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That's about all I can think of to say is wow, I mean honestly is the name of this forum Teen Pregnancy or is it Post Here and get Attacked! ??? Almost every single post I have read here seems to be nonstop attacks on the poster... seems to me some people may have too much time on their hands... just my opinion. I know that some of these posts are fakes that is always going to happen, however has anyone stopped to consider that some of them are real, that these are real girls in a real panic because the life they thought they were leading is turned upside down due to either a possible or already proven pregnancy, and that they have come here looking for help or advice or maybe someone friendly to talk to? I'm not saying everyone has to respond to every post with nice kind words, but honestly the name calling and evil comments are really getting out of hand... it's worse than a highschool here... I have seen highschoolers with more maturity than some of the people on here... and it saddens me. Im not going to call everyone out, but one person in particular AngelMonkey- you were attacked when you first joined, were you not? And it didn't feel good did it? Then why would you turn around and do it to the next girl that posts? I know I have done my share of name calling and such however it is getting old, and honestly it has really become rather pathetic... do unto others... just a thought...and for those of you who are preg or are already mommies...take a moment to think how you would want your child treated if it were them coming here looking for help because they were frightened and scared.... and dont give me that bullshit that they would come to you because you would raise them better, because that is not going to be the case trust me..... this is a place for girls to come to looking for help or someone to talk to, instead of being mean and cruelhearted, why don't we all try to be the adults we are and offer advice and support. If you cant do that then why are you even here, if you want to argue and start fights and see who can be the meanest find another site... pregnancy is hard enough add on to that being a teen still in school and trying to figure things out and having your parents disappointed in you and it becomes damn near impossible... I DID NOT start this thread to start a debate, so please don't assume everyone should jump on here and start a fight, I just am fed up with reading how young girls are getting attacked, its really plain out disappointing...
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Meh, I've been a b___h to summersun yeah, but it's so not possible for her to be even PREGNANT everyone else I've been trying to help ( of course not lluknjess the nutter.. ) Don't know what else to say.. but I've been trying to help the OTHERS. ^^
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i suppose i went a little far with summersun (my opinions still stand of llukenjess). i usually try to help where i can and have even tried to ease people's minds when they seem freaked out. true maybe summer is pregnant, but when we explain to her that what she tells us is physically impossible and yet she still lashes back calling names, it's hard to stay nice. i suppose the whole summersun topic is getting old, but as long as lluke drops it, i'm happy to.
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Yeah she called me a s___t lol all because I said it was not possible. >_>
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i called her a liar and told her friend to teach her how to keep her legs shut. but hey it's true! if she's so terrified of getting pregnant and isn't on the pill...don't have s_x! but she's at that age where she knows everything so you can't tell her anything...*sigh* kids =P
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i stilll help other people..........but if theres a fake or someone who is d__n right stupid im going to tell them, i think some of the posts are more about giving them there opinions than attacking them...........yes tish i did get attacked...........by you also..........but then again i wasnt lying im not going to attack someone for know reason but i,l give them my opinion
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tish ive noticed it on other threads also, it is a shame that it gets like that when you think we are all supposed to be pregnant women! i do think there are far too many teens making things up on this site but i just don't bother replying back to them. i also think some people get way too sensitive when someone is giving their opinion and they don't like it so jump on the attack straight away. there was one girl on this site who used to almost follow round anything i wrote and slag it off just for the sake of an argument and i found that pretty pathetic. i have to say though that i think when things get personal its not a nice site to be on and you tend to see this 'ganging up' from a group of 3/4 girls who will do nothing but fly around nasty insults. on one thread i wrote about how i think when we are pregnant we should embrace it and not worry obsess about how much weight we gain etc etc, you should have seen the 3/4 girls who were so viscious towards my comment, it was almost like i had come on condoning murder! ridiculous!
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what i find most worrying is that these teens are actually underage and shouldnt be sleeping around. and in almost all cases their boyfriends (or should i say the men that are using them) are all older than them. i don't often see many people pick up on that fact, instead i just see insults being thrown around at the girl.
