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I totally agree with Cors on the other post-- she stated what I was trying to say but so much better. I would like to ask you, Tish, to perhaps hold back on some things in the future when you post responses. Your statements were rude, hurtful, unnecessary, and implied things about me and my beliefs that were false. I have no problem with you expressing your opinion but I ask you to please state yours without putting down mine, as everyone else has been able to do on that thread. If you're not "trying" to attack someone, then don't. Re-read your posts and rephrase things. I understand being passionate and saying things you don't mean to, or taking it too far, so please in the future be more careful. What you said really upset me so really, please censor yourself more carefully. I don't want to cause drama-- there has been plenty of that flying around lately. I just needed to tell you how I felt and to ask that you be more careful. Thanks! I would love to be able to keep the peace here.
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ok u say u don't wanna start drama yet u post a separate thread just to me, which screams at everyone to read it..cuz peoples curiosity gets to em, just b/c u don't like my post doesn't mean u need to call me out like a highscool student and confront me...u could do what a lot of oher people do when they don't like what they see, they ignore it or post a response on that post... if u read my post I said I disagree...that doesn't mean ur wrong it means I don't see ur opinion I see mine..obviously. and I clearly stated at the end I didn't want to offend I just can't stand watching women who don't stand up for themselves...and obviously since others have posted similar responses to mine then I'm not the only one who gets frustrated by seeing a man treat a woman as less than shes worth. granted I don't know how ur relationship is but from what YOU shared I think you could be treated better...my opinion... which I'm ent_tled to just as u r ent_tled to your own. I do reread my posts hence why I ended the way I ended it.....my goal was not to hurt ur feelings by no means was that the point of my post and I understand ur emotional cuz ur pregnant... but my point was to try and make her see she didn't have to deal with that...she is bringing a baby into this world and from what she wrote its clear she isn't happy so my goal was to point out what she deserves and by example of my marriage showing her it is possible to be 100% happy and not have to "get used to it" as u say. I'm not saying ur mans not worthy of u but ur statement get used to it? honestly? I mean thats ur response to something that could clearly be dealt with differently? get used to it like shes not worth his support and help like shes less of a person then him?!? that I can't agree with I'm sorry I think woman are worth the best life has to offer and that incudes their men.... I'm sorry if I hurt ur feelings...but I won't apologize for feeling that women deserve the best and should NEVER settle. if this came off harsh its prolly b/c I don't like being called out b/c someone didn't understand or take the time to fully read my post.
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let me say...my bad...I wondered why I was being so b___hy I figured I was just tired from lack of sleep cuz my dd isn't sleeping well due to her cold... but apparently af has started, hence my b___hy mood. (of course I had no clue it was coming cuz I'm on the mini pill!) but here's what I want to say and I should have originally said it when u first posted this. I am sorry I offened u..I am sorry I hurt ur feelings. it was not my intention...and I am sorry I was such a b___h in this response post... I just got upset....and well pms apparently was attacking me.... I shouldn't have commented on ur relationship since u weren't asking for advice or anyones opinion on it...and I'm sorry. please understand I really didn't intend to hurt ur feelings in the other thread... I just got upset that her man wasn't helping her more since pregnancy is hard enough and then dealing with her brothers suicide...it just hit a nerve and I went off.... d__n af I haven't had it in 9 months and forgot how mean it makes me yikes! sorry....
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