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How come a lot of teenage girls think that its so easy to have a baby? I thought that it was easy and i got a beautiful baby girl but its not as easy as everyone thinks. you get barely any sleep if you sleep at all. sometimes i dont even have time in my day to eat. everything i do i have to think how it is going to effect her. to all you young girls who think that its easy to have a baby....its not. and if you think that it will make your boyfriend stay with you. think again because that might not be the case. im not trying to rag on teen moms by saying that you made the wrong choice or anything because im a teen mom too and ik wat its like. but if your 13 14 or 15 and thinking about having a baby just because you want one. think again. its hard. believe me its hard. im 19 years old and i have a job but i cant work right now because of maternity leave so i have to depend on everyone else for things right now and thats not something that you want to have to do. its not easy being a mom. especially a teen mom. all teen moms know that its not easy. so please think about it before having kids at a young age. and once again i wasnt trying to rag on teen moms. i just wish that other teen girls could walk a day in our shoes and see what its like to have a baby and to show them that its not all fun and games like they think that it is.
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I couldn't agree more. I found out I was pregnant just days after I turned 18, my son is due in 3 weeks and I haven't spoken to his father since I was 10 weeks pregnant. It's hard to be walked out on, I've worked this whole time and I still am working full time and fighting through these last few weeks trying to make every dollar I possibly can before I'm on maternity leave because on U.I I won't be making as much. I live with my mom who I am so greatful for because she has helped me so much finachially already. Being a single mom is tough and I'm not even a mom yet, just being a single pregnant teen is so emotionally draining in itself. Young girls need to learn what they are getting themselves into and think about what they are giving up. I love my son, not a single say goes by that I ever wish I could change my decision but that doesn't mean I would go an promote being a teen mom.. ever. It's hard and I'm not even there yet.
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