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i'm nuts cuz i'm the original one that was trying to help not bash these poor girls and then I WAS ATTACKED yes of course i'm gunna say something back when something stupid us said....tish you are completely right about these people being so rude...all i was tryin to do was stop it and then i get attackedd....LOL and now i'm being blamed but its ok with me....cuz if you havnt noticed i'm not the ONLY person saying you guys were too mean!! LOL and its so funny that the poeple that were being mean are accusing ME LOLOLOLOL my entertainment
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llukenjess what is so lolol!!
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Cat that is well said both statements...it seems that 3/4 girls are 'attacking" in alot of posts., and it is not fair! I kinda feel bad for summersun! So maybe her dates got messed up and she was talking badly about her mother, but she is a teenager! Leave her be is a 14 yr old "liar" really that important to these people? As far as llukenjess i feel bad for her too. Even though she said some nasty things there is alot that was said to her that didin't need to be said. I also feel bad for the number of other girls that have been ridculed for their lifestyles. Not everyone is perfect, and we don't live in a perfect world. People need to realized that everywhere is different and everyone is different. People's taste and styles of living vary from state to state country to country. Who are we to judge whats right and whats wrong?
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Seriously ladies is it THAT important to any of you? None of you even know each other. We are oregnant women and we should be sharing with each other and bonding with each other. And if we come across someone we dont like then we dont have to talk to them. Just leave them be ignore them. They cannot fight with themselves! Lets just have a nice time with no anger involved. Everyone must remember someones opinion is their opinion, and you may not agree with it, but you also cannot change it so don't try! It just causes more drama!
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Its so "LOL" that you're a moron!
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I am glad to see that so many people have read this, and that a lot of them are in agreement that it is getting old, and well pathetic. Now lets see how long it lasts that everyone stops all the bickering and starts actually offering helpful advice? Yes I agree there are a LOT of fake posts, however the fake posts are from girls dying for attention (good or bad) because they aren't getting the attention they crave in life, when you truly think about it you realize that may be due to bad parenting- which is very sad for these girls.... im not saying "play along" with their c___p, just stop and realize for a minute that maybe their home life is not what it should be. On the same thought though, some of these girls really are pregnant, and thats scary enough-then to come looking for help from either pregnant or have been pregnant woman to only be attacked is pretty scary as well when you are a young girl lost as to where to turn. Some of these girls families are very disappointed in them (more so than you think you are with them) so they are looking for some support, and yes pregnancy is exciting, you're bringing another life into the world... so maybe for a second they want someone to share in their excitement as well? Didn't you when you found out you were pregnant? What I am trying to say is think about the whole situation before you type that hateful remark, and consider that these are young girls who are already having to be defensive towards their parents and others around them in real life, may "attack" a sour statement about why they shouldn't have....because it is what they have to do in their every day life...thank you for reading this and being considerate in your responses...and one more thing... ANGELMONKEY i said this wasn't a thread to start fights on and yet the first chance you get you are trying to start one with lluknjess... can you stop for 5 seconds or would you like everyone to come after you again? I can think of a few people who would love to still put you in your place but yet have left you well enough alone because we agreed the fight was over... consider how you felt before you make another mean remark....just offering some helpful advice (the girls here can turn on you in an instant)
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Very well said!! Please lets stop the fighting!
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i agree with your comment tish. one of the threads on here about summer is absolutely ridiculous, it goes on forever and all you see from both sides is foul nasty language. im not condeming what some adults have said on there but i saw summer use a few 'choice' words also so i don't think she set a good example or made a good picture o herself. i do think a lot of it is to do with their upbringing as to how and why they get in that situation but i find it hard to think she and other foul mouthed teens are completely innocent when they probably need their mouths washing out just as much as adults who attack back with bad language. i certainly didnt use or even know half of that language at the age of 14 but then everyone is different. in brief i think people stoop far too low when they get really personal and start swearing in their posts, there is just no need for it.
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