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i live on my own with my boyfriend and i'm 17 weeks and 4 days pregnant. me and my bf have s_x everyday but there's one problem he wants me to put things in my va___a. for example last night he wanted me to put a remote i told him no cuz it might have germs that can cause infection. also sometimes he wants me to have phone s_x and other stuff. i'm not that kind of a person but what should i do????
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Tell him. That is the best thing. It may cause a fight but i would tell him. If you arent into putting things into your v____a, then that is his problem.
He sounds like the kinky type, to help meet his needs in s_x, try different things with him, but things that you feel comfortable doing. Dont do something like putting things in your v____a if you dont feel comfortable doing it...
Plus i wouldnt especially now being pregnant be careful what you are sticking up there.
The best thing i can say, or that i would do is next time he brings it up or when you think about it next and he is there tell him.. Hey i don't feel comfortable doing those types of things that you are asking me to do, i want to meet your needs, and make you s_xually satisfied, can we find something we compromise on so i don't feel uncomfortable, and you aren't bored.
Or try bringing your own things into the bed that he might like that you feel comfortable doing.
Its about what meets both of your needs, not just his.
Anyway how is the pregnancy going.. Your are in the beginning of the BEST part of pregnancy. Wait 10 more weeks, you'll start to feel miserable! Well maybe not miserable but UNCOMFORTABLE. You'll pee all the time, constipation, heart burn, constant pressure on your ribs, back ache, insomnia... and sometimes worse for other women.
Have you found out the s_x yet? I didn't until i was 20wks, but some doctors do it different, and when you are 14 weeks i believe they are able to tell but they don't usually do it until later so they don't tell you the wrong s_x, and so they are more certain.
Have you felt it move yet, i did for the first time when i was 17 wks and 1day. Hopefully you've felt it already. Its really exciting!
Other than that how is the rest of your pregnancy going?
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thanx i'll do that. no i don't know the s_x yet till the 14 but it is. they say the first kick feels like a fluter but idk it's my first so idk how it feels. no i feel great just pee alot.
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Just wait until you are further along, you'll pee MUCH MORE, and when the baby kicks your bladder, be ready you'll almost, or actually pee your pants lol.
You should know when it happens. This is my first too, and when i felt it, i knew it was her kicking. I actually put my hand on top of where i felt it, and felt her kick my hand too. It was really cool.
What are you hoping for boy or girl?
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i'm hoping for a boy so when i have a girl he will be the big brother. but ppl say i'm going to have a girl
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I wanted the same thing.
I want no less than 2 children and i wanted a boy first to look out for the younger girl, but my family is ALL girls. my grandma has 8 sisters, my mom has 2 and 1 brother, i have 2/7 boy cousins. Even though the male decides the gender, it still happens that way for some reason. Oh well though, she has a cousin that is over a year older than her on my fiances side that can take care of her. :)
Good luck getting a boy, but either way i hope he/she is healthy.
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A remote?!?!? really?!?!? Im never going to watch TV at you house....lol sorry, but maybe you guys should invest in some toys?
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i know wat ure talking about but he's just crazy
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LOL thank you durante!!! i was reading this post and the replies and i was like seriously, does no one else find it weird that he would want to stick a remote in there cuz when i read it i was like WTF and i thought maybe this happens a lot with girls, I personally have have never done it. maybe get some toys, nothing the vibrates tho during pregancy that can be dangerous. or tell him you are pregnant and if he wants to use things around the house he can stick that remote right up his a__s! HAHA thats such a pregnancy response.....
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Hahaha I had the same reaction but didn't want to say anything >.< If someone asked me to do that I'd be like wtffff you're a psycho! He must watch a c___pload of p___n to even get ideas like that!
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lol at least I know im not the only one to find it wierd! I wasnt sure why no one else said anything, but i guess being quiet about it would have been the noble thing to do, but you guys know me and my big mouth...lol
When dh first presented to me that he wanted to try a___l s_x I told him the only way I would do was if he shoved somthing of equal size of his p___s up his a__s...lmfao
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durante its not that i was keeping quiet i just hadnt read the post yet! LOL my big mouth would have said something too! and well i watch A LOT of p___n and i dont think i have ever seen a remote episode! HAHAHA ok i dont watch a lot but i have seen a good share of it and no remotes! and im kinky but not that kinky!
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Ok, I can say /I/ watch a LOT of p___n. I like p___n and I like to masturbate, guilty as charged. And I have NEVER seen one of a girl sticking a remote in her cooch. That is a turn off. That's like something you'd find on (WARNING - GROSS SITE ) efukt dot com
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wow lol aremote thats gross
gucci you said you allready read it and thought maybe thats what girls do lol
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Now I will say my ex's friends used to be in awe of the p___n stuff where chicks were stuffing stuff up their v____as and they wanted to show me a video of a chick shooting a football out of her vaj but ummm yeeeahhhh....NNNNOOOOO!!! Maybe that's where he got it from but the remote was the closest thing to ask about??? Got I'd run for the hills if a guy asked me something like that-that's just total disrespect for the area that is supposed to be kind of like his gold mine! Also to add to Tess' comment, honey I'd be afraid to respond like that because I'd be scared he'd say, "deal, you first!"
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