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beautiful nightmare - I believe since you have gotten your period you aren't pregnant. But if you are still scared, test anyways. In any case, PLEASE please please look into some kind of birth control. You don't want a baby at 14.

Amanda i know the feeling. Eventhough i dont avoid drinking. I avoid hard alcohol. I normally just drink beer, because my father was a alcoholic and it is hereditary. His mother was a alcoholic, his sister is a alcoholic, so i have always been terified, i would become one too. All i drink is beer, when i am at a fancy dinner i will drink screw drivers and occasionaly i will drink jack daniels......my sister became the alcoholic in our family, and I know my limits now, I always have a high tolerance for anything! and alcohol is one of them so i usually prefer to drink at home< because alcohol at bars is exspensive when you have a high tolerance for it...Dh always jokes that i am a exspensive date...lol

I find it easier to avoid alcohol all together. Everyone on my dad's side and my brothers and sisters are alcoholics. They're Irish, it's understandable lol Plus... I am apparently an abnormally light weight. I only had one sip of the drink she gave me before I started feeling weird. I mean I took a fairly big sip, but still. Harold and his sister didn't believe that I really felt it because I had barely anything. I was especially mad at Harold because he new it was alcoholic and didn't say anything. I was just really upset because I had already made it clear I didn't want anything to drink, not even wine.

You're not pregnant. And to avoid all this worry in the future, it's soooooooo simple to use a condom

God you guys had some horrific first times!!! LOL! Sorry for laughing. Yeah see that is why I only drink like 2-3 times a year! I've never had a bad drinking experience. Alcoholism runs in my family too. I have a high tolerance and hard alcohol is like water. I never was a big drinker-never went through the "typical" teen partying phase. I was the goody-goody, but from an early age I noticed how the sight of alcohol makes my mouth water. Seriously! it's so weird. So I stay away as much as possible. I love fruity drinks though so every now and again I indulge. As for my first time (not really a first time drinking but the first time sneaking and getting drunk), it included the same att_tude toward mixing-my best friend's idea! It also included lime kool-aid and tequila! Now the logic seemed pretty clear: Limes and tequila, people take shots of tequila and sometimes hit a lick of a lime-hmmmm! It should work right?? Well it's kool-aid, it doesn't taste like lime! It was horribly nasty and my best friend ended up plastered. Honestly it tasted bad to me too but when my friend got to the point where she couldn't take it anymore, my brain said, hmm more tequila for me! LOL!!! I was 11. So that was when I realized that I had all the makings to be an alcoholic, and to make it worse, we had to make the kool-aid and they didn't have ice so it was nasty and warm!!!! UGGHHH! Amanda, don't feel so bad! All kids are stupid! The dangerous thing about youth is we come up with a game plan and will do anything to execute it, but we never think about the in-betweens and the results. We just have to get to our goal. For you that was getting your lip pierced even though it had to be with something that could make your lip fall off!!! LOL! My best friend did the same thing with her eyebrow and my other bf did the same thing with the top of her ear! I think the whole teen thing is just one big pitfall of life! LOL! Sorry if I get too personal but a random thought came to mind, you guys don't have to answer it-but were your first first times (s_x I mean) as loaded as your first times drinking?!? Sorry I just got to thinking about how when you try to get into anything as a teen it becomes a comical disaster, and remembered friends who had s_x in their teens and God every first time story was a comedy of errors. I bet they look back on it and laugh at themselves for thinking some of the stupidest and most embarra__sing things were cute and romantic!

Nah, not me. After my first drink I felt incredibly guilty. After my friend had left I went out and told the nearest adult what I had done, expecting a punishment. Well the nearest adult was my dad and his response was "How old are you now? You can drink, just share it with me." He wasn't at all mad and that made me mad. I thought "I'm 13 years old and I just stole my grandmother's Brandy... WHY ISN'T ANYONE AS UPSET AS I AM?! 13 year olds shouldn't be drinking!" So I waited for my mom to come home and told her I drank and my dad didn't care... AND SHE DIDN'T CARE! I was so frustrated thinking I had done this horrible thing and everyone was cool about it... Oh but when I got suspended from school for kissing a boy.. THAT was tragic! Their daughter is a whore!..... Anyway I was so frustrated that I called my friend and yelled at her for "making me do that." I wasn't even really sure why I was so p__sed off... I still got that way after Dulce had told me there was alcohol in my drink. I got really mad at her and wanted Harold to be mad at her too. But he just sipped his wine and said "It's not a big deal." It drives me sooooo crazy that no one finds drinking a big deal except for me. I don't know ANYONE who doesn't drink and I really wish I did. Anyway my first time was nothing like that. I avoid telling people my first time because I kinda come off like a whore, but it wasn't like that at all. See if I give you the facts like... I was just shy of my 15th birthday, it was in the back of my grandma's van and I was on top... That just makes me sound nasty haha. But here's the story... He had ran away from home and was actually living in my grandma's van since he had no where to go and my mom said he couldn't stay here. My grandma was much more understanding but still didn't want to p__s off my mom too much so the alternative to it was to live in her van. Well, sleep there anyway. We had been discussing having s_x for a few months because I knew I wanted to give him my virginity. So when my mom went to bed I snuck out my window and went to go see him. We layed there talking for a couple hours, looking at the stars through the windows haha. Eventually one thing lead to another. And the whole me being on top thing... I don't even know I just naturally got in that position. I didn't find it painful or anything, I was just thinking that I wanted it to be enjoyable so that's what I did haha.

LOL! Well you are one of the lucky ones. It took me a few months before getting on top! Let's just say all attempts at insertion failed until then.