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ok so I am right at the tail end of my second trimester, and up until now it was all celebrating ad "yea were haveing a baby :) " but now it's like reality is really sinking in and Im beginning to start worrying like what if Im not a good mommy?, or what if he is'nt happy with us?, or what if we don't teach him everything he needs to know for life. I have realized I think I have actually changed like 2 diapers in my life time and I have never even held a newborn before. Im wondering if anyone else has gone though this and if its normal worries or not. all I want to be is a good mommy and a good wife (im getting married a few weeks after the birth).
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I think that is totally normal. As I get closer to my DD, I've started thinking the same thoughts. I think it's natural to worry. I took a baby care basics cla__s to help teach me what to do when the baby is here. Even though most of it was common sense, I feel better having taken it. I've also been reading a lot about newborns and what to expect with b___stfeeding, etc. Preparing as much as I can is helping me fight those thoughts. Plus, as I've been told, just the fact that you are worrying about being a good mother proves that you care and that you will be. Hang in there!
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Then you will be a good mommy and wife! Having a baby is a life changing experience and I think we all have doubts. This is my first baby but I was lucky that my sisters and friends have all had babies, so I have had a lot of practice. I am still nervous though that I will not know what to do when he actually gets here. But we have our maternal instinct ingrained in us and we will all do fine. I am sure of it.
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