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LOL you are freaking yourself out! Stop it! Yeah you were visiting chas in nicu for how long? I've been talking to kay and Curtis jr is doing good. He is still in nicu but for probably only about one week. It looks like kay will be coming home either tomorrow afternoon or Friday morning. And she misses chatting with everyone. But she is resting and recovering! So that is super good. Have you heard anything else on marisol and baby Chelsea? I hope they are both doing well.

Tell kay I send my love and keep her and Jr in my prayers!

Gabby?!?!?!?!?!?!!?

well that just goes to show that you are a hands on momma! Nothing wrong with that! Yeah I sure will tell kay your message. I'm talking to her right now. Aww. The shyts suck. LOL I just ate like 5 pieces of pepperoni and black olive pizza now I'm sure I'll be paying for it later but oh wow did it taste so good. Hey yeah where is gabby today? Weird cuz she is never MIA !!

dawn, the check in appointment is just like pre admittance, so that they dont have to update (or make) a file for you while you are in labor.. they just get it ALL taken care of before hand... they will ask you a million and a half questions about your health history, family history, if you speak any other languages... lol its best to do it early. also you wont have to fill out all that paper work when you get there they just wheel you into your room and you are ready to go. anyway, I saw your post this morning and just now had time to respond so I hope yall didnt already talk about it LOL

Christie... I JUST saw your post... sometimes things get lost in the conversation. I know I am sooooo excited that DH will be home soon (ish) it feels like he has been gone for a lot longer than he has.

fefer1: I hope your lo stays put for a little while longer. Wow, 3cm dilated already. How far along were you when you had your little girl? When is everyone due again? I need a refresher. I am having my 2nd boy - Jaxon - and am due June 4th.

hey girlies - I still have the runs like crazy - I hate it! I read all the preterm labor stuff too - freaked me out! I was walking around Target and he was pushing so hard I thought he was gonna come out my b___t! I kind of feel yucky too - just an overall ill feel. I also read that second time mothers don't drop till labor starts or close too it - but I already have. I'm really worn out and getting crankier too. DDT - I was induced and I think I was 3cm/70% at 40 weeks....but I can't remember exactly.

DDT I am due june 4th as well with my 2nd. Wow so I was up all night with poopie cramps and in the toilet every half hour if not MORE ... I had the cold sweats all night my whole back and belly are sore ... Im keeping chas home today cause I feel so ill .. i need her to help me with the puppy

I dont know if this is the flu or if I should call the clinic - cause my mouth is dry and these cramps when they hit are SO bad ...and i feel hot and cold at the same time... I dont know what to do and what sucks is i have no one to help me besides my 11 yr old - like if i go to the hospital right now. I dont want to go to the hospital for a flu though. O and i got an email this morning for the donor and he was all telling me how he cant pay 400 a month (which is nothing) because he wants to get this really nice apt for 1025 a month so all the kids have their own rooms and all ... umm so he wants to live better then me so what he can look better and then go to court one day and they will all be like oo look at what a nice place he has he is so put together and try to take her from me - and I will be the one who helped him accomplish that ! I dont know about all that

Dawn, call the clinic! It sounds like you could have the flu, but seeing as how everyone is starting to have their babies right now, better safe than sorry;) Yeah, the donor's logic is ridiculous, and honestly, there aren't too many judges that would agree with his train of thought -it's the right of the child to be ent_tled to child support so that the child's standard of living would be the same as if the parents were together (i.e. both parent's incomes considered). Having one parent (the parent having access) have a big fancy place while the custodial parent is not receiving child support for the child (so that the access parent can have a fancy place) is ridiculous, and in addition to regular child support, the judges here would probably order retroactive child support to be payable and costs...since that argument is ridiculous at best. Do you have child support tables in the states that are used to determine how much child support is payable??? Here, the child support payable is based solely on the payor's gross annual income -doesn't matter how much their rent is....it's up to them to figure out what they can afford for rent AFTER child support is paid and get a place based on that. Geez, I wonder if I'm starting to progress yet....everyone is talking about dilating and effacing! My next appt isn't until next Wednesday -I don't have one this week since my Dr's on vacation. Now I want to know if I am too!!!

