Too Early To Tell -pg122454254672

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helpme12 - October 20

I recently lost my virginity about two weeks ago. Then we had s_x again this past Saturday, both times were protected. I am not on the pill, but hopefully soon starting it. Today is now Monday, and i feel like shit. My stomach is a mess near my ovaries. I'm very cramped and bloated. My lower back ache's like crazy. I have in-consistent experiences of faintness and nausea, also I'm constipated. I find myself very tired and just weak, also sudden change of moods. I'm also hungry more frequently than i usually am. I know that these are signs of pregnancy but I also know that it could be that I'm ovulating because I'm in the middle of my cycle, but i never get these symptoms during my cycle. I'm just looking for some opinion's of what it could be, and i would really appreciate your help. Thank you!

 

AddysMummy - October 20

It's a little early. Just wait. It could be your body getting used to not being a virgin anymore too.

 

helpme12 - October 20

alright but I'm due for my period in about 2 weeks. should i wait till then if I am late to get a pregnancy test?

 

newbaby2009 - October 20

Yes wait. It wont be accurate before then.

 

helpme12 - October 20

alright thank you very much. If I am pregnant how do i break it to my boyfriend and my parents?

 

newbaby2009 - October 20

Well id wait and find out if you are pregnant before you worry about that. If you stress to much about it you can actually make your period late or even cause pregnancy symptoms.

 

amanda17 - October 20

If you period is due in two weeks you would be ovulating around now. If these are your normal signs of ovulation I wouldn't worry too much about it. I'd say the chances are slim. You didn't have s_x during ovulation, you were protected, you only did it once and it's probably a bit too soon to be experiencing symptoms (though not impossible)..... It's pretty safe to say you aren't, but if you're worried about it go ahead and take a pregnancy test. Actually I've been meaning to stock up on pregnancy tests to keep in the bathroom for when I worry, that might be a good idea for you too. If it turns out you are pregnant, there's really no easy way to tell everyone. When I told my dad, I wrote him a note... Then with my uncle I just handed him an ultrasound picture and on the back it said "It's a girl!!" ... with my mom I just flat out told her, and everyone else heard it through the grape vine. None of those ways eliminate the stress, but the note and ultrasound picture helped a bit. Good luck.

 

newbaby2009 - October 20

If you has s_x 2 weeks ago and your period is due in 2 weeks, you had s_x right before your period or during? a__suming you have a typical 28 day cycle.

 

AddysMummy - October 21

Yes. Wait until your period. If you miss it, test.

 

durante baby - October 21

If you are on the pill and taking it correctly and also used other protection i doubt you are pregnant. It is probably your body getting use to the new change that has occured. i remember when i lost my viginity, i wasnt due for my period for two weeks and i started about two days after having s_x. when you have s_x and orgasm your body releases somthing called oxytocin, which causes the uterus to contract. that is why when you are near the end of your pregnancy dr always recomend lots of s_x< and the male sperm releases prostaglandens (sp) which helps soften the cervix for dilation for delivery of a baby. When you are on your period or about to start your period those oxytocins release naturally which is what cause your uterus to contract, causeing your period to start. it may be that causeing you some pain and discomfort, and it may behappening during ovulation which will cause you more discomfort. as for the eatting more. that, may be paranoia making you think that you are eatting more.

 

newbaby2009 - October 21

Db read the post you moron, shes not on the pill! Im so kidding, haha. =) Im thinking about being the hideous angelmonkey for halloween. Just practicing =)

 

helpme12 - October 21

Thanks for the advice. I think i'm just worrying because whenever I've ovulated in the past I never had these symptoms, so it just raised the question, could i be pregnant? I know its a slim chance, but we also had to fix the condom a couple times on Saturday so that brought up more thoughts and worrying.

 

durante baby - October 21

newbaby- who ever said that i said that she said that she was saying that she was on the pill. gosh i forgot how pig headed race car driver's wifes are. gosh im so glad i married a pipefitter!

 

newbaby2009 - October 21

haha, you out did me db.

 

helpme12 - October 23

I had s_x the 3rd of October, and then on 18th again. I was ovulating last weekend when we had s_x, so these symptoms aren't from ovulating, because i stopped ovulating before i began to experience the discomfort. I know that its a little early for these symptoms to happen if I was pregnant, not even knowing if I am pregnant or not, it was just an idea and a possibility. My period is due on the 27th and also i never get any PMS symptoms. I'm fine with everything until I actually have my period that's when I have discomfort. Newbaby- yes I do have a 28 day cycle. I'm testing tomorrow morning, and then again if my period is late. I'll let you know what happens!

 

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