i need him home in November and be thankful that i let him stay that long! this baby is not going to get used to your voice and not bond with you *if you know what i mean* within the last 3 months! We find out what the baby is in November and I will be hurt if he isnt here to see it! Dont worry I am never going to tell him to come home now or not at all!!! I also want him to be home before the snow comes! I think he will come home! ill talk to him tomorrow!!
Thank you to everyone!
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Well I'm glad he'll be coming back in Nov. at least. :) GOod luck with everything.
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Sorry i always do that. lol
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I think it's sweet you put an exclamation point at the end of every sentence. It makes everything you say sound that much more interesting haha
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Its weird how putting a ! at the end of a sentence changes how you read it.
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Geesh Amanda, do you have to contradict everything i say?
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Yes Newbaby. Yes I do.... I mean no I don't. Hahahaha
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oh! ok! im so excited about everything i say! No, im so totally kidding! really i am.
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Hm, I like energetic people *shrug*
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yea, i just dont have it in me most days, lol. Having a 14 month old and beig almost 5 months pregnant is hard. Uh-oh, hope angel doesnt read that. Ill be a bad mother for admitting its hard.
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He is coming home in Novemeber.... he is s_x deprived he said.. and after alot of convincing.. I finally got him to come home in November lol I am happy now :) Thank you ladies
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