Hey girls! Sorry I was MIA yesterday, I was feeling really c___ppy and didn't want to bring everyone down with me. I had the poops for a couple days but thankfully it stopped yesterday. Today I'm just miserable again, I haven't slept well in a few weeks and I'm nausseous everytime I eat or don't eat, it's neverending. I was feeling super crampy last night and was having painful BH for about an hour, like 7 -10 mins apart. I called my doctor and they told me it was most likely because of the heat and being on my feet too much. I just didn't know when to go to the hospital or when to just rest, so they said rest and if the contractions continued and got more intense and closer together then to go to the hospital. So luckily it stopped, but I was kinda freaked out, it makes me wonder if I'm dilating or whatever. Eastcoast I'm not going to the doc until next weds too, so I'll mention all this stuff to them when I go then. Dawn, I was gonna tell you that Fred and I would come up for a visit this weekend with Tank if you were up for it but I don't think I will be. I've been feeling like total c___p and to make matters worse the weather is so ugly today. Oh but on a good note, my boss hired someone so I get to stop working soon.

And Dawn, I'd call your doc. I had those same poopie cramps last week and I was like 2 minutes away from going to the ER. The only reason I didn't go was because I was afraid of having to poop at the hospital, haha. But the cold sweats and the cramps sound like the flu. But it's better to be safe and just call them. And about the sperm donor, screw him. Maybe he should have thought about the child support payments before he went around knockin people up. When me and my sister were little, like 20 years ago, my dad payed 125 a week, which was even very little then. So you asking 100 a week for her is like a joke, he should be thrilled with that. Oh and also if he has so many kids floating around now, maybe he should get a better job. Wow I am a miserable hateful b___h today, haha!

You girls are so right ..he is worthless he was telling me he would buy her stuff etc i dont even care I feel too bad to care right now- I called the clinic and they left me on hold for 15 mins then i call back it says hit 2 if you think you are in labor i hit 2 and it says leave a message !! so i called back and got someone and the nurse answers doesnt even ask my name just tells me to drink water and go to bed umm ok She doesnt care that I had chastidy at this point I guess last time ... or that my poo is like mucus and had a lil blood in it which i think is awesome dont you ... and also that these cramps are borderline unbearable ...yet here i sit with my friggin water ... ugh im p__sed and I am going to bed I feel SOOOOOO bad

hey ladies -I feel much better today! Yay! we'll see if the poops come back or not. Glad you're feeling a bit better gabby. I can't sleep much either but the tylenol pm helps a little. It's just that when I wake up at 3am to pee I have a hard time getting back to sleep - and my dh leaves at 7am and wakes me up when he gets up - and then I know my dd will be awake between 7:30 and 8 so I can't get any more sleep. Almost there though! As for the child support thing - well, like I mentioned before, there should be a Division of Child support in your state that you can contact and get paperwork to fill out for support - where you don't have to go to court - and they have tables for support based on income etc. If he is paying support for other children, they will consider that as well because they can only take so much of his income by law. I THINK it's around 40%. Each state is different though - some they calculate on gross, others net - minus all sorts of things. It can get complicated for sure, but hey - even $400 is better than nothing. :) Also, in a lot of states, the older they get the more expensive they are and you can ask for more $.

maybe you have a bit of the flu or something? Or maybe it's early labor? Just drink lots of water! Where is everyone today? I'm bored!! :) My niece is over playing with my dd so I have time to chat or clean house or whatever I'm not supposed to be doing. haha....so much for taking it easy. I have my clothes packed for the hospital but need to get my toiletries ready. Kind of got some of it out and ready but it's hard to do - I'm so scatterbrained. Now I feel great - no back ache or poopies - just tiredness. I'm going to be so p__sed if the doctor got us all worked up and I deliver in a month. :) The weather is so nasty here too - gray and windy and cold and sprinkly. Where is my spring??????