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sorry about all the drama dawn... hope it works out!

Thank you :o) It's always something with me lol ...I also a very emotional right now so I have to act wisely lol I tend to make rash decisions sometimes when I get upset.

Just in case my post wasnt read on the other thread.... Hey ladies, I was reading through (cuz I lurk and read without posting) but disko you got me craving toxic hell errr.... taco bell and now Im gonna have to send my hubby out for some tacos... LOL... just thought I'd let you know that your cravings are contagious!!!

hahaha dawn i swear i looked all over for the new thread that you started and i couldn't find it anywhere and just when i was about to make another new thread there it was right in front of my face! i am so lame. ooooh girl you are all riled up arent ya? well men can be pigs. i was gonna say dogs but i like dogs way too much to put them down there with all those lame dumb men! lol and believe me i know i've got one of those... taylors dad is so dumb. anywho don't let it get to you everything will work itself out but i know how hard it is. and whoever said that about b___stfeeding is totally lame. b___st is best that what everyone says.... right? so i'm pretty sure that no court would ever make you split custody.... c'mon he would be lucky to get even every other weekend visitation! but my past experiences in court have always put the mother in favor unless she is a total loser which does happen but not in your case. and it is your right to 'shelter' your daughter if that is what he calls it..... how in the hell would he know how to raise a child! he sounds like he is just trying to get under your skin by saying stupid shyt like that! don't even give him the time of day - ignore his dumba__s! oh yeah and heather i got your number and i put it in my phone so i will email you mine too okay. and yeah i feel ya on the stairs! ugh. i've had to drag the laundry basket down the stairs but now freddie and taylor bring the laundry up and down the hellacious stairs!

hahaha krissy! that is too funny! yeah taco hell curbed my craving!

Oh and just another tidbit of info that I thought was funny... My hubby is 100% Mexican who just immigrated her a couple years ago and I asked him what does cinco de mayo celebrate and he shrugged and asked me if it was our (USA) independence day... I had to laugh and was like NOOOO thats the 4th of july.... so apparently we americans (possibly canadians etc too?) celebrate a Mexican holiday that even mexicans dont celebrate. ahahahaha!!

BTW - if Kay remembers me and you here from her, tell her I'm prayin for her and congrats if that little man has come into the world!!!

danw, I read your last post on the other thread... those "lawyers" are absurd... I hope if you do go to court you get a female judge. how can they say they b___stfeeding isn't important? any why does he all of a sudden want custody and stuff, didnt he beg you to get an abortion? what a jerk... Im sorry he's acting like this, it's completely ridiculous. anyway, Im not sure what the law is or what his rights are but I think you could present a pretty convincing case of how he is a jerk who doesn't deserve all the stuff he is asking for. besides, I dont think its very healthy for such a small child to be placed in different (and possible conflicting) environments every other week... kids NEED stability so the every other week deal is just dumb.. I dont think any judge will agree to that. anyway, I hope it all works out...

hey krissy i will let kay know that you are praying for her! thanks i'm sure she would appreciate it!

oh yeah and i got an email from marisol.... she wishes kay her best and was super happy to hear that you, dawn, had a super duper fun time at your shower! she is d__ning the slow internet connection at her work! lol so i told her i would say hey to you all!

great - thanks disko! :) I'll keep an eye out for the number! And Dawn - the court will probably rule in your favor. They are rather biased towards women. :) Lucky you - not so lucky is my dh. :) But he's one of them GOOD fathers - not the lame a__s that doesn't want to see his kids or support them. I'm dying to know how Kay is doing!!!!! I wont' be able to check my computer for the rest of the night so it's gonna drive me crazy!!

Thank you girls ! I just worry alot - and I worry cause he has that set up with his oldest son one week here one week there .... and he is one of those over involved men who can always do stuff better - I know if i had a at home job it would be a lock - cause he woud have to have her in daycare on his weeks and that would be really irresponsible of a court to say that is better then the mom. I just know this world is all about 'equality' lately and I can see that equality biting me in the a__s ... well equality when they can prove it - they cant prove that the man who sits next to you and gets paid more gets it cause he has a p___s .. but in a case of two parents they can fight on that basis. It just sickens me to be honest - and the thought of dealing with his arrogant a__s for 18 yrs is so unappealing ... I should have NEVER told him I was pregnant ... If there is anything I regret it is that. If I was sure about winning that case I would take HIM to court while he has no apartment since she kicked him out and he is in the beginning of going to court with her he cant afford two lawyers or cases. I dont know ... maybe i am just working myself up over nothing but those idiots on that site riled me up and now i feel I have something to prove... I need to relax. I told them all off - one woman told me to pump daily and bring it to him haha (if it was really a woman) and I said it's a shame there are so many women with this subservient att_tude to encourage me to pump and bring him milk daily ... and then I asked if I should wipe his a__s too. Then to the man who told me it was my unilateral decision to b___stfeed to trump the mans right to see his child .. I told him and I quote "Also if I can carry a child and make that sacrifice for 9 months and be the one to birth a child I should be allowed to continue to supply my baby in the manner nature intended without any interruption. I don't see how it is fair for a mother to carry a child for 9 months go through the pain of childbirth then a man can come along and just claim half... must have been a man who came up with that one. I would however be more inclined to allow a man equal respect as a parent if he can do something equally paramount. Maybe that is the problem with society today your too busy ripping children from the arms of their loving mothers for no good reason just to give over to men who cannot emotionally or physically care for them in the same manner. How about this ...since men are just as good as women why don't you give birth and then we won't have this problem" I have no logged off that site and will not return because I am getting way too angry lol

ahhhhhhhh deep breath ... I am relaxing lol .. I just ate dinner and I said my peace to the arrogant idiots on that site and now I am letting it go... I believe I will speak to a lawyer and see what they tell me ... I seriously am considering not contacting him when she is born and going to stay at my moms for a bit and let him simmer.

Dawn -just ask him how he feels about paying child support ... I bet that shuts him up. Even if you don't plan on going after it I bet he stops pushing the issue. Especially since he has to support another child, it will be hard on him. I totally understand where you are coming from on the issue of where the child stays -it's hard with an infant to "split" time. I'm sure you won't have an issue with it if it does go to court. It seems that no matter what these days, the good intentioned person always comes out behind in court. Since I sit on the other side of the fence with the "mans" perspective, I can understand how a man wants equal rights. At the same time, I'm also with a guy who supports his kids AND has been used to seeing them AND was married to the crazy psycho ex. Maybe if you just get all crazy the courts will side with you. :) It always seems to work out that way! haha...plus, don't you have some emails from him that make him sound a bit unstable?? I'd stay away from those legal sites too - they usually get me all worked up too. Hey - I'm gonna guess Kay had her baby since we haven't heard anything.

OMG EVERYONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Kay just sent me another text message and she said that her little baby boy should be here in about another hour or so!!!!!

Kay said that she has been having contractions pretty much three minutes apart for ten hours now and she is hanging in there but she is ready to be